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What Is Your Aura?

Aura

Everything around you is made up of energy, especially you.  This means that energy is always getting picked up from the places that you are and from the things that you feel. You can pick up both negative and positive energies in the world around you.

Understanding the Aura

Since everything is made up of energy, it is something that will light up around you. When you meet people for the first time, or even over and over again, you will pick up their energies. This is energy from the aura.

Each person has their own energy field, or aura, and it has energy that is full of colors. These are your colors, and they are based around the energy that you have or based around your mood. The color of your aura can change from time to time depending on what your mood is.

If you have recently went through your awakening, you might have an aura that is changed because of the experiences that you went through. Or, if you have gone through the death of someone that you love, your aura will be different then as well.

Your aura color will change because of the different things that happen to you and the different things that you experience. The interesting thing is that your eyes can see the aura, and this can happen for you if you develop this psychic gift.

Seeing Your Aura

There are different ways that people will do things to try and see their aura and some are more effective than others. This will depend on you and how well you are able to pick things up around you.

One way that you can see your aura is to put your hand against a white wall. This wall has to be white in order to be able to see the colors that your aura has. Make sure that your fingers are all spread out and then look between your first finger and your thumb. Let your eyes get blurry or unfocused and you should start to see colors outlining around your hand. The color that you see is what color that your aura is.

Mirror Technique

Another way to see your aura is to put a mirror in front of a white wall. Stare at the wall and let your eyes become unfocused. Look through your peripheral vision and see if you see a color that outlines your body. Don’t look right at your aura because this will cause it to disappear.

You can use either of these ways to see your aura color or you can figure out your own technique. Some people are able to get this right away while other people aren’t able to pick up on their aura so fast. Keep practicing and don’t give up and you will see the colors that surround your being.

Colors and Auras

Auras are made up of colors and each color has a different meaning. They work with your chakras, and you can tell if your chakra is balanced or not by how colorful or how bright your aura is or isn’t.

Blue, for example, is representative of the throat chakra. This is the place where your communication works well. If your aura color is blue and is bright, your aura is probably strong.

Pink or green work with the heart chakra. If you have went through heartbreak recently then your aura might be faded or might be dull. This can mean that your heart chakra needs to be balanced.

Final Thoughts

Your aura can tell a lot about what you are feeling and who you are. Practice seeing the colors of your aura so that you can be sure to keep your mind, body, and soul on the right track.

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Getting Rid of Negative Energies

Getting Rid of Negative Energies

Do you ever get yourself in a hard spot and you don’t feel like you can’t get out of it? Or do you feel bad and you can’t figure out why you aren’t feeling good? What about the times where you start feeling great and then you see something in your life or someone and it totally changes your whole day?

There are days when you might not feel good and you might not even know why. Or, you might know on some days why you are having a bad day. The world that we live in is all energy. Everything has its own vibrations. Some of the energy is positive and some is negative.

Each thought that you have and every word that you speak will put out energy into the world. This energy can affect anyone that comes in contact with it. If you come around someone that always seems to be full of problems and you are around them, you might start to have bad things happen to you such as your car breaking down or you getting sick. Is this person negative all the time?

Thoughts and words go into the world and when they are negative, they send out negative energy into the world. The more negative a person is, the more negativity will come back to them. This is the Law of Attraction because like attracts like. It is important to protect yourself from negative energy.

How can you get rid of negative energy in your life and protect yourself from the negative energies of other people? When you have less negativity and you learn to be more positive, you can see that you can be the light. Work hard to put out good vibrations and get rid of negative energy before it gets in your way. Here are some ways to be more positive:

Electronics

One of the best ways to get rid of negative energy is to turn of your electronics. Unplug all of them. Turn of the television, the computer, your phone, the lights and more. This can help you to have less stress in your limbic brain.

The stress that comes from these things can cause your body to respond and it can cause you to have to go into survival mode. This can cause you to have tiredness and to feel drained and exhausted. This happens because you pick up this negative energy.

Science shows that EMF’s are bad for people and if you want to get rid of these and negative energy, try to unplug for a while. You might not be able to do it for long, but even for a little bit can be helpful.

Music

Try to play some positive music. Try classical music that can work with your cognitive functions to make you stronger. This can also help to enhance your mood and to help you to improve your chi or your life energy.

Classical music has a good effect on anyone that is living. It can help to produce milk for babies, help to settle down stomachs, and to sooth the soul. To get rid of negative energies, try to turn on music such as classical music and let your positive energy get stronger.

News

Don’t spend a lot of time watching the news. The news is normally depressing and can cause you to have stress in just a few seconds. Avoid watching the news so that you can be strong. Start watching the news very little and you will see that you feel better.

Since the news is full of violence and pain, watching it can cause you to have more cortisol which is a stress hormone. Just talking about the news can make you feel more negative. People that are empaths will pick up this negative energy more and by turning off the news, you will feel better.

Essential Oils

Essential oils are healthy. This can bring goodness in your life. It will help you to be grounded, to feel refreshed and to even relax. There are different oils that are good for different things and many of them help to heal the mind, body and soul.

Energy from essential oils can help to get rid of negative energy and can raise your vibrations. Not all essential oils can be eaten and you need to make sure that you use them right. Try diffusing them in a diffuser and see if they can make you feel less stressed. Here are some of the best ones:

  • Basil: Gets rid of negative energies in crowds.
  • Cypress: Increases good vibrations.
  • Frankincense: Gets rid of internal energy that is negative.
  • Juniper: Removes negative energy in the health.
  • Lavender: Increases calmness and relaxes you.

Make sure that you are using your oils that are a therapeutic grade. Some oils are cheap and they have carrier oils that are broken down and are not as powerful. Find the ones that will keep your energy raised.

Decluttering

You can take time to declutter and to get rid of some of the items in your rooms. If there are things that you aren’t using, get rid of them. Move furniture around and rearrange your space to get rid of some negative energy. Remove the bad vibrations and try to bring color into the room. Add plants and flowers and rearrange your area so that you have more room. Clean your kitchen and your bathroom and increase your positive energies.

Final Thoughts

These are some great tips to get rid of negative energy out of your life. If you find that you are feeling tired or worn down, use different ideas to try to increase your energy and to make you feel stronger in who you are. Keep your life positive.

Ways Your Guides Try to Warn You

Ways Your Guides Try to Warn You

Most people that you meet will believe in some sort of guide but some don’t realize how much the spirit guides affect their lives. The spirit guides come to show you more than you imagined.

If you aren’t sure that you have a spirit guide, the guide can be an angel or it can be another spirit that was given the job to watch over you. It works with you rather you know they are there or not.

Spirit guides are helpful and they protect you and watch over you. They will tell you when something is dangerous and they will show you which path you should take. You have to learn to talk to them to know what they are trying to say. The messages that they send you can help to save you from bad things.

Signs from Your Spirit Guides

Here are some of the ways that your spirit guides try to warn you:

Smells

Sometimes a guide will give you a certain smell to warn you. This could be smoke, and you will get out of the building before it catches fire. You might even smell something burning that is warning you to pay attention to your surroundings.

Items

Some people lose items or misplace things for a purpose. Your guides might do this so that you will take more time to get where you need to go or so you will be late. This could be your cars or your cell phone. If you had left on time, chances are you might have been involved in a crash.

Memories

Another way that your guides will warn you is through memories. They might give you a memory that you forgot about to warn you not to go back into some kind of danger.

Doubt

Sometimes a spirit guide will give you doubt so that you can questions things before you make a decision. Pay attention to what you are doubting to see if it seems dangerous or not.

Through Dreams

Dreaming is one of the biggest ways that a spirit guide will communicate with you. Your guide can give you dreams that can help you to avoid danger. Don’t avoid what happens in your dream because they can be very real for you.

Emotions

Sometimes your guides might make you have strong emotions so that you can know if you feel unsafe or uneasy. Never ignore the feelings and emotions that you are having.

Déjà vu

Déjà vu can show you when something might not be quite right. Be aware of what is going on around you and if you feel that you have been there before or that there is danger lurking, there might be.

Electrical Movements

Your guides might flick on the lights or the television to warn you of impeding danger. These things usually come with other signs surrounding them so pay attention.

Encounters

Having a spirit guide is like having a best friend and they can set you up with different encounters to guide you. Maybe you have met someone that you never saw before, and they give you a warning. Always listen.

Empath’s and Trauma Trigger’s

trauma trigger

Are there people in your life that are trauma trigger people? This can be something you could battle but if you are an empath, this can be harder. By having a trauma trigger by you, an empath will have a hard time not having painful emotions to creep up on them by just the mention of a name or a situation.

Empaths have strong emotions and they can be both good and bad emotions. People that are empaths are there to bring light to the world around them but sometimes this means that they are required to feel the darkness around them when there is negativity. There are also some people that cannot get past their trauma and they are people that are often trauma triggers.

These people will take their energy and will bring it to you rather it is good, angry, sad, dark or whatever. They will try to make you feel their behavior and their emotions so that you can feel their darkness too. These people will point out things and will find fault in everyone around them.

Who Are Trigger People?

People that are dark can be anyone. It can be someone in your family, a partner, someone you work with or even a teacher. They are people that take the life out of you. They have had a past and they were not able to get over it so they spread their negative energy to everyone, creating a trauma response to everyone they meet.

If you are someone that is positive and peaceful, being around a trauma trigger person can make you feel sick and uncomfortable. This happens because they bring their painful emotions and their negative energy around you.

No matter how long it is between the last time you have seen them, right when they come around they will make you uncomfortable. They will bring painful responses to you, especially if you are an Empath and then you will have a hard time dealing with your body and your mental place. Some empaths will even feel pain in their body around these people.

Since an empath can relate to things other people have been through, a trauma trigger person will send their emotions to the empath and the empath will have to relive the trauma over and over and will feel that it is a loss of their own.

Is it a Psychic Attack or a Trauma Trigger?

People often have both trauma trigger’s and psychic attacks. A psychic attack is something that comes to you randomly such as a negative feeling or a negative thought. This happens because someone is sending negative energy to you even when you aren’t around them.

Once you learn to recognize if it is a psychic attack or not, you can learn how to battle it. A trauma trigger is something when someone comes around you and mentions a trigger in a conversation. If they mention someone negative, that person will come into your thoughts or your energy and it will cause you to react.

How to Deal with a Trauma Trigger

Trauma trigger people cannot always be stopped from making a connection with you. You have to learn to deal with them in a way that you stay grounded and protected. You need to make sure that your mind, body, and soul are strong.

If you are around someone or hear a name and it causes a trauma trigger, you might have an aura that is dark or one that is unbalanced. Make sure that you stay grounded and that you are able to find balance before being around anyone or anything that you know is going to be negative or to bring darkness into your life.

Getting Rid of Negative Energies

Getting Rid of Negative Energies

People feel energized from their fun things that they do but what happens when you feel that you no longer have any energy? This can come from strained relationships; hard work loads and even just stress. Maybe you just feel withdrawn and tired.

Even being part of the pandemic for the past couple of years could have left you feeling a lack of energy. By feelings of lost and worry, many people realize that they have had to deal with hard emotions. It can be hard to deal with the negative energy that has built up in your life. There are ways that you can push past this though.

Pay Attention to What You Let In

You have to learn to control things that you are taking into your life. Listening to the news can be informative but if it brings you fear, stay away from it. There is no point in allowing yourself to be upset or negative over what is going on in the world.

If you have to watch the news, just watch it in moderation. Get the details of what is important and then find something else to do. When it starts to stress you, get away from it. Even talking to people can bring you stress. Avoid these kinds of people.

Dance, dance and Dance

One of the best ways to build up your positive energy is to dance. Dance and move around. Shake off anything that doesn’t fit you. Dance to the music, shake to the music and move.

Even animals will sometimes shake after they experience something hard, this can help you get rid of negativity.

Cleanse Your Aura

Keeping your aura strong is important to keep out the negativity. You need to sit or stand where you can get comfortable. Put your feet and your legs to the ground and pay attention to what your feet are feeling. Take in a deep breathe and let your arms move up to the top of your head and then let the breath out as your hands go down your body. Move and breathe and do this as fast or slow as you want.

As you inhale and exhale you are allowing your aura to be cleansed. Do this at least 5 minutes to sweep away anything negative that is holding on to your energy.

Chanting at Sleep Time

Before you even lay down to go to sleep, say a chant that makes you feel good. Do this so that you can feel safe and protected. This will allow you to forget what is going on in the world around you and to feel powerful. You can try the chant, “om” before going to sleep or find more voo chanting online.

Meditation

Meditation is one of the best ways that you can feel better. While you are relaxing and letting your mind clear, you will see that you have a space where your emotions can be calm. Meditation can make you aware of who you are without the stress.

If you are stuck at home or at work, be mindful of who you have around you. You can even start a group meditation if other people need to do it as well. This can make the energy around you even more positive.

Having kids that are hyper can get you frustrated. Pull on your ears and massage them and this can relax your mind because of all of the 300 acupressure points in your ears.

Essential Oils

Incense and essential oils are known to clear the space around you. If you need your mind to be calm, try burning some scents to make you feel better. You can do sage or other herbs that can help to get rid of negativity in your air. Not only this, but studies have also shown that this kind of burning can get rid of bacteria as well, keeping you strong in your mind and your body. Let the positivity come into your area.

What Does Your Orange Aura Mean?

Orange Aura

Auras are part of your energy centers that surround your body. These are usually one or more colors, and this can change minute to minute. The color of your aura has to do with your mood and how you are feeling. Each color and shade has its own meaning.

If you aren’t sure what color your aura is, get an aura reading and find out what your aura says about you.

Orange Auras

An orange aura is one that means you are taking action in something. People with this color aura often want to have change.

Peach Aura

A peach aura can mean that you are communicating with others and that you have new ideas. This is often people that are teachers or writers.

Tangerine Aura

An aura that is tangerine in color means that you are spontaneous, and you live an exciting life.

Pumpkin Aura

The color of pumpkin can mean that you are disciplined in all you do, and you are very detailed.

Burnt Orange Aura

This color aura can mean that you are looking for change in your life and that you will do anything that you need to do to make that change happen.

Sacral Chakra and an Orange Aura

An orange aura works with the sacral chakra because it is represented by the color orange. This means that you are creative and have strong sexual energies. This can mean that the energy that you have is very strong and intense. Chances are that if you have an orange aura, your sacral chakra is working perfectly.

Downfalls of an Orange Aura

The orange aura means action, and this can mean that you are constantly on the move. This can mean that you are burnt out easily because you are always working to make things happen. Take time when you come up with an idea and don’t rush into things.

Not all orange people will work that hard, but this is often seen in an orange aura because people act before taking time to rest. This means they work hard, and they use up all of their energy fast.

Orange Aura and Relationships

People with an orange aura often do things on their own. They have a hard time giving into others and this makes their relationships struggle. They do usually have a good sex drive. They like to please others and give gifts, but they are often controlling.

Orange Aura and Careers

Those with an orange aura will work to make people impressed with their work. They will do good on a team and will be charming and get the job done.

Orange Aura and Communication

Most people with this aura are very charming. They will be able to give their ideas to others and will be smart and outgoing. This aura is normally smart and stimulated in things.

Final Thoughts

An orange aura is strong energy and is not a very common aura color. When you have an orange aura, embrace it. Be creative, spontaneous and powerful. But when you need to take a break, do that so you don’t get overwhelmed.

How Long Should You Do Shadow Work?

Do Shadow Work

Once you decide that you are going to do shadow work to better yourself, it can cause you to feel stressed. This is something that can be hard but is a way for your to grow.

How Long Should You Do Shadow Work?

Shadow work is a time where you will have to face the dark things about yourself that most people don’t want to deal with. This can be work that never actually ends but as you do it, you will grow.

Carl Jung talked about how you use your conscious mind and with this comes your unconscious mind which is where your shadow dwells. You can only get rid of your shadow once you are completely enlightened.

The thing is, many people don’t choose to face their shadow and when you decide that you want to grow, this will be a time where your shadow will come out. Once you begin doing shadow work it is something that you cannot turn a blind eye to. This will be a place where you explore the deep parts of yourself, and you become aware of who you are.

As much as you want to grow is as much shadow work that you will have to do. The only thing is that it gets easier over time.

How Does Shadow Work Get Easier?

Once you begin shadow work you will often get stressed or overwhelmed. This happens because you suppress your unconscious for so long and then when it comes out it can be hard to face. Some people have nightmares when their shadow comes out while others sometimes face an identity crisis.

As you work through your shadow self though, you will see that you can understand things better and that you can have peace through it all. Reaching different cycles will become easier and you will see that your identity will show you things that you can begin to accept. You will even be happy that you have begun your shadow work.

Stopping Your Shadow Work

You don’t have to do shadow work all the time and you can take breaks from this. If you start to get too overwhelmed or stressed, then you need to step back. You must be patient with yourself and allow yourself to feel the experiences that you are having. You won’t become better overnight because this takes time.

Take a break if you begin to feel any of these things:

  • Need sleep or have a hard time sleeping.
  • Are having nightmares.
  • Get angry fast.
  • Lose friends around you.
  • Become overwhelmed or depressed.
  • Lose your identity.

When any of these things happen while doing shadow work, it means that your ego is out, and you need to take a break. Take this time to meditate, talk to a friend or go to therapy.

Final Words

Shadow work is a way for you to know who you are and what is inside of you. Even though the work is continuous, you need to recognize that this is a way for you to come to a knowledge of who you are and what you need.

Every time you do shadow work you release negative energy. As you learn to accept who you are, you will see that your energy will be released, and you will get rid of any burdens holding you back.

Take your time and be patient. If you need a break, take one. This journey is one that will last for your entire life and so there is no need to be in a hurry. You will benefit from your shadow work and as you work through the darkness, you will see the light at the end of the tunnel.

Are You a Selfish Person

Selfish Person

Some people don’t realize that they are selfish. Having behaviors that are selfish can mean that they don’t put others first and they only care about themselves. Being selfish can mean that you don’t worry about how your decisions affect others and you only deal with it when you have to face the consequences.

Selfishness and self-care are different, and you should practice self-care by making sure that you are taken care of. Selfishness means that you are insecure, controlling and you might have mental situations such as being a narcissist.

Are You Selfish?

When you aren’t able to compromise and you are manipulative, chances are that you are selfish. You might be selfish and not even realize it. Here are some signs:

  • It’s your way or no way: Being this way in a small way is okay but when everything has to be your way, you are probably selfish. If your partner makes a decision for both of you and you refuse to agree to it, it could mean you are selfish.
  • Controlling: You will never let your partner or other people have an opinion. If they make decisions, you are already against it. You want to control yourself and others.
  • You love to manipulate others to make things your way. You will manipulate your friends, family and even strangers. You might be a liar and you don’t care about how you make people feel. You might be self-absorbed, and you don’t care about the happiness of others.
  • You never apologize: People who are selfish never apologize. You call other people out if they are sensitive and you even have narcissistic traits. Apologizing when you hurt others should be the first thing that you do.
  • You aren’t giving: You want to focus on yourself and not worry about what anyone else has. You don’t put yourself in other people’s shoes and you only focus on how you feel.
  • The communication you give is negative. You have a hard time communicating with others and this can lead to emotional abuse.
  • You talk about others behind their back.
  • You don’t value the time of others. You don’t care about how people feel and what is going on. You don’t value others and you are only about yourself.

Selfish People

When you deal with someone that is selfish, you can never do enough for them. You can exhaust yourself trying to make them happy and it will never be enough. If you have a selfish partner, they won’t care what you do, and they will never try to give or change.

A person that never is thankful for what you do for them is selfish. One of the best decisions that you could make is to leave them and do what you can to please yourself.

Final Thoughts

Are you selfish? If you are and you have these signs, chances are that you need to change. Know that your feelings are real, and that other people have feelings to. Try to be kind and loving and get to a place where you can change your behavior.

Good behavior can bring you positive thoughts and feelings. This will help you to be healthy and help you to get past your selfishness.

Traits of a Person with Spiritual Gifts

Spiritual Gifts

Are you someone that feels like you have more of a purpose than what you see in the world? Do you consider yourself to be special, but you can’t really explain why? Do you talk to the spirit world, and you don’t even realize it? If you said yes to any of these things, you might have a special gift.

Some people have gifts of being very spiritual. They are people that are able to reach their spiritual self without trying. Here are some traits that spiritually gifted people often have:

Trouble Sleeping

Maybe you have always had a hard time sleeping or falling asleep. This can mean that you have a relationship with the nighttime that is different than others. You might be connected to the spiritual world which can lead to nightmares. This is because there is a witching hour between 3 and 4 and the energies are strong, especially during full moons.

Strong Imagination

People that have spiritual gifts often have strong imaginations. They are able to think of things and they have dreams of different worlds. They are very creative because of their wild dreams.

Knowing the Future

Some people with spiritual gifts are able to read into the future. They might be able to know what is going to happen but sometimes people don’t believe what they say. Talk to a psychic to see what you can do to develop your gifts.

Hurt People Hurt You

One thing that might happen if you have a spiritual gift is that you are hurt when other people hurt. You feel the pain others feel and you want to make it better. When you have this gift, you might feel strong emotions when you are around someone that has strong emotions. This can happen even when someone is far away.

You Are on a Spiritual Journey

Maybe you find that you are on some kind of spiritual journey. Even if you don’t understand it, you might realize that you are different and that your path is confusing. This can happen because you are trying to be different, and you are working towards your spiritual self.

You might be someone that has always been drawn to toxic people and now you are trying to get those people out of your life and find those that will help you on your journey.

Loving Animals

You could be gifted if you are someone that animals are drawn to. They might come to you because they feel your strong spiritual connection.

You Bring Calmness

Just like animals are attracted to you, people might be as well. This can happen because you are strong, even if you don’t know it and you offer a sense of calmness. When people are around you, they feel calmer, and you make them feel loved.

Strong Emotions

Those that have spiritual gifts often have strong emotions. This can mean that you are excited at one minute and then mad the second. You might cry and then laugh in the same sentence. This happens because your vibrations are always changing, and they can be different at any time.

Focusing on Tasks

If you are someone that has a hard time focusing on things that need to be done, it could mean that you are sensitive and that you are spiritual. This happens because of your emotions, and you have a hard time concentrating on tasks when you are trying to find out what your emotions mean.

Weather

A spiritual person might be bothered by the weather more than others. When it is cold, it can cause you to feel different and your mood can change depending on what the weather is doing.

Sensitive to Criticism

Someone that has a strong spiritual gift might be sensitive to those that are critical of them. They are fragile and sensitive and when someone is criticizing them it can be hurtful.

Dreaming

A spiritually gifted person might have vivid dreams. These dreams are often there so that you can get messages from the spirit world or so that you can tell what is going to happen in the future. Your dreams can give you messages.

Forehead Pressure

If you experience pressure between your eyebrows, it can mean that your third eye is opening. This can mean that the next step is to be communicating with the spiritual world. This happens when someone has a spiritual gift, and it is opening up to be used.

Tingling Sensations

Sometimes a person with a spiritual gift will experience tingling sensations in their body. This happens because they are connected to the spiritual world, and they are able to feel things differently than others can.

You Just Know

A person with a strong spiritual gift will often know things without getting any real information. They can read people and get information just from what they are feeling. There are no facts and there is no evidence, but they are always right.

Being a Spiritual Being

When you are a spiritual being, you need to develop your gift and learn to connect with the universe. This is something that is given to you so that you can grow and become the best you can be.

Getting Advise

You can talk to a psychic about what you are feeling and get the advise you need to make good decisions with your life. When you have strong gifts, you will want to use them and be open to them. Let a spiritual advisor help you with this.

Are You a Wounded Healer? Have Grace

Wounded Healer

A person that does healing or energy work such as reiki or psychic work have heard the saying of the wounded healer. This is an expression that talks about how those that work in counseling, therapy or other healing jobs might be doing these jobs to help others because it helps them. A wounded healer can be someone that helps others to get help.

This phrase was coined by Carl Jung and talks about the different relationship that there is between a client and their healer. This is when a therapist or counselor would be able to help their patient but as they go through the healing of others, they also are healed. This can be identified by many different counselors.

How can someone heal someone when they are already broken?

When They Are Broken

As we go through our life, we experience some kind of trauma, pain, or suffering. This is part of life. Who would be better to help others with their pain than someone that has went through the same situation? There can be a desire to heal others while they themselves are healing as well.

Some people know even from childhood that they are being called into some kind of healing work. They will be compassionate with people, animals and those that are hurting, and they show this through their attitude and through their sensitivity. These people do not know that they have needs because they are always focusing their attention to others that need the help.

There are some people that are great at giving their life for others, but other people have needs that others do not see. The idea of helping other people can give them a deep feeling to want to help others and this can happen because of the healing that they need themselves.

How the Healing Works

When someone is not able to give the love to others that they need, it doesn’t mean that they are not helping or helpful for others, it can just mean that they have deep seeded pain that is not healed.

If you are someone that has grace and are able to show love and compassion to others, chances are that you are going to be drawn to things such as drama and situations where there is not healing. This is what a wounded healer does, attracts to those that are in need.

No matter what kind of job that you have, your life may be hurtful or full of trauma. If you are experiencing these things, the skills that you have been given to help others might be strong.

Knowing a Wounded Healer

There are some ways that you can identify a wounded healer. The grace that is waiting for you is there so that you can help others while you get over your own pain. Don’t always put your own healing on the side to help others though. Here are some things that you can do to know if you are dealing with a wounded healer:

  • They know when someone is in pain, and they are able to focus their attention on that person.
  • They have past experiences that are similar to someone else, and they strive to heal them and won’t stop until they do.
  • They take on the pain of someone else.
  • They take on the same feelings and opinions of those that are hurting or those that are seeking healing.
  • They become different once they start working to help others.
  • They find that they always fall into a pattern of grief or paint.
  • They absorb the feelings and emotions of those that they are helping.
  • They tell people that life is going to be okay even when they are in pain themselves.

If you are someone that is a wounded healer and you feel that your situation is not getting any better, you need to take time to heal yourself before you work on others. When the healing becomes about someone else, it can be painful for you to be able to release your own pain and find the healing that you need.

Good and Bad of Falling for Your Best Friend

Falling for Your Best Friend

Falling in love with your best friend is something that people often see in the movies. It seems like in all of those love stories, things are perfect, and everyone is happy.

It can be perfect to fall in love with your best friend and this can be the best thing that has ever happened to you.

Falling in love with your best friend can mean that you are with someone that knows you more than anyone else knows you and someone that has proven that they are there for you no matter what.

Falling in love with your best friend can mean that you are with someone that has a good sense of humor and someone that you laugh at, a lot.

It can mean that you are with someone that knows all of your favorite things such as what your favorite movies are, your favorite color, what kind of drinks you like, how you like your tea or what your favorite places to shop are. They will know all about you.

This person will know your family, your friends, and chances are that you will even share mutual friends together.

Falling in love with your best friend can mean that you will have someone with you that has helped you through hard times already, someone that is there when your life gets upsetting or scary and someone that will help you when you are sad.

They have seen you cry; seen you be angry and seen you when you were at your lowest point and they still care about you and have helped you along the way.

Falling in love with your best friend can be the best thing that has ever happened to you because they know everything about you, and they make your life feel complete. You know that they are going to always be there for you and accept you for who you are.

Worst Thing

Falling in love with your best friend can be the worst thing. This can be someone that has always loved you but then you fall in love with them, and they stop being the person they used to be.

The relationship now feels differently, and they treat you differently, now it feels that you are with someone that you never even knew.

Falling in love with your best friend can mean that they know how to push your buttons and upset you because they know where all of the buttons are.

It can mean that they take for granted the past life that you have spent together, and they might start treating you poorly because they figure that they can treat you how they want, and you will always be there for them.

Falling in love with your best friend can mean that they no longer are your best friend but some stranger that you don’t even know. No one wants to talk about the bad parts of falling in love with your best friend, but they are real.

Falling in love with your best friend will be the worst thing ever if you lose them along the way. This will mean that you have lost both a lover and the one person that you depended on, before you loved them.

How to Get Ready for a Medium Reading

Medium Reading

People often wonder what happens to their loved one after they die. A psychic can give you answers about a medium reading which is a kind of reading where the psychic will talk to the spirit that has passed on from death.

In order to be ready for this kind of reading, you need to know what to expect and be ready to prepare and communicate with the reading.

A medium can do a reading, but it can be hard for someone, especially someone that is new to this kind of reading. Many people will approach it in a skeptical way and this article can help you to know what to expect.

What Will You Expect?

Before you even get a medium reading, you need to understand how this works and what the psychic will do. The psychic will give you information that they get from the spirit world, and they will give you information from this person you are asking for.

Psychics do not communicate with the spirit world in a hidden way, but they talk to the spirits that are around them.

As they talk to the spirits, they can give you the messages that the spirits say to them. Some mediums will become trance like before they give you information.

Whatever you want to tell your loved one that has died, the psychic can connect with their energy and give you an experiences. This can bring healing to your life and there is no need to be afraid of this kind of reading.

Purpose

You need to know what you want to find out in this medium reading. Once you know what to expect, know that psychics have different reasons for getting these readings. Some will do healing and some just want answers.

You need to know what kind of needs that you have and what desires you have. Having intentions is one way to make the reading work.

Finding the Right Psychic

All psychics do different things and communicate differently. It is important that you find one that you connect with to make the reading better for you.

Some will do mental readings, trance readings, and use different tools. The kind of reading that you get will be based on the psychics experiences and their ways of doing things.

Some psychics are found online, and many people trust this. Do your research and find out which psychics are recommended.

What Questions to Ask

Do don’t ask yes and no questions but make the reading more beneficial by asking open ended questions. Do not be too vague and make sure you ask what you want to know.

Clearing the Mind

You need to make sure that you are open minded and that you are not already upset or disbelieving when you go to the reading. This can make the reading unsuccessful.

Here are ways to clear your mind to be open minded:

  • Go for a walk-in nature.
  • Exercise.
  • Listen to calming music.
  • Talk about your goals.
  • Stop what you are doing and meditate.

Connecting

You need to make sure that you are connected with the psychic so that they can connect with your loved one. Share some memories of them and talk to them.

Remember

When you see a psychic for the first time, do not have a close mind and be open. Don’t waste your time if you don’t believe.

Questions About Your Loved One to Ask

Here are some questions you can ask:

  • How can I find closure?
  • What does my loved one wish to show me?
  • How are they doing?
  • Why do I keep dreaming about them?
  • How can I get forgiveness from them?

Spiritual Being Questions:

  • Who are my guides?
  • What messages are my guides giving me?
  • How can I talk to my guides?
  • How can I reach my best self?

Types of Mediums

There are different types of mediums:

Mental Mediums

These mediums will raise their vibrational frequency and will get on the same energy as your loved one. They will do this, and they will be able to give you the answers you want from your dead loved one.

Trance Mediums

These mediums will go into a trance and get the answers from your loved ones. They will not let their ego take control and they will communicate with your loved ones.

Physical Mediums

This kind of medium will use energies to get the spirit to show itself. You might hear them knock or ring a bell.

Voice Mediums

Some mediums will just talk to the spirits and will sound like them in their voice when they give answers.

Channeling

Channeling is when a medium allows the spirit to go into them and talk through them.

Conclusion

People will go to a medium for different reasons but most of the time for some kind of closure. Ask the questions that you need to get answers to so that you can move forward in your life.

No matter the reasons, you need to prepare for this kind of reading and make sure that you have the right intentions and that you find the perfect medium before you even start the reading.

Opening Up Your Intuition

Opening Up Your Intuition

Empaths are full of intuition, and this is something that can help them in many ways, if they choose to use it. An empath has strong intuition, and they are able to know when they are talking to someone that is real or someone that is fake. They are able to know the right path to follow and what is right or wrong in the world.

Being able to read the intuition is something that everyone can work on to perfect and when you can learn how to do this, you can learn to connect with your intuition better.

The gut feelings that you get, or your intuition come from the solar plexus chakra. They come to you to give you a chance to know things based on the sensations that you feel. This can help you to feel worried or to know things without question.

Science is something that doesn’t always follow psychic giftings, but science does believe that people have intuition.

Everyone has felt nervous in the gut area and not just empaths. The way that your mind works and the logic that you have faced during hardships is something that your body never forgets.

When your body responds to these things from the solar plexus, it is what holds the keys to your emotions.

Your gut will always be there to tell you what to do and what not to do, it is up to you to listen. It has a purpose to keep you safe and to help you to make good decisions.

Once you understand your intuition, you can learn to make decisions based on how you feel, and this is different than just letting your imagination run wild.

Reading Emotions

When you have to make a decision, you can ask your intuition to guide you. Maybe you want to go somewhere but you just feel dread or maybe you want to make a decision and you have instant peace. All of these are part of your intuition.

Your ego is there to tell you opposite of your intuition. You have to learn to interpret your intuition so that you can understand yourself and what your body is trying to tell you.

When you learn to listen to your intuition, you will no longer be afraid. Fear can stop you from listening to your intuition and can cause you to make poor choices.

Just because you are fearful about something doesn’t mean that your intuition is steering you wrong. You need to learn to listen to your gut feeling first and that is the one that is the answer.

Do not doubt yourself and learn to trust yourself and you will have more positivity when it comes to listening to your intuition and doing what it tells you.

Ignoring your intuition or your solar plexus can cause you to miss out on something that can help you. You need to look back at the times when you ignored your gut feeling and see what happened. Did you do what it told you not to do? How did that turn out for you? These are things that you will never forget.

The great thing is that you can get to the point where you listen to your gut feeling to make good decisions.

If you have a feeling and something feels amazing, do it but if your gut feeling tells you something is wrong, you need to question it and find out why you are feeling that way. You are allowed to respond to yourself with questions.

Ask yourself, “Is my intuition guiding me down the right path?” and let your intuition give you the answers you are seeking.

You have to learn to trust your intuition and learn to develop it stronger so that you can have stronger gut feelings. As an empath, you need your intuition, and you need it to be strong so that you can stay strong and hopeful in life.

Your intuition will guide you and help you to stay strong and make good decisions that will leave you feeling peaceful and loved.

How to Keep Your Aura Cleansed and Strong

Aura Cleansed

No matter if you believe that your body is a temple or you choose not to believe it, you can still do whatever it takes to make your body strong. One great way that you can do this is to make sure that your aura is strong.

There are different steps that you can take to get rid of negativity from your aura and if you do that, you will feel better right away.

Stresses and negative energy can cause your mental and physical wellbeing to suffer, and this can leak to your aura. Once you learn to get rid of the negativity from your aura, you will see how much better you feel.

There are different actions that you can do that will help to get rid of symptoms of a negative or dirty aura. Sometimes you can see that your aura is dirty when these things happen in your life:

  • You lose your motivation.
  • You are not able to connect with other people.
  • You cannot connect with nature.
  • You no longer are able to understand yourself.
  • You have much confusion.

There are different ways that you can cleanse your aura and some of these are very simple while others might be a little harder. No matter how much cleaning your aura needs, you can do these methods to keep your aura being clean and healthy.

Breathing and Intentions

People know that deep breathing is one-way to relax and feel better. If you want to clean your aura, you can have the intention of cleaning your aura while you deep breathe. This will get rid of any excess dirt that is holding on to your aura.

Meditating

People that meditate can ask their spirit guides to clean their auras. Not only can it clean your aura, but it can help you not to be distracted and to focus on your body.

Water Baths

You can take water or salt baths that can help to make your spiritual being stronger. Not only can you do this to become clean on the physical, but it can also clean your aura.

You don’t even have to take a bath, but you can go out in the rain or go for a swim.

Positive Mantras

When you repeat positive things, it can get rid of dirt form your mind and your aura. Say your mantras out loud and say them all throughout the day.

Energy Combing

You can take your hands and rub them together to make friction. This is really energy that you are making with your body. When you do this, rub your hands over the different chakras in your body and this will clear any blockages or negativity that has gotten on you.

Your aura will be stronger and cleaner after you do this.

Conclusion

When you feel that you need to be cleansed in your mind, body or soul, there are these ways and other ways that you can find online that can help you to keep your aura clean and to get rid of negative energy out of your life.

You can do deep breathing, take salt baths, smudge your area, say positive mantras, or do energy combing and you will see that you will feel better right away.

What do Asteroids Mean?

Asteroids

Astronomer Charles T. Kowal discovered Chron on November 1, 1977, and it was known as Centaurs. It is an orbit that is between Uranus and Saturn and has been in orbit for over 50 years.

Background of Chron

Chron is a mythological thing and happened because of Philya, the nymph. Phyla wanted to run from Cronus and so she turned herself into a horse. Then Cronus changed into a horse, and they mated together. This made Chiron the Centaur and this person had the upper body of a person and the lower body of the horse. When he was born, Philya was so sad that she did not want to have him, but he begged her to change him into what she was. The gods turned her into a tree, and she abandoned Chiron forever. Apollo found him later and took care of him and taught him many different things such as healing.

Chiron’s wound happened from a mythological bar fight that happened between a Centaurs and Hercules and when Hercules shot an arrow, it went into Chiron’s leg and caused him to have a wound that caused him to suffer forever.

Since Chiron is immortal, he would suffer forever but he would begin to search for a way to cure his pain. The wound could never stop being painful, even when he meditate and eventually, he was released when Hercules asked Zeus to let Chiron trade places with Prometheus who was chained to a rock with a large bird that each day would eat his liver but then it would grow back the next night.

The torment that both Prometheus and Chiron would suffer would end if they would trade place and stop being immortal. Chiron had no problem with being mortal so that he could not suffer anymore. After Chiron died, Zeus made him the constellation Centaurus to celebrate him.

Astrology and Chiron

Chiron didn’t do anything wrong he was just in the wrong place when things happened. The wound was not intentional to him even though being hurt by a friend was harder to accept than the hurt that he experienced. It is interested to think that the Greek gods had different lives and troubles like we face today.

In astrology, Chiron is placed on the natal chart which is a place in our lives that can mean our sacrifice or the wounds that we have. This will depend on which house the place is. The house will decide which area of your life will be hard and the sign can help you to know how to respond to the struggles that you have.

Maybe someone that had ADHD or ADD suffered in school because they were different but there were also poor people, minorities, people that were heavier or shorter or someone else that also suffered from being put down by others. Someone that has Virgo with Chiron in the seventh house will be in relationships that are hurtful, and they will blame others for it.

The great thing about Chiron is that the energy that is there will help to take the hurt that you have suffered and help you to go and help others that are going through the same thing. If Chiron is in the 3rd house with Aries, then this person will love to help other people or children that have experienced the same problems that they have had. This might be someone that is a teacher or someone that is a doctor.

A person with Virgo in the seventh house will want to listen to the problems that people have and will be able to have sympathy for them.

Chiron can help you to understand what kind of life you will have and how you will treat other people. When someone suffers, you will want to listen to what they are going through and maybe offer advice. People that have Chiron in their natal chart might be someone that will help others overcome things that are hard.

The same can happen with other planets and they are significant in where they are located on the zodiac and where you were born. Having Chiron return can affect your life and even though this only happens every 50 years, when it does happen, it changes things in the natal chart.

When this time happens, you will have to deal with the same kinds of issues that Chironic had and if you haven’t done so in the past, you will be forced to face issues that you have had to deal with so that you can heal and move forward in your life. These things will more than likely be things that happened deep inside of your heart and the hurt will be there even when you don’t want it to be. If Pluto is in transit, it can help you to resolve issues in areas of your life that you have to face and work out.

When Chiron is in retrograde, it will be hard for you to open up to this energy. You might find that you will have more hurt than other people and the wounds that you have to face might be harder to forgive and forget. This can be a challenge to people, and it can cause people to have to make a bigger effort to feel safe.

Just like Hercules wounded Chiron, it wasn’t meant to happen and if it was on purpose, they would have more to work through than the fact that it was an accidental wound. You must make sure that you put in effort during this time to heal and to help others to heal wounds that have come to them.

Chiron is a figure that is not often mentioned unless talking about astrology. Almost everyone knows the signs and knows a bit of each of the sings. The planets will influence how the signs move and Chiron along with other asteroids will come by eventually. You need to look at the placement of things such as minor planets and asteroids in order to understand your life more.

What Does it Mean to Be a Lightworker?

Lightworker

Have you always felt that you were different or that you never really fit in places? Lightworkers are people that hardly ever fit in. They are people that are sensitive, and they are sent to the earth to help people.

A lightworker has a strong purpose and they are meant to give light to others. They have very strong spirituality, and they are able to raise the vibrations of others and help people by giving them light. They work with the vibrations of the planets as they do their ascension.

You don’t have to be a leader in order to be a lightworker, the great thing is that lightworkers work in all different places and all over the world.

There are signs that you might be a lightworker and that you might be put on earth to help others. Here are some of the signs:

Not Fitting In

You might be someone that doesn’t fit in with others or you might even be called the black sheep. You have never been able to do what people expected from you and the only real friends that you have are people that are a lot like you.

You may have already been stuck doing your own thing or felt that you had to work a regular job and it makes you tired and makes you feel overwhelmed.

Finding the Truth

You might be someone that has always wanted to know more and ask questions. There is something that is inside of you that makes you want to know the truth. This can cause you to try to figure out what is going on in your life because you want to know it all.

You love to talk to other people, and you will wonder what they are saying to you or if they are lying or trying to hide things from you.

Spiritual Awakening

You love the idea of the spiritual world, and you feel like the whole world is a mess. You feel that there are crisis everywhere that you cannot fix.

Your awakening happens because you know what you want to do and what you need in your life. You have missed some signs along the way, but you are more awake than ever.

Deeply Connected

You are someone that has always been connected to your guides and angels. You have learned that they are with you from a young age, but you might have been too afraid to communicate with them until now.

If this describes you, chances are that you are a soul that has come across people that are starseeds or those that have come from another dimension. You might be connected to them in unity consciousness.

Want to Help Others

You are someone that wants to work to help others. You hate to see people suffering and you want to see people happy and free. You will do what you can to make others feel good about who they are, and you never compare people to others.

You love life and you think society is sad how it treats people and how some people have great things and others have nothing.

You Want Change

You want to see change and the way that the world works makes you feel sick. You hate to see people lose their freedom and you want things to be changed. You work hard to make changes happen and people often call you a dreamer.

You know the things that are right and the things that are wrong and you don’t make excuses for people that make bad choices.

Healing Crystals

You are someone that loves to see people healed and to use different tools to see what they do. You want to see growth and you want to let your soul find out new things.

Once you go on your path, you see that the tools you can use become an addiction and you are invested in making sure that you try them out so that you can grow and help others to grow.

Empath

You are a natural empath, and you have strong emotions. You know when people don’t like you and what other people are feeling. You are often stressed, and you never know if it is your own feelings or the feelings of others around you.

You will learn to recognize that you have a skill to be able to read people deeper than others can.

People Attract to You

You are the person that people come to when they need something. People are always drawn to you, and they want to have your advice on all things. You find people want to open their lives to you and you are a light to them.

You let people express what they want to you, and you never judge them or put them down. You are someone that listens deeply.

Synchronicities

You notice that things are always happening and that it is more than a coincidence. You meet people all the time at the right time, and you are pushed to go places that you normally don’t visit.

These are signs from the universe that you are being called to be a guide and to spread light to others.

Know Your Purpose

You know that the world has put you on the earth for a reason and you know that you have a spiritual purpose in your life.

You allow things to happen so that you can be guided, and you allow the energy to flow to you. You look at life and you take action to make the world a better place.

Mission

Once you know that you are a lightworker, you can know that you have a mission on this world. What talents do you have? What are things that you can do that others cannot?

Once you find out what you have inside of you, the world cannot stop you. You can reach your higher self and you don’t have to worry about what other people say.

You have an amazing calling on your life and instead of letting it get you down or overwhelm you, learn to embrace it and feel alive in your life. Help others the best you can, and you will see that you have more than you ever imagined.

You will do great things and you will see that even the small things that you do change the world.

Knowing When You Have a Psychic Attack

Psychic Attack

All witches have to know about defensive magic because if you are not protected from unknown forces then it can be dangerous for you. You have to know how to keep yourself and those around you safe and to keep your home full of good energy. When you do spells and magic, there are things that are often out of your control and if a spell does not work how, you expected and it goes wrong, you could run into spirits that can be harmful to you. Even people in your life and around you can be rude and hurtful so you should always be safe.

You can learn how to be protected against things such as psychic attacks and magic that is negative. It might seem scary to deal with this and might cause you to want to stop being a witch, but as long as you know about it and you are learning how to stay safe, you will be fine.

Psychic Attack

There are three parts or types of a psychic attack that can happen in your life. Even though they can happen, only one of them happens when someone purposefully puts it on you and the other ones just happen because of the actions of others. They can cause you to have different symptoms and problems. Here are the psychic attacks in order from least to worst.

Psychic Influencing

This is a kind of psychic attack that happens, and it is normally not something that is meant to happen to you, but it can cause you to have different kinds of problems. What happens with this is that the influencer wants something really badly and they will do things such as try to control your mind or give you feelings or thoughts that are not yours to get what they want. This can be someone that wants you to fall in love with them or someone that wants to be with your partner. They could also be someone that wants to be in the job position you are in or be with your friends. There are many other reasons why influencers show up in your life and most of the time these people are very emotional and insecure, and they do not know how to be happy so they want to be like someone else so they can have their happiness.

This kind of psychic attack can come to you, and it can change how you feel, and it can mess with things that you value, and you want. You might out of nowhere start having hateful feelings and this can be something that you never really feel. They can also affect you in your sleep and it can cause you to have nightmares or not to sleep well.

You may have noticed that these things were happening to you, and you might have thought that you were being partially possessed because it can have the same feelings. This happens because it is the same kinds of things but there are differences that you can notice, and you can find out if it is a partial possession or if it is a psychic attack:

  • Are you able to talk to the voice or is it just something that is saying different things you aren’t used to in your mind? This is probably a spirit.
  • Do you keep dreaming of someone? This is probably an influencer.
  • Does your thoughts change when you know someone or causes your personality to change? This is probably an influencer.
  • Do you have memories that you never have done before? This is probably a spirit.

It can be hard sometimes to know the difference between a spirit and an influencer and if you want to know more, you can dig deep inside of yourself and see what is going on.

Do things to keep yourself safe such as cleansing, a salt bath, or banish any spirits and feelings that are trying to take over your life.

Psychic Vampire

Most people have been around a psychic vampire here or there. These are people that make you feel like you have no energy when you have to deal with them. They are people that will take their own trauma and they will try to drain your energy so that they will feel better about who they are. They are not able to use their own energy because they deplete it each day and so they try to take the energy of others.

This is someone that you might feel sick or have no energy once you are around them even for a short time. They might make you feel that you are depressed or sad even though you aren’t. This can be a family member, friend or even a complete stranger. If you are around someone that makes you feel like you are getting sick, chances are they are a psychic vampire.

Dealing with this kind of psychic attack is easy. You have to decide who this person is and how they are making you feel. Look at the people around you and do protective spells on your life and make sure you are grounded and that you are cleansed when you have to be around them. This can block them from taking your energy.

If you have an idea on who the person is, try to stay away from them and do not have them in your life.

Attacking Witches

One intentional attack that can happen to people that are witches is a magic attack. This is when a witch decides that they are against you and so they cast a spell on your life.

This isn’t always a spell that will hurt you, but it can be a spell of love, a spell of trickery or something else. It is something that can come to you and be bad for you and leave you feeling upset or angry. This can also cause you to have accidents or cause you to have thoughts that you are not used to in your life. This can even cause you to lack sleep and to have nightmares.

You can tell this kind of attack from other things because witches can use magic and use it intentionally to be against someone. When you have a witch that is putting a spell on you, they will want you to know that they did this to you.

If you need to get rid of this kind of psychic attack, you need to make sure that you know about cleansing and you are doing this each day. Cleansing can break spells and if that doesn’t work, do a banishing spell and some warding on yourself to try to keep the spell from hurting you. Most of the time a witch will do the spell over and over, especially if they know you know how to fight against it.

Thoughtforms

Thoughtforms are not things that are dangerous, and they can help you to have peace and to be helped if you use the right intentions when doing it. Not all thoughtforms are meant to help you, especially if someone is trying to put something negative on you.

A thoughtform is also called an egregore or a tulpa and it can cause you to have thoughts and intentions that separate you from who you are. This means that they thoughts are not your thoughts, and they can function even when you are not intentionally thinking of someone. There are intentional and unintentional thoughtforms.

Intentional Thoughtforms

Intentional thoughtforms are spirits that are there that come because a witch or someone practicing magic creates them for a purpose. This purpose is often to get information from you and to give them information so that they can cast a spell on you. This can be the doings of a magician and can be created in a way to hurt you. These spirits will come to you, and they will try to cause you to have accidents, to hurt you or they will do things to make you feel bad such as harass you or put you down.

These kinds of spirits can cause you harm and they can bother you but they can also be dangerous and so you need to just make sure that you are identifying them and treating them like you would other spirits that come in your life.

It can be hard to know a thoughtform because they sometimes come as a regular spirit, and it can be hard to know if they are there for good or harm. If you are someone that is sensitive to the energy of spirits though, you can find out who made the spirit and what it is there for. If you feel that this is a thoughtform then you need to immediately banish it and cleanse yourself and then do warding on yourself to make sure that your energy is safe.

There are other things that you can do to get rid of thoughtform and if you are someone that knows magic, you can do different things to get rid of them. Remember that a thoughtform spirit will do what it can to harm you such as lie to you, have secrets, or make up lies. They will do what they can to keep their maker safe.

Thoughtforms are real spirits that were created, and they are not independent. They are able to come about, and they can know what is going on. You need to respect these spirits just like you would another spirit and know that even if they were made that they are powerful.

Unintentional Thoughtforms

This isa thoughtform that happens when the influencer accidently makes it. They happen when a person has a strong feeling towards you, and they accidently make a spirit. This can happen when someone is focused on you, and they accidently obsess with you. This can cause a spirit to be created and you need to make sure that you are prepared if this happens to you.

Even unintentional thoughtforms can cause you a lot of problems and they can cause you accidents and bad behavior. They are not able to control themselves because their maker didn’t mean to make them, and they are often unsure that they even created this spirit. This kind of thoughtform will come out of desires and thoughts and they will not be cared for like other spirits and they can be violent and upset which makes it impossible to know what they will do next.

These kinds of spirits are ones that are hurting, and it is not a spirit that you can go and fix except in very few cases. Most of the time they have to stay with their creator in order to even exist. The best way that you can deal with these spirits is to get rid of them and dissolve them so that they don’t have to be hurting. You have to make sure that you are cleansed and that you do warding on yourself because these spirits can keep coming as long as someone is obsessed with you. If you are not sure how to get rid of a thoughtform you may need to do a banishing or a binding spell.

Unintentional thoughtforms can be dangerous because they are a very deep and instable spirit. They want to be with you, and this can be someone that has abused you or a stalker that will not leave you alone. You have to be cautious on dealing with the spirit and the maker and make sure that you are safe and that you are protected in your mind, body, and spirit. A person that is creating these can be very dangerous to you even outside of the spirit world.

You need to protect yourself from a psychic attack and thoughtforms might be things that you never imagined that you would have to take care of. Make sure that you know some banishing spells and that you know how to bind when you do magic.

Dangers of Magic

Chances are if you are a witch that you have seen some kind of dangers when you are doing your magic. You need to always be prepared and have magical defense so that you can be safe from spirits, other witches and other things that come to harm you. You need to find ways to have peace in your life. Sometimes a witch is looking to find new spells and they don’t even mean to make the dangerous spells that they do.

If you are a beginner witch, go and find out more about defensive magic and do what you can to keep safe in your mind, body, and spirit.

What Kinds of Spirituality Are There?

Spirituality

As time goes on, people change, and this means that spirituality will change as well. Sometimes when people look at their life and get older, they become more interested in what their spirituality is.

It makes it hard for people to know what kind of path that they should go on in life and what kinds of things they need to avoid.

Take care of your spiritual wellness by learning what you should know about yourself and the different kinds of spirituality that is available to you.

What Does Spirituality Mean?

Spirituality is where your soul is and what brings your soul peace. This is something that means no rules and no places, but it is just part of the human soul.

The way that you experience and believe things and how you look at what life means to you is all part of your spirituality. This is more than just what you see with your physical being.

When you deal with the different things that life hands you and you see that there is more than just a body, you begin to look deeper at your spirituality.

People see spirituality different than others, and some believe it is believing in a higher power, going to church or being religious. Some think that connecting with the universe or doing things such as meditation or yoga is part of their spirituality.

Kinds of Spirituality

When you learn more about who you are, there are things that you can do in order to reach your spirituality. Here are some different kinds of spirituality that you can consider.

Mystic Spirituality

This is the kind of spirituality that focuses more on the soul. Someone that believes in this believes that there is something special to everything that happens in life.

Each experience is more than a physical experience and people are brought together to be unified. This kind of spirituality means that there is reason for each and everything that happens and there is an explanation as to why things are going on in each person’s life.

Authority Spirituality

This kind of spirituality is how you have a structure and there are people or things in authority that guide you.

Some believe that spirituality is based on rules and things that we can and cannot do. This kind of spirituality is based on different religions and different beliefs. There are rules of religion that people have to follow, or it will cause problems with what they believe.

Someone that is in authoritarian spirituality might have a certain religion that they follow, and they will believe that this is the best for them. The problem is that this can go to one extreme and become religious terrorism.

Intellect Spirituality

This kind of spirituality is that there is knowledge that people can get based on different kinds of information and theories.

This can be part of the journey that people are on, and it can be based on studying different kinds of religions to help their spirituality grow.

Service Spirituality

One common type of spirituality is when you serve others. You can serve people, and this can give you peace and confidence in your spiritual life.

There are different ways that you can do this such as volunteering your time or giving to benefit someone other than yourself. This is one way that you can get in touch with who you are.

Social Spirituality

This kind of spirituality happens when you are around people that are also following the same spirituality that you are following.

People will practice this together and come together as a group. This is one central part of many people’s spirituality, and this means that you can do group exercises, activities and other things based on your spirituality practices.

Getting Spiritual

There are different things that you can do to reach your spiritual self-such as:

Finding Knowledge

You can search and seek for knowledge, and this is a practice that can help you to know more about what you want in your life.

Learning new things can give you new knowledge and help you to find out who you are. If you want to do this, you need to study what you believe in and think upon it. This is something that is important in Buddhism and Hinduism.

Devotion

Another thing that you can do is to devote to your new path. Don’t just consider yourself religious, find ways to devote yourself to what you believe in.

Even if you aren’t connected to a religious group, you can find spiritual freedom by praying, chanting, and finding what you believe in.

Meditation

Meditation is one of the most common spiritual journey that people go on. Meditation will help you to learn to breathe and quiet your mind and you can form relationships with other people along the way.

To achieve spiritual practice, you have to learn to be calm. People often have emotions and things bottled up and meditation is a way that you can calm your mind and let go of things that are negative in your life.

Doing things such as yoga and breathing practices can help with this.

Service

One way to reach your spiritual being is through service. You can do things for others and not expect things back in return and this will help you to grow and help you to achieve your goals.

People that do this often find freedom because they are giving and not taking. These people will often work in places where they can volunteer their time such as with animals or children in need.

Energy

Everything has energy and your mind, body and soul are full of energy. Doing meditation, breathing and other things can help you to reach your spiritual self. There are ways that you can concentrate and work on making your health better and this is improving your energy.

Whatever you do, get rid of toxic energy out of your life and learn to better yourself.

Conclusion

Concentrating on your spiritual health is as important as your physical health. Learn to look at challenges face on and prove yourself free from things that are toxic in your life.

There are different kinds of spirituality that can work best with you. Find the different methods and find one that brings you freedom and calmness.

Learn to improve your life everyday and start by working on your spiritual journey.

Learning to Meditate for Your Own Wellbeing

Learning to Meditate for Your Own Wellbeing

Everyone wants to be successful and if you are wanting to learn to be more successful, you can learn to meditate so that you can focus and have a clear mind. This can also help you to be able to be calm and to be stress free. Doing this can help you both inside and out and can help you to make better decisions.

Achieving Success

When your mind is focused and calm, you can keep your body relaxed and you can learn to get information that you need for your life.

If you find that you are getting upset with yourself and that you are not able to perform as well, chances are that you are stressed and that this will carry you over to bedtime. Do you ever feel very overwhelmed to the point that you have a hard time paying attention? Do you ever have big decisions that you need to make, and you don’t know what you should do or how to solve your problems?  Meditation can help you with this.

The more you meditate, the more you are able to reach your higher self and listen to your inner being. There are different exercises that you can do to become stronger and to learn to relax.

What is Meditation?

Meditation is when you train your mind and your body to focus better and to stay in a state of consciousness. You can meditate to help you get rid of stress, to heal and to make your mind and your body healthy. The more you develop this, the more love, kindness, forgiveness, and gentleness you will have.

When you focus on saying positive mantras, breathing deeper, visualizing, and listening to meditation music, you can help yourself to be more mindful and to stay calm in your mind.

Meditation is a way that you can reach your inner being and where you can allow the universe to talk to you. This is one way that you can increase your wisdom and where you can increase your intuition.

Most people think of meditation as deep breathing and closing your eyes and doing this without distraction.

Does Meditating Work?

Most people have a hard time meditating because they have a hard time focusing at first. Or they are often too busy, and they don’t want to take the time to do these things.

Meditating is easy and if you learn to try it, you will see that you can become successful. You can try different forms of meditation and find out which one is right for you.

Why Is Meditating Beneficial?

Meditation can help you to make better decisions in your life and it can help your overall health and wellbeing. This will happen because you will have less stress and anxiety, and this will allow you to feel better and to have a better nights rest. Meditation will help you to heal faster and will help your body to stay healthier.

Doing this can help you to have a better life, reach your inner self and to find your purpose in life. You can be more aware of what your purpose is, and you can increase your giftings.

What Happens When You Meditate?

When you meditate and you focus on your breathing, you can quiet your mind and be able to reach your subconscious mind.

The first time you meditate you will see that your mind might have a hard time being quiet but if you practice keeping your eye closed and not thinking about things, you will eventually get it, even if it is hard at first. Your mind will wonder sometimes and that is okay. This takes practice.

It is easier to keep your mind still when you use meditation music. You can also use someone to guide you through meditation and this will help to keep your mind on track.

Meditation Positions

There are different positions you can take when you meditate such as sitting on the floor, laying ion your bed, or finding something that will make you comfortable. Do not be too comfortable though that you will fall asleep.

Meditating Tips

There are so many different types of meditation that you would never be able to write them all down. There are some that keep you calm and some that give you energy.

The kind of meditation that you choose is the kind that will be best for you. Find what gives you wisdom and inner peace.

Preparing for Meditation

The first thing that you should do is to make sure that you aren’t super tired or full. Make sure that you have on comfortable clothing. Do not meditate when on drugs or alcohol.

Make sure that you prepare yourself mentally and you are ready to think of inspirational things.

Find a place that is quiet that will not disturb you such as a place away from the phone. Your senses will be stronger, and you need to make sure that you are in a calm place.

You can sit on the floor and cross your legs or sit in a chair. Put your feet flat and your hands in your lap.

Learn to relax and sit up straight and look at the ceiling or straight ahead. Take time to deep breath and exhale through your mouth.

Imagine that a white light is flowing through you and that you are seeing this cover you and go around you.

Repeating

Repeat whatever you are doing so that you can stay focused, and you can keep your mind calm.

You can repeat with your eyes opened or clothes and you can make sure you are fixed on one object if you open your eyes.

Light a candle if you are in a dark room. This will help you to focus on something. Sometimes people do better when they close their eyes and visualize things, this helps some to concentrate better. But if you don’t want to do this, you can imagine a flower or a phrase that is inspirational to you.

There are different phrases that you can think of and you can learn to do things like say relax over and over again. Or you can just inhale and exhale.

Repeat a phrase that you choose over and over again and whatever you are concentrating on, pay attention to it.

Your mind will want to stray at first but be gentle with yourself. Try to concentrate on what you are imagining or what you are looking at. As you practice, you will get better at this.

Receiving

After you repeat a few times, you will begin to receive. Put your hands separate and let your mind relax. Don’t think about anything.

Let your mind be free of thoughts and keep your eyes closed. Stay relaxed but be alert.

Imagine different images in your mind and let yourself hear and see things. The image will help you to boost your meditation. Imagine that you are watching something or that you are doing something in your mind.

Ending the Meditation

At the end of the meditation, you need to put your hands together and form a fist. Let the white light fill you and protect you.

The idea is that you learn to be protected wherever you are, and you imagine that the white light is there like a shield to protect you wherever you are. This allows you to close down your mind that you opened when you were concentrating.

Use this time to imagine that you need to reach a goal and that you can do it. Use positive affirmations and repeat whatever you need to repeat to feel calm.

After you meditate, you will see that you have so much wisdom. You will see that you can be sensitive and align yourself with the universe.

You will see growth and your mind will have powers that are secrets of the universe. You will be stronger in your meditation and you will do this for your inner good.

How Long Should You Meditate?

Try to meditate each day for about 20 minutes each time.

Guide to Meditation

  • Find a quiet place and close your eyes.
  • Concentrate on how you breathe.
  • Repeat phrases that are inspirational.
  • Get quiet and make your mind quiet.
  • Imagine light surrounding you.
  • Know that meditating takes practice.

You will improve your meditation as you grow and as you keep doing it. Meditate a few days for short periods of time around 4 or 5 minutes to start if you need to and then it will be easier to go longer.

Calming Your Mind

Meditation will calm your mind and you will feel stronger. If you do this every day, you will see that you can have peace of mind and you will be able to meditate like a pro.

Journey

Meditation takes time to learn, and you will grow as you keep trying. The more you meditate the stronger you will be and the more you will improve and become successful. This will help you to clear your mind and to reach your inner self.

New Moon Rituals

New Moon Rituals

The new cycle of the moon is a time where people can have new beginnings. This is the darkest of nights and it is a time where the new moon will begin to start over. This is a time where you can start something new such as a project or something else that you long for.

People often say that a new moon is a new beginning for people and that it erases all of the past things and gives you a new start.

The new moon can mean that there is new energy, and this is a time where you should set the intentions that you have each day and each morning so that you can be strong.

As the sun goes up, you will be able to start new in your life and you will see that you are able to do things and have new opportunities come to you.

Every 29 days, a new moon will come, and this is the time where your energy is getting stronger, and your life is in motion. As the new moon comes, you will see a lunar moon cycle, and this is a time where you can let the power of the moon guide you and offer you knew things.

Each time the new moon comes, you can seek out new things that you can do, and you can learn to reach your goals and to manifest whatever you want into your life.

Look at the new moon and celebrate it. Set your intentions on good things and make this part of your life ritual. Doing a ritual means that you take time, and you take space, and you make a conscious action to do something good. Meditate on the new moon and light a candle or burn some incense. This is one way to set your intentions strong.

What kind of goals do you have in your life? Are there things that you want to start but you don’t know when the right time is?

The moon rituals can help you to know what to do in your life. Here are some of the best ones that can help you to get a start on your goals and your intentions:

When to Start

When you want to start a ritual, you need to figure out when you want to start. Pick the month and then find out when the new moon is coming. This can be a time where you adjust your thinking to what you want to do in your life.

You can start changes in the first two weeks after the new moon starts and this can help you to keep the energy of the new moon strong.

The things that you learn along the way can help you and you can do these things by reading books, looking at articles, listening to podcasts or find someone to talk to. Take time to find out what kind of projects you want to do and what you have been putting off for a while.

If there is something that you have meant to start, you need to stop putting it off and let the new moon give you power to do your intentions.

Listings

You need to write down things that you need to accomplish in your life. Write a list of things that you need to do such as home projects or things at work.

Notice what things you have listed and find out how you can get these things started. Look at the items on your list and write them down until you are ready to get them started.

Focus on Your Manifestations

When you have a new moon, it is a time where you can use the energy to manifest things into your life. This means that you can put your dreams to work, and you can get things that you have wanted.

As the new moon comes, make a vision board, and look at it. See what kind of actions you need to do to make these visions happen.

As the new moon comes, you can start your day and you can get what you want in your life.

When to Do a Ritual

The best time to do a new moon ritual is the first three days when the new moon comes. This is the time when it is darkest outside and when you can start manifesting your goals and dreams.

When is the New Moon?

The moon will change per month, and you can look at the Farmer’s Almanac to find out when the next new moon is.

What new moon ritual do you want to do? Think about what you want to accomplish in your life and get ready before the new moon comes so that you can get the desires of your heart and have a new beginning in life.

Tips for Overnight Manifesting

Overnight Manifesting

Manifesting something that you desire overnight is possible. This article will share several tips for doing just that as a way to manifest your desires. Before exploring the topic, we must realize that our subconscious mind is about helping you achieve goals, your desires, and all the universal laws. So you need to understand that as we get into the tips around manifestation that you have to have faith when manifesting in such a short time period. There can be no fear or doubts because this can block what you are trying to attract. The more faith you have, the quicker things will manifest which is how the law of attraction and vibration work. Your vibrational frequency is also increased through faith and belief. Continue reading for the tips for overnight manifestation below.

Create a Picture of What You Desire

The first step is getting a picture of what you desire because it helps your subconscious mind works. So, visualize exactly what you desire in as much detail as possible. This helps with faster manifestation. If possible, get a physical picture or picture on your phone of what you are manifesting. Look at the picture often.

Write It Out Before Sleep

The second step is to write out clearly what you want right before you sleep at night. This will allow two main things to occur. The first is that your subconscious mind will start to work on the manifestation of that thing using all your stored power and energy, as well as things learned and your memories. This brings your desire to the forefront on your mind as soon as you wake up so you are starting on a higher vibrational frequency. This will make your manifestation come faster. The second thing is that it allows you to get on with your day because you are already focused.

Listening to Affirmations During Sleep

The third thing is optional, but extremely helpful. This is to listen to a statement or affirmation while sleeping. Find an affirmation that is harmonious with what you desire to manifest. For example, if you want to attract money then find an affirmation around that and listen to it through headphones as you fall asleep. Though our body sleeps, our subconscious mind does not so hearing these statements can change vibrational frequency.

Create a Statement of Desire

The fourth tip is to create your own statement of desire. This is different from the positive affirmation because you want to be consciously aware of this statement. There are two potential ways to do this. The first is to write out your statement in as much detail as possible with the reason why you want it, as well as what you are willing to do in exchange for the manifestation. The universe wants something in exchange. You may also record your voice on your phone and listen to it several times throughout the day.

Visualization of Achieving the Manifestation

Finally, spend ten minutes each morning visualizing. Combining faith, belief, and visualization will allow you to manifest quickly. This raises your vibration and brings things to fruition much faster. Always keep in mind that manifestation and desire also require action, so do more than dream, act.

Cresent Moon: Spiritual Meanings

Cresent Moon

The crescent moon that both waxes and wanes creates two distinct paths to deepen your moon practice. The phases of the moon offer an easily accessible way to connect with the rhythms and nature of the moon. Creating your own moon practice can help guide you through the changing cycles that already exist in and around you in life. While the full and new moon are common starting points, the crescent moon brings a spiritual meaning that can amplify the already present power that exists.

The crescent moon is iconic and the waxing and waning occurs before or after the new moon to invite in spiritual meaning. At the core, the new moon brings energy for intention setting, connecting to dreams, and initiating action. The crescent moon that occurs represents what needs to happen on the sides of committing to your intention and purpose at the deepest levels.

Waxing Crescent Meaning

With the new moon considered the beginning of the lunar cycle, you can apply the metaphor of the breath to the moon’s cycles. The new moon is that pause just before inhalation and a potent time to ground into the truth you want created in your life. If you hope to live with abundance, plant those seeds of intention with the new moon. The same is true if you want to feel freer in your body. This is the time to create those sensations and images in your mind and body, when the moon is dark.

The waxing crescent moon provides guidance as the reflection of the sun creates a sliver of light across the moon’s surface. Gazing up you can be reminded to fan the flames of your dreams and intentions that were brought into awareness during the new moon. This is an ideal time to connect more deeply by repeating your affirmations clearly and with conviction. Know and feel they are true. Watch as the sliver grows a bit more each evening and imagine you are bringing your intention into the world in the same manner. This is through your connection to the spirit, universe, and everything else as you breathe life into your dreams.

Waning Cresent Meaning

On the other end of the lunar cycle is the full moon that can be equated with the pause at the end of an inhale. You sit in fullness, take in deep rooted blessings, hold onto gratitude, and feel the expansion and grace of all that exists. As the moon continues to orbit and the sun’s reflection starts to slip away a bit at a time, the reflection again takes on a crescent shape, but this time the spiritual meaning is release. Let go of those things that are no longer serving your purpose so you have space to work toward your goals and dreams.

Harness the essence of the crescent by being intentional and truly taking notice of the waxing and waning phases. Include these aspects in your moon practice and focus on the subtle nuances of how they affect your deepest desires as each comes to life and fulfills your purpose.

Understanding Falling Stars

Understanding Falling Stars

Meteoroids are outer space rocks that can differ in size and are broken bits of asteroids or comets.  When meteoroids enter Earth’s atmosphere it produces a burst of light and can appear to be “falling” or “shooting” through the sky, so we refer to them as falling and shooting stars.  Throughout history, people have been fascinated by these events and view them from magical and spiritual lenses.  Falling stars have been considered to be communication from the gods, ancestors, and spirits, which can herald either good or bad omens.

Cultural meanings for falling stars

Roman

Important events are about to occur.  In August of 30 B.C.E., Cassius Dio, an ancient Roman historian wrote that “comet stars” were a response to the death of Cleopatra and the comet following the death of Julius Caesar signified he was ascending to the role of a god.

Greek

The Greeks named a yearly meteor shower, The Perseids, after the sons of Perseus and its corresponding constellation by which the shower occurs.  Today, people can view the shower from mid-July to late August, with the peak between August 9-14.

Early Christians

In 3rd century A.D., a beloved deacon named Lawrence was canonized following his execution by Emperor Valerian.  At the moment of his death, the Perseid meteor shower was visible.  The event was called “The Tears of St. Lawrence” by his followers who honored his teachings and humor on his feast day, August 10th.

Ancient Jews

Halley’s Comet passed Earth during the beginning of the Jewish Roman revolt.  The revolt marked 2,000 years of Jewish migration from their homelands spreading the culture to every continent.

Falling star superstitions

Making a Wish

Wishing upon a star goes beyond a Disney song to 2nd century C.E.  Ptolemy wrote about the belief that gods viewed the Earth through gaps in the sky.  When a star fell between these gaps, we could ask the gods to fulfill a desire.  The gods had a better chance of granting their wish since they were already watching earthly events.

Making a wish on a falling star is common throughout the world.  In Chile, the moment you spy a shooting star, grab a stone and make a wish!  In the Philippines, you should tie knots in a handkerchief.

Spirits are nearby

People commonly think falling stars are spirits of your deceased loved one signaling they are close and your connection is still strong.  Other cultures believe a falling star foretells a spirit is going to heaven.  In the Testament of Solomon, an esoteric book believed to be authored by Hebrew King Solomon, falling stars may be demons who fells down to Earth while watching humanity.

Good omens

Ancient Celtic tribes believed falling stars were the breath of a dragon blessing the Earth.  Some believed falling stars signaled your destiny would be realized.  Other cultures believed shooting star were just generic signs good luck was headed your way.

Harbinger of doom

Certain North American indigenous cultures viewed falling stars as impending doom.  An Ojibway tale recalls a comet that previous comes to Earth will someday return to completely destroy it.  Some tribes said a comet had previous destroyed multiple cultures.  During those times people had to submerge themselves in bodies of water to save their lives.  Other tribes view falling star as an omen that sickness or death was coming to the community soon.

Transitions

Some people believe falling star signify begins and ends like the deaths of St. Lawrence or Cleopatra.  Other groups view shooting stars as upcoming major changes to one’s life.  If you see a falling star, get ready for new beginnings!  You are seeing a green light to go ahead with your goals and nothing will prevent you from success.

Most people believe falling stars are good messages from the heavens and enjoy watching the meteoroids trip through the sky.  Allow a single wish to form in your mind and make that wish on the shooting star, WHILE it’s still falling, and be ready for your dream to come true.

Why Do Souls Do with Unfinished Business

Why Do Souls Do with Unfinished Business

Death can wreak havoc with the those left behind.  Often the bereaved seek out the assistance of a medium in order to find confidence their loved one is happy and vibrant in the spirit realm, or just to say “I love you” once last time.  However, at times a soul crosses over before all their earthly business was finished, and thus complications ensue.

Why is business left unresolved?

Hollywood can paint a picture of an acutely sick person being told to “put their affairs in order.”  This may cause people to wonder how they would act if they were in that situation.  Would you be anxious about forgetting any crucial details or is there a lingering issue that still weighs heavy on your heart and spirit?

Some believe that a deceased being can’t fully cross over into the afterlife if there is unfinished business.  This can make some wonder if a person dies suddenly and something was left unsaid than that being can’t fully be at rest.  If this were true, there would be far more ghosts and hauntings than we currently experience.  Still, psychics can help souls resolve and unfinished business so they can progress in their soul’s journey.

Divine intervention

Some spirits carry with them a loaded secret they were unable to share during their life.  Now in ethereal form, they can observe their past without judgement or anxiety and thus are ready to unburden themselves.  For example, a loving (but anxious) mother contacted a psychic to heal a family wound that was lingering after her death:

A young woman, Kelly, visited me sharing that she was adopted as an infant, but never knew her biological mother.  She even was unaware for most of her life that she was adopted as the family feared that Kelly would leave them in order to discover her biological family.  Over the years, the biological mother tried to contact the family, but the adoptive mother hid the messages and died never telling her beloved daughter.

Following her death, Sue could see her actions clearly and wanted to atone for her mistake.  Sue realized Kelly was living thinking she was an only child, when in actuality she had biological siblings.  Seeing the pain of her daughter, Sue knew she had to react out somehow.  From the spirit realm, Sue sent signs to Kelly in the form of commercials, feelings and thoughts for her to “join 23andMe.”

Kelly never knew much about the family she grew up with and after seeing frequent ads decided to sign-up with the site.  As fate would have it, that exact week her long lost biological sister was doing the same!  Kelly discovered that not only was adopted, but had a sister.  Freaked out, but joyful, Kelly visited the psychic to make sense of the situation.  Immediately Sue came through!

Sue apologized for holding onto the secret and confirmed she facilitated the reunion between the sisters.  She asked Kelly to forgive her and after Kelly tearfully did, Sue was finally able to experience divine peace knowing she was able to make things right.

Maintaining open communication with spirits

If you feel unsettled by something left unsaid to a deceased love one, or have pressing concerns, it’s never too late.  You can connect with spiritual being in an array of ways and its power to feel their presence is transformational.

How to Use Moon Phases to Manifest

Moon Phases to Manifest

The moon has always fascinated people. Many included the moon or its phases in their religious rites or yearly festival calendars. The moon controls the tides and affects weather, so it is a powerful force.

Its phases can affect everything on earth and understanding how its phases can impact our world can make people much more effective in their ability to manifest what they desire.

Praying certain things or planning events around the various phases of the moon can help energize your life and clear negative energies.

What Is Manifestation?

Manifestation is using your mental and vibrational power to connect to the Universe and God to ask for certain things to happen. Some believe visualizing events will draw those things to you for them to occur.

This can be used for drawing finances, romance, or other things for you. The idea of using the moon to manifest is to align your manifesting goals with the timing of the moon. That way, you are agreeing with the universe and going with the flow of planetary alignments rather than going against them.

Here is a summary of how the Moon’s phases can be used for manifestation:

  • The New Moon – Prepare Goals

A New Moon is a signal of a new start. It is when it is a slender piece of a crescent in the sky. Just as the moon signals a new month, you should prepare what new things you wish to pursue.

  • Waxing Moon – the Start of Increase

This phase of the moon is a clear crescent and has traditionally been used as a signal to plant seeds. For you, that means it’s the right time to start pursuing things like your career and finances. You have until the Full Moon to establish your increase

  • First Quarter – Time for Love

This means the moon is 25 percent through the lunar cycle and shows exactly half in the night sky. A First Quarter Moon is the perfect time for pursuing love, healing, and luck in your manifestations.

  • Waxing Gibbous – Look Inside

Many people may not know the term Waxing Gibbous, but it is when the moon is about three-quarters lit as it proceeds through its lunar cycle. This means it’s the right time for prayer, stillness, and introspection. That makes it a good time to review what you have done so far and how to improve in all aspects.

  • Full Moon – Use Your Power

This is when the moon is at its most powerful both in how it affects the earth and our lives. This is the time to manifest your desires!

  • Waning Gibbous – Clear Out Energies

As the moon begins to shrink, it’s the perfect time to clear your life and emotions of negative energies and influences. This is the time to purify yourself and release anything negative that is holding you back.

  • Third Quarter – Go Legal

As the moon is half-lit and 75 percent through the lunar cycle, you should pursue and activities involving legal aspects of the courts. It is also a time for rest and to regain strength.

  • Waning Crescent – Reflection

The moon is returning to the sliver. The sun and moon will eventually rise again simultaneously to restart the cycle. As the moon cycle ends, you should meditate on how to better yourself and the world.

Some may not hold to the belief the moon can help in manifestation but the idea of a cycle for how you think and what you think about is a valid one. It can be effective in keeping negative energies at bay as well as identifying your inner desires, how to achieve them and how you can be a better you.

Using Your Zodiac to Understand Your Past Life

Zodiac to Understand Your Past Life

Do you believe in the starts and the universe and that this has guided you and brought through life after life with reincarnation? If you do, chances are that you know more about the zodiac than others and that you can figure out what and who you were in the past life.

Some people have a hard time with the concept of going from life to life but in astrology, there are 12 signs that work with the planets. The planets play a role in who you are and where you belong. The signs are who you are, and they are what causes you to have values, thoughts and personalities that are different than other people. This is the spiritual secrets that you seek, and you can go to your zodiac when things get hard or interesting.

If you know astrology and you love it, chances are you know your sign and you keep your birth chart close to you so that you can use your unconscious mind and your signs to help you to figure out things in your life. You probably know that the signs have their own house such as if you are in the first house, you are the Sagittarius, the 12 house is Leo and on and on.

Rising Sign

The rising sign is what helps you to know what your personality is. You can figure this si9gn out by knowing your birth time.

Aries and Aries Rising Sign

The Pisces is in the 12th house, and this means you are poetic, and you probably are very spiritual and loving to others.

Taurus and Taurus Rising Sign

This is part of the 12th house as well and it means you probably are aggressive, and you have no fear. You go for what you believe in no matter what.

Gemini and Gemini Rising Sign

This is someone that takes chances and loves to have things easy. They like material things and to be comfortable.

Cancer and Cancer Rising Sign

You are int eh 12th house and it probably means that you are smart and curious, and you sometimes let these things get in your head.

Leo and Leo Rising Sign

Chances are that you are kind and loving and that you don’t let your fear of being abandoned keep you from doing what you want.

Virgo and Virgo Rising Sign

This is part of the 12th house, and you are probably someone that wants to have all of the attention. You have people that admire you and love to have you around.

Libra and Libra Rising Sign

You deal a lot with karma, and you probably are a natural healer. You are always willing to make sacrifices for others.

Scorpio and Scorpio Rising Sign

You love others, you are creative, and you help to make up rules so that people are happy with their life.

Sagittarius and Sagittarius Rising Sign

You might be obsessive, and you have intense karma. You like to use numbers to figure things out and you don’t believe things without proof.

Capricorn and Capricorn Rising Sign

You love to be free, and you are a free spirit. You don’t make agreements or get in contracts very easily.

Aquarius and Aquarius Rising Sign

You have karma that allows you to take chances, but you are determined to get what you want. When you think of something, you do it no matter what it takes.

Pisces and Pisces Rising Sign

This is the time where you have unconventional thoughts, and you are very logical. You stand out in a crowd, and you love it.

Using Spiritual Therapies to Heal Trauma

Spiritual Therapies

Trauma produces an endless series of toxic ripples that can take decades to recover from.  It is an overwhelming topic to discuss, and survivors often experience feelings of isolation, shame, and hopelessness.  As we understand the foundation of our trauma and receive the appropriate therapy, we can secure the proper tools to help ourselves fully heal.

Understanding trauma

Lately it seems like “trauma” has become an overused buzzword in the spiritual and self-help sectors.  Trauma is defined as “the result of one or more distressing event causing overwhelming amounts of stress, that exceed the person’s ability to cope or integrate the emotions involved, eventually leading to serious, long-term negative consequences.”

Trauma takes many forms including physical, emotional, mental, psychology, spiritual, and sexual.  Due to the diversity of causes people are best explore the array of trauma therapies to discover the one that best suits their particular pain.

Trauma from singular events like an accident, attack, or health crisis, and may be difficult to recover from if it occurred unexpectedly or during childhood.  Trauma may also result from prolonged exposure like chronic stress or health, living in unsafe households/neighborhoods, or prolonged bullying or abusive relationships.  It can be caused by overlooked events like surgery (especially prior to age 4), the sudden death of a loved one, toxic breakup of a major relationship, or humiliatingly cruel experience.  Severe emotional trauma produces permanent changes to the brain’s amygdala, which regulates emotional responses and may create an endless cycle of “fight/flight/freeze” reactions, depression, anxiety, and physical health issues.

Emotionally healing sexual trauma

You don’t have to have been sexually assault to feel the impacts of sexual trauma.  Trauma can permanently alter a person’s DNA, thus transmuting this trauma into the genetic code of future generations.  Likewise, we may be a support system for a person that experienced and processing the assault.  In the United States alone, every 98 seconds a person is sexually assaulted, and every 8 minutes that victim is under the age of 18.

Sexual trauma produces rippling pain that extends for years and into every facet of one’s life, including their relationships, health, and ability to function daily.  Unlike other crimes, sexual abuse creates feelings of profound guilt and shame, the lowest vibrating emotions, making it nearly impossible to create or experience peace and joy.  Sexual abuse robs people of their power, self-worth, and joy.  No matter the circumstances of one’s sexual abuse or carrying it in their DNA, you can use group healing to purge your trauma from your body, once and for all!

Healing trauma

What we heal in ourselves, we heal for our ancestors and progeny.  Moreover, we help to heal the world.  Currently, much of society’s ills can be attributes to the collective experience of trauma.  Thus, as we heal ourselves, we help to heal humanity.  Trauma is trapped in our physical body in the form of our cells and DNA, and it impacts our energy fields as well.  Trauma impedes us by creating fissures throughout every facet of our life.  As we heal our trauma, we can reclaim our authentic self and regain connection and harmony with ourselves, our communities, the Divine and the Universal collective.  As we release trauma, we rewrite our story into something more joyous, healthier, abundant, and interconnected.

Using Sacred Soul Alignment to heal trauma

Sacred Soul Alignment is a spiritual healing technique that produces intense transformation and healing within your emotional, mental, physical, and spiritual fields.  Each alignment attunes you to a particular frequency or vibration.  This practice gives you the proper spiritual and practical tools to begin to release your trauma to reveal long hidden wounds and blockages.  You can use Sacred Soul Alignment on its own or in conjunction with other trauma therapies.  A Sacred Soul Alignment practitioner empowers you to listen to pure Divine wisdom to begin immediate work healing yourself from the inside out.  You can also practice Sacred Soul Alignment on your own to awaken your latent healing and nurturing skills to bring you closer to your Highest Self and the Divine, so you can efficiently channel healing energies and accurate messages for yourself and other that need healing.

Trauma is an overwhelmingly complex issue, but healing is possible.  No matter how you choose to heal your trauma, purging this lingering pain will change your life and improve the lives of everyone in the Universal community.

6 Rituals to Begin Manifesting Your Dreams Today

Manifesting Your Dreams Today

The Law of Attraction is crucial to helping us create the solution of our dreams.  We must ensure alignment with our subconscious thoughts, our actions, the image we portray to others, and innermost intentions.  However, if we don’t truly believe an outcome is possible for us than the Law of Attraction is not able to go to work for us.  If you need help manifesting your goals than try some of the rituals we have listed below.

The 2-cup method

Water is most conductive to moving energy.  When you impart your intentions to water it can help you accelerate the Law of Attraction.   For this ritual find two cups and place a post-it-note on each one.  One the first cup, write your current situation, and for the other write your goal.  Fill the first cup with water and then transfer all of the water into the second (future outcome) cup.  Finally, drink every drop of water from the second cup.  As you are drinking the water ensure your intention is clearly set to manifest this future outcome into your life.  Know that your future is comingling with your body, since human bodies are comprised of over 60% water.  Keep focused on your intent until all the water has been consumed and you place the empty cup on the table.  Now you can stop thinking about this situation until your goal manifests.

Flame of fate

Write your intentions on a piece of paper and place it folded underneath a new candle you are prepared to burn completely.  This involves using a distinct candle from the ones you might use daily for ambience.  In this ritual you are lighting it because once the candle burns out your intention is being sent to the Universe as a prayer.  It is essential your Flame of fate is place somewhere safe for it burn throughout the day and night until it naturally smolders.  If you feel you need additional safety precautions place the candle securely in a bowl of water, and place the bowl on top of the note of intention.  What is most important is that you never blow out the candle before it natural burns through.  When the candle is finished burning, you can forget about your issue knowing it is now in the hands of the Universe.

Dreamwork

Sometimes it is best for our subconscious to do the hard work of facilitating a manifestation.  When our inner world isn’t ready for an action it will automatically create situations to repel or avoid actions that could help us reach our goal.  Using dreams to create visualizations help to reprogram our subconscious.  Select an image to focus on when you first wake up and the last thing you do prior to sleep so your brain can embed those pictures to your subconscious.  This is because you brain is transitioning from an Alpha/Beta state, to a Theta and then Delta state as it falls asleep.  Moving through these brain patterns quiets your ego and creates more flexibility in the brain.  Visualize all facets in the life you are working to create including all associated colors, sounds, smells, and feelings upon transitioning from sleep states to maximize your manifestation.

Mindful journaling

Writing is a powerful way of setting an intention and taking meaningful strides to achieving your goal.  The more you write about something the imprinting it into our inner world and reflection on the best actions to achieve our goals.

Pinterest boards

Pinterest steps up the hard work you have been doing with vision boards.  This free product frees you from the constraints of paying for crafting supplies or saving those old magazines.  As your vision changes you can add or remove pins.  You can even amplify the impact of your main Pinterest board by setting it as the wallpaper for your laptop!

Breathwork

Breath is life and as you breathe in a manifestation you are bolstering its life force.  Set an intention at the beginning of your breathwork session and make sure to fully release at the end.  After the session find the time to journal your experience and any insights you gained.  In particular take note of action steps ideas.  Often you will notice things you know you should be doing, but have been ignoring in your self-care routine.  It doesn’t matter how long you commit to this breathwork, even a few deep cleansing breaths in the morning are helpful.  Again, it is most important to focus on your intention!

With all the rituals we listed, they are only as powerful as the person conducting them.  Ensure you align your mind, actions, and energy with what is most important to you in this morning.  Success will quickly be on it way to you when you mindfully wield these tools to maximize spiritual and goal alignment while also remembering to have fun doing them!

Recharge Your Spiritual Battery Today

Recharge Your Spiritual Battery Today

Have you been feeling a type of exhaustion that no physical sleep can remedy?  Perhaps it is time for you to refine your self-care routine to make sure you can optimally energize your mind, body, and spirit.  Here are a few helpful tips to recharge your spiritual battery.

Get physical:  Having an established fitness routine can provide overall wellness and reduce stress.  Find ways of incorporating more movement into your days, even if it’s just a walk during your lunch break.  Think of the physical motion as help you get spiritually and mental unstuck!

Take an Epsom salt bath:  Enjoying a warm Epsom salt bath can help pull out toxins from your body while helping to improve muscled function and circulation.  These baths are incredibly useful in reducing inflammation connected to a stressed-out body.

Exfoliate:  Select a good smelling exfoliating scrub to improve circulation, especially those containing natural ingredients like oats or sea salt.  Gently rub the product onto your wet skin in circular motions and rinse off with warm water.  When you improve your circulation, you will notice a decrease in stress, sluggishness, and anxiety.

Eat healthier:  Your diet contributes greatly to your energy levels.  Nutritionists suggests meals comprises of complex carbohydrates like whole grains or starchy vegetables, mixed with lean proteins and healthy fats.  If you schedule is busy, consider using one of your weekend deals to prep a week’s worth of healthy meals that you can easily reheat.

Stretch it out:  A fatigued body is more apt to get injured than one that is calm and healthy.  If you are busy, find five minutes each day to gentle stretch your muscles.  If you have a bit more time, consider attending a yoga or Pilates class at least once or twice a week.

Aromatherapy:  Scents like lavender and sage are beneficial to helping your brain enter a more relaxes state.  Blend your essential oils with a carrier oil that you can massage directly onto your body, or mist with a diffuser.

Sleep on it:  Sleep is crucial to a healthy mind and body.  Doctors suggest adults receive seven to nine hours of sleep each night.  People who chronically sleep less than six hours are at greater risk for health complications.  To maximize your chances of a solid night’s rest, establish a sleep pattern by going to bed and waking up at the same time every day and use your bedroom only for sleep and physical intimacy.

Take a break:  Just like sleep, you body requires periods of rest.  If you are low on energy, consider trying to take an hour or so nap to help recharge your physical battery.

Make the list:  If you want to help improve your mindset, creating a list of accomplishments is a great way to start.  Seeing all the wonderful things you have done can prove much needed inspiration, motivation, and energy to tackle the next goal.

Forgive:  There is no benefit to holding on to past transgressions.  Honor where you are now and focus on things you can do today to make a brighter tomorrow.

Have fun:  When the world is getting you down, get out the house and connect with old friends or explore a new spot.  Creating positive memories will help to boost your mindset.

Reduce negative influences:  If something or someone is bringing you down, it’s ok to take a break.  You can only be a benefit to a person or situation if you are in a healthy mindset.

Connect with loved ones:  Focus on spending time with people that uplift you.  This will help to create a ripple effect of positive energy to and around you.

Meditate or pray:  When you enter a meditative state, your brainwaves change for the better.  By creating a daily practice of mediation or prayer you can create much needed mental space to reground yourself and be able to see the tasks at hand for what they are.

Stop multitasking:  Jack of all trades, master of none.  When you multitask, you spread out your energies and can’t fully commit to one key area.  This can drain you of necessary energy and create a variety of missteps.  Consider creating a checklist to help you maintain focus and record your accomplishments.

Step back from social media:  People are seldom truthful online, instead trying to put out an idealize version of themselves.  This “fakebook” mindset can make people feel like they have to live up to unrealistic expectations and thus drain their energy.

Get creative:  Paint, draw, dance or sing.  Expressing yourself creatively in the moment can be a balm to stress out psyche.  Plus, you are having fun and living in the moment!

Journal:  Writing out your feelings is a great way of taking things out of your overtaxed mind.  Even five minutes of journaling can be a huge help and begin to help you sort out an array of problems you have been worrying about necessarily.

Causes of low energy

In some case you may have an underlying medical issue, but typically exhaustion is caused by a hectic lifestyle.  Does any of the follow resonate with you?

  • Unbalanced physical activity
  • Jetlag or confused circadian rhythms
  • Poor sleep quality
  • Medications like antihistamines or cough medicine
  • Unhealthy diet
  • Stress accumulation
  • Unresolved trauma
  • Excessive drug or alcohol usage

If you have tried out our tips above, but are still feeling chronic fatigue, it is important you consult a doctor.  That way they can check for any undiagnosed medical issue impacting your overall physical or mental health.

Clearing Old Love Karma: Here’s How

Clearing Old Love Karma

If you feel like you are stuck when it comes to your love life then unresolved karma may be at fault. Old karma is effective at blocking the progress of relationships. While many people attribute karma to the old adage “what goes around comes around,” this is just one very narrow explanation of something that is a very elaborate principle. We all carry karma, good and bad. The karma we carry can be drawn from past lives and earthly experiences. It can also be shared or passed down through each generation. Your karma is as much your own as your eye color and blood type. It belongs to your being, even though you cannot see it. Karma makes sure we feel it in our lives through the repetition of people, situations, and events. It will continue to repeat until you get it. When it comes to love, karma will let you experience similar scenarios until you are made aware and take action. If you want to clear love karma for good, you must learn to welcome it as a friend. A clean karmic slate can free your soul to fulfill your purpose on earth and allows you to give and receive whatever love you deserve. TO get started, carry out the steps below to attract a new relationship that has unlimited potential or to help the current relationship by overcoming karmic hurdles.

  • Understand Your Karma – If you want to change the way the story ends, you have to go back to the beginning. Understanding karma means finding the origin or when the pattern started and what aspects keep repeating. Recognizing the reality of your karma requires introspection, but it is the first big step toward resolution.
  • Respond Differently – Karma tests us by putting us in the same situations to see if we respond in a new way. If we use the same old strategies, the cycle repeats. Reverting to familiar behaviors keeps you stuck in these karmic patterns and can get frustrating. Break the habits tied to negative karma and implement new intentions to reap new results.
  • Change Environment – Staying in some place that holds bad memories will not lead to a positive future. Sometimes, closing the karmic door means removing yourself from the environment that is heavy with a karmic past. Karma can attach itself to a place and keep us trapped physically and emotionally. Do not be afraid to leave someplace that is impeding you.
  • Practice Forgiveness – No one can hurt you if you forgive them because you are taking the power from them. When you forgive, you gain control of karma. So forgive those who have hurt you to breakdown the hardened karma and allow it to detach. This helps you move forward. No matter what happened, you can forgive and make yourself whole.
  • Good Karma – One of the best ways to rid yourself of bad karma is to create good karma to take its place. When it comes to love karma this means not getting involved in the relationships of others, not getting involved with those already in a relationship, and being honest and respectful of your own partner. You should also be careful not to get into situations that will trigger more bad karma like retaliating against old lovers or leaving loose ends when you leave a relationship.
  • Cleansing Rituals – Symbolic acts, even small ones, that are performed with meaning and mindfulness can reshape karmic reality. Close your eyes and take a deep breath, hold it for a few seconds and exhale slowly. On the exhale, imagine and dark energy released. Affirm yourself and your life and relationships. This can be repeated daily to move out old karma and clear your path in relationships.

Your karma is part of you, but it can be changed and improved. Follow the above steps to foster a fulfilling relationship and clear out the old love karma.

Why Can’t I See Angel Numbers Anymore?

Angel Numbers

Typically, you may have been able to decern angel numbers that help to comfort, inspire, and guide you throughout your day.  Yet, suddenly it seems these numbers have disappeared from your life and you may be worry you may never see them again.

Here a few of the many reasons why this may have occurred and how you can reform your connection:

Ask for the numbers to reappear

Angels and spirit guide enjoy helping you out, its their calling.  Because of human freewill they won’t interfere with our lives and require our permission to aid us.  Find a quiet space to recenter yourself and ask them to guide you to the right numbers at the most opportune time.  As you begin to see the number more frequently and understand their messages your angels, guides and Higher Self will send them to you more frequently.

Adopt an attitude of gratitude

Freely give gratitude to the Universe and your divine helpers for the previous numbers and messages you have received.  You might have previously taken this gift for granted, but as you show more appreciation for these numbers in your life, you will begin to receive them again as well as appreciate the wisdom they impart in your life.

Remain faithful

In order to see and understand angel numbers, you need to have unwavering faith.  You may have stumble on your spiritual journey, but trust that you can regain your footing and these numbers will again reappear in your life at the right time.

Everything’s ok

Perhaps you aren’t seeing the numbers right now, because your life has been more stable recently.  Your angels, guides and Higher Self will send you these numbers again at the times you need them most.

Regain alignment

People most often fail to notice angel numbers at times when they are stuck in negative vibration patterns.  This can be caused by watching heavy news, interacting with energy vampire, or being stuck in periods of anxiety.  Work to shift your spiritual energy back into alignment to regain your connection to your Higher Self, angels, guides and the Universe.  The numbers will reappear again before you know it!

Poses to Boost Prana Flow and Open Energy Channels

Energy Channels

During a time of opposition in life when tragedies seem to be accumulating, it can be easy to feel like we are spinning out of control. If we feel powerless, we can end up in a constant flight or fight state that can lead to the body becoming diseased. When we meet challenges in life, especially the big ones, it is vital to keep the nervous system running efficiently. The goal when in high stress times is to raise our vibration, so the body and mind can rest and digest all that is happening around it. One way to accomplish this is to circulate more energy, also known as prana, throughout the body. When energy flows efficiently, all body functions work at top levels from healthier digestion to deeper personal connections to increased resilience to stress. Allowing energy to flow easily through the body can increase your ability to deal with stress and increase wellbeing. Try this sequence to ground yourself and calm the mind before moving through the other poses to invigorate by connecting breath with movement. To seal this practice, set an intention for your day, breath deep, and let the energy flow.

Energy Flow Boosting Poses

Forward Rocking Flow

  • Place your feet hip width apart
  • Bend your knees and fold with the belly resting on the thighs
  • Clasp the opposite elbow with the opposite hand and take 5 slow breaths, inhaling and exhaling to the count of 5
  • Sway side to side or shift forward to the top of your feet and back to the heels
  • When ready, roll up to stand in

Empty Coat Sleeves

  • Stand with feet slightly wider than the hips
  • Extend the arms straight out to the side with open palms
  • Sway side to side, twisting at the waist while the arms swing freely like empty coat sleeves
  • Allow the hand in front to tap the heart region and the one in back to tap the kidney region
  • Connect your breath to slow, smooth swings
  • Inhale when twisting right, exhale to the left
  • After 10-15 rotations, allow the swinging to stop and observe the sensation

Breath of Joy

  • Stand with the feet a little wider than the hips and bend the knees slightly
  • As you inhale, float straightened arms forward with a gentle fist, then out and up
  • Exhale as you fold and let your arms drop
  • Enjoy 5-10 cycles

High Lunge Kicks

  • Start in a high lunge allowing the front leg to bend at about a 90 degree angle, knee above the heel
  • Keep the back leg straight and strong on the ball of the foot, heel up
  • Raise your arms above with palms facing one another
  • On inhale, shift the weight forward balancing on the front foot as the back leg is brought up
  • Hug the lifted leg to your chest with the foot remaining flexed
  • Exhale as soon as you touch your chest and push the arms down as you kick the lifted leg straight, hands in loose fists
  • Repeat five times

Victory Pose

  • Stand tall with feet hips width apart
  • Root down with all four corners (heels, big toes, little toes)
  • Smile sightly and lift your arms up and wider than the shoulders, palms facing
  • Lift the chin from the chest slightly and lift the chest victoriously
  • Stand tall for 10 slow breaths, focused on your power and strength

Tadasana

  • Stand with feet hips width apart
  • Root down with four corners
  • With chin gently lifted, invite the spine to grow tall
  • Palms facing forward, let your arms rest by your side
  • Breath deeply from the belly and focus on energy flow
  • Close your eyes and set an intention for your day

Protecting Yourself from Psychic Attacks

Psychic Attacks

People are often victims of psychic attacks. When this happens, it causes negative energies to come to you. This can cause you to have stress and pain in your life.

Sometimes we know who and where the psychic attacks are coming from because we feel the gossip and the back talk. This can also include being abused verbally or someone trying to control you or manipulate you.

Signs of a Psychic Attack

Here are some signs that you might be the victim of a psychic attack:

  • Extreme headaches.
  • Pain in your back.
  • Feeling like you are spacey.
  • Being nausea for no reason.
  • Feeling like someone is watching you.
  • Having nightmares or night terrors.
  • Being overly tired.
  • Feeling depressed or overwhelmed.

Stopping Psychic Attacks

There are different ways that you can stand up against psychic attacks and you can keep yourself safe and strong. Follow these things if you feel that you are victim of these attacks:

  • Keep gemstones close to your body. There are many gemstones that are good to help ground you and keep you protected. Some of these include:
    • Black Onyx
    • Tiger’s Eye
    • Hematite
    • Selenite
  • Make sure that you are keeping your body healthy and strong. Some of the ways that you can do this include:
    • Drinking plenty of water.
    • Getting plenty of rest.
    • Working out.
    • Eating healthy.
  • Always take baths. You can take different kinds of baths that can help to clear your negativity and keep your aura strong. Here are some of the baths you can take:
    • Salt baths
    • Epsom Salt baths
    • Baths with essential oils.
  • Make sure that you have boundaries with people. There are people that can come into your life and can cause you to have negative energy. Have boundaries so that people cannot steal your energy and drain you.
  • Stay grounded. Spend time meditating and walk barefoot in nature. Use things such as Reiki to help heal you. Always keep your chakras strong and balanced.

You will never be able to get rid of all of the psychic attacks that come at you, but you can learn to get rid of some of the negative energies that come your way by following the tips above.

How to Heal Karmic Wounds

Heal Karmic Wounds

People have used different kinds of tools of divination such as dowsing, crystals, aura reading, energy sessions or other things to help them to feel more grounded.

Some people are masters of Reiki and they have realized that energies need to be healed. They have the idea of karma and healing and they know that everyone has a divine plan in life.

If you have karma wounds, chances are that you will feel tired or that your energy will feel blocked. This can be a conflict that you see repeatedly in your life or in your relationships. Everyone has to deal with their past karma but there is hope to have a peaceful life.

What is Karma

Karma is something that happens to you in your life both good and bad. The way that you handle the karma is the way that you are growing or staying in one place. The universe uses karma to keep you from making bad choices and by using it to reward you or punish you for what you have done.

As you incarnate in your life, you might experience the karmic debt or even rewards of the good karma that you have experienced. The intentions that you have in your life will have consequences and you will have to pay your karma back so that you can be enlightened.

If you are going through another lifetime, you have gained new karma from the things in your past lives. If you are working off your karma or if you are being rewarded, this can be a good experience or something negative.

It can be hard for you to understand karma but if you have bad relationships or if you find your life is hard, this can be karma you are being forced to pay back. You have to do this until your karma is all paid back.

Karmic Wounds

Karmic wounds are things that happen from a different lifetime. This is someone that will have a wound from one life to the other. This can be more than one person or a group.

This can be experiences that you have today, and you must learn your lesson so that you can move on from this debt.

Karmic Wound Sharing

In order to know if you share karmic wounding, you have to see how your relationships are. Did you meet someone that you felt like you have known forever? This can mean that your soul recognizes their soul, and it can cause you to be excited.

Maybe you remember things, or they have taught you a lesson. This can be an agreement that you have made in a past life and they might be able to help you fulfill your karma.

How Can an Energy Worker Know Karma?

A person that is an energy worker will be able to see the hard things in their life and in your life. Learn to pay attention to emotions and the energy around you. Do you feel like a victim or do you feel that you are being targeted by things that are bad?

Even when situations are hard, you can feel the heaviness of bad karma and you can see old patterns going on. This can mean karma has come and it can be very dramatic.

Learn to notice karma and stay on your path until it is paid.

Karmic Bonds

As we meet people, we can form karmic bonds but not all relationships are full of bonds. This can happen based on karmic partners.

You might not always have someone else’s karma and you might be born with karma attached to you at birth. This can be family karma and it can go from generation to generation.

These karma things can come from different lineage and it can have been created by your family and it has to be balanced.

Working Off Karma

You can work off your karma in one lifetime by reaching your enlightenment. When you are more aware of your spiritual being, you can pay back your karma.

Creating New Karma

You can always create new karma no matter what is going on in your life. Karma is the action and the intentions that you have in your heart. You will always have to pay for the karma that you form rather good or bad.

When you work off your karma, you are doing this by making a decision but if you choose to hurt people along your path, you are making more negative karma that will come back to you.

You can create good karma by doing nice things such as helping with a charity, taking care of the people that need your help and by having a good heart. These are some ways that you can bring good karma to your life.

Karma Amounts

Not everyone has the same amount of karma and it depends on their lifetime and the things that they have done in their life.

Not Fixing Your Karma

If you choose to not work on paying your karmic debt, you will have to repeat patterns over and over again in your next life.

Patterns

If you find that you are stuck in a pattern, you need to pay off your karmic debt. You can do this when you work hard in your life to take care of things that need to be taken care of in your life. Work hard and do what is good and you will see that good karma will follow you.

Signs You Have Found Your Soulmate

Soulmate

People sometimes believe that a soulmate is supposed to be a relationship that is easy and perfect. Maybe you have already met your soulmate and you are having problems in the relationship and you question if they really were your soulmate after all.

The truth is a soulmate relationship is a special relationship, but it is one that is meant to make you grow and to help you to reach your higher self. That means that you have to put a lot of effort into your relationships and that even when there are flaws, the relationship can still be a soulmate relationship.

No relationship is ever going to be perfect because no people are perfect. A soulmate is part of your spiritual being and so they are meant to be part of your mind, body and soul. This is a connection where you will feel that you have known this person forever and even though it can seem romanticized, it can be a struggle.

This kind of relationship is very intense. This can bring out unhealed issues in your life and can cause you to have to face baggage that you have in your life. This can cause you to have to face past live problems and to open up who you are in your life.

Your partner can be your soulmate even when things are hard.

Jealousy

Some relationships have jealousy but if you find that your relationship has no jealousy, this doesn’t mean that you should worry that it isn’t love.

When there is no jealousy, this can mean that your relationship is secure and that you are not ever having second thoughts in what is going on with your partner.

Soulmates will have deep connections and that doesn’t mean that you have to constantly be with them to make it work.

Hard Conversations

Good relationships have good communication, and this means that you can have a successful relationship. This doesn’t mean you need to argue over things and that you should be afraid to have hard conversations.

When you learn to be able to talk about deep things, this can cause your relationship to be forever.

Challenges

Good relationships can be challenging and finding someone to understand you is a good thing. You want to find people in your life that will help you to be better than you were yesterday.

Your partner should be pushing you to be better and they should not be afraid to challenge you.

Small Things

Your partner should not have to do big things to make you feel special. They should be able to do small things to show you that they love you.

If your partner knows what you need and you see that they are thoughtful and caring, this is a great sign. If they bring you soup when you are sick, embrace that and see it as love.

Perfect and Flawed

Your partner should know that you aren’t perfect, and you should know that they aren’t either. Everyone has flaws and if you want your relationship to work well, you have to accept each other’s flaws.

Changing

You should never expect your partner to change and they shouldn’t expect you to change either. You should feel loved with the person you are with no matter who you are.

If you love them for who they are, they might be your soulmate. Maybe you hope that they will change here and there but you can never expect that out of people, and you have to learn to accept them for who they are.

They Love You Anyways

Your partner will know that you aren’t perfect, but they should love you anyways. This can cause your relationship to last forever.

Conclusion

Soulmate relationships aren’t perfect and if you are choosing to be with this person and you aren’t expecting them to be different than they are, embrace your relationship, it is probably your soulmate.

Talking to a Psychic to Find Out About Your Relationship

Psychic to Find Out About Your Relationship

People often go to a love psychic when they need some help with their relationship or when they need help to find out if they are in a good relationship or not. Maybe they think their partner is cheating and they want to get some answers.

There are some people that are lost in how to act in their relationships and they are confused at what steps to do next.

Being in a good relationship means that you are happy, and you are at peace, but nothing is ever perfect. You will have a journey that is good but sometimes things will be bad as well.

Each relationship will go through times that are hard. This is part of growing and learning and getting to know each other. There has to be a time of forgiveness and giving that is required to make the relationship work. But sometimes a relationship becomes so sour that it is time to walk away.

There are some signs that it might be time to let the relationship go and move on:

Unhappiness

One of the biggest signs that a relationship is not working is if you are no longer happy with your partner. Maybe you have days where you feel frustrated or you feel sad, but this is normal, when you become unhappy though, this is a bad sign.

If there are long amounts of time where you find that you are unhappy and you feel that your life is unfulfilled, chances are that you might want to let the relationship go and find someone else to be with.

Finding a soulmate means that you are with someone that brings you joy and causes you to have happiness and peace. A good relationship means that you are strong in your mind, body and emotions.

Seeing Yourself

Look at yourself and see how you are acting in your relationship. Do you feel that you partner wants you to be someone that you aren’t? Do you feel that you have to change and are being pressured into being something else? If this is the case, it might be a time to walk from the relationship while you still have dignity.

Everyone has flaws and we are not perfect but if you are in a relationship, your partner should not want you to change and you should always be the best you can be but be yourself. Being accepted is part of love and if you are feeling that you are not accepted then you are not getting the respect that you deserve.

You can look at your relationship and see if you trust your partner. Chances are that they will make mistakes but if the mistakes are big, you might have to really work at forgiving them. Do not allow them to mistreat you just because you are in a relationship.

A healthy relationship means that you can trust each other and if you cannot, you may need to walk away.

If you can no longer feel like you have a strong relationship together, you need to move on and find someone else to love.

Why Are Some Relationships Bad?

Some relationships are bad because you are meant to learn a lesson. The universe will allow you to get into some relationships so that you can learn a soul lesson that you have not learned yet.

Your soul has to learn to grow and to be better so that you can be the best you can be and reach your higher purpose. This means that you have to learn to forgive and learn to grow.

When you go through hard relationships, it can mean that you become stronger in your mind, body and emotions.

Even though heartbreak is hard, being in a bad relationship is worse and breakups take time to heal from.

Maybe you met someone from your past life that you didn’t finish your business with. You may meet this person in your present life so that you can learn from this relationship. Chances are that there is going to be hurt and pain, but this is something you need to work through so that you can grow.

When you go through this, you learn your lesson and you continue on your journey. A bad relationship can prepare you for the relationship that you are meant to be in.

Talking to a Psychic

A love psychic can help you to heal from your past relationships and help you to balance your energies. They can also help you to prepare for your soulmate.

A psychic can give you a reading and help you to know why you keep ending up in relationships with problems. They can help you to make better decisions in your life and let you know if you should stay in the relationship or if its time to move on.

They can give you a clear mind and help you to understand why you are facing times that are hard.

When you talk to a psychic, you can expand your journey and move forward and see that you can make room for the right person in your life and start a new chapter in your journey.

Conclusion

Loving is not always an easy thing and when your heart gets involved, it can cause you to have pain and hurt. Ending a relationship is not an easy thing but if you talk to your psychic and they help you to realize this is the best move for you, you can release yourself from this situation and make room for your real soulmate.

Identify and Strengthen Claircognizance with These Easy Tips

Strengthen Claircognizance

Claircognizance is the most misunderstood and underrated psychic gift. Claircognizants know things without understanding how or why they know them. The knowledge comes as a feeling, a clear impression, or an inexplicable understanding of information.

The term “claircognizant” is rooted in French words, which translate as “clear knowing.” People with the gift of claircognizance receive clear knowledge about things. In other words, claircognizance is the psychic or extrasensory gift of knowing apart from the five senses.

Are You Claircognizant?

Not everyone with a psychic gift is born with it. People can acquire or develop such abilities later in life. Some uncover or develop the abilities in the course of, or after, a spiritual awakening. Others may have possessed claircognizant abilities their whole lives, but never fully understood them.

Many claircognizants receive their clear impressions from the spiritual realm. Common characteristics of claircognizants are clear, immediate, and accurate impressions of people’s true nature. Claircognizants are also great sources of information and good ideas, and often benefit from positive outcomes in difficult situations.

Here are six signs that you may have the gift of claircognizance.

  1. You just know things. Claircognizants don’t need to see, hear, feel energy, or use other physical or psychic senses but still receive clear impressions or information that’s. These impressions are otherwise unknowable and can relate to people, things, or places. They’re usually undeniably felt and come through to them very strongly.
  2. You finish others’ sentences and know what they’re going to say. Claircognizants can accurately finish other people’s sentences and often know what somebody else is about to say before they say it.
  3. You have reliable gut instincts. Claircognizants have strong, accurate gut instincts. They just know when something isn’t right, such as when a potential business deal is questionable, or when to take a different way home.

Many people experience claircognizance, but don’t trust their instincts. This can lead to hurt or going down a difficult life path.

  1. You know when others are lying. Claircognizants often know when somebody else is lying or is attempting to misdirect others. They may even come to be known as a “human lie detector.”
  2. You wake up with answers. Claircognizant impressions often manifest while we sleep, when our conscious minds calm down enough to tune into them.
  3. You can predict the weather. Weather forecasters use instruments and observation to make predictions about the weather. But claircognizants often just know what the weather is going to be like.

Develop Your Claircognizance

Just as your body is strengthened with physical exercise, claircognizance can be acquired and encouraged with claircognizance exercises.

These six simple exercises will help you develop your claircognizant gifts, clear your psychic channels to receive information through your gift, and increase your sensitivity so you’re prepared to communicate with the spiritual realm.

  1. Meditation. Meditation will calm and focus you, which will help you generally strengthen your psychic gifts. To specifically develop claircognizance, focus your awareness on the top of your head, which is the location of your crown chakra. It serves as your connection to the Universe.

Visualize your crown chakra opening, which will allow information to flow to you claircognizantly. Maintain your awareness of your crown chakra after you finish meditating to keep the channel open.

  1. Crown chakra clearing. Clearing and balancing all seven of your chakras will strengthen all of your psychic gifts on multiple levels, and assist you in overall spiritual awakening. But clearing your crown chakra will aid claircognizance development the most.

For this exercise, visualize an opening in your crown chakra. Imagine placing a large white or lavender lotus flower into the opening. Now, imagine that the lotus flower begins to spin. Finally, think or say out loud, “My crown chakra is clean, clear, and balanced.”

Don’t despair if you’re having trouble visualizing at first, or you think you may not be doing it correctly. Just keep repeating the exercise.

  1. Crystals. Certain crystals will assist your claircognizance development and increase your abilities. Amethyst is an effective supporter of many psychic gifts. But to use it specifically for claircognizance development, hold a small amethyst crystal near your crown chakra while you meditate or clear that chakra. To aid psychic development, keep an amethyst geode or cluster next to your bed to protect you as you sleep.
  2. Place written questions under your bed pillow. Placing written notes under your pillow is an effective dream recall aid. But it can also be used to boost claircognizance. Jot down a question on a slip of paper, and place it under your pillow just before bed. Sticking to a single question will help make it obvious when your answer comes to you.

When you wake up, immediately retrieve your paper and read the question to see if the answer claircognizantly came to you while you slept.

  1. Ask for spiritual assistance. You don’t have to already be clairvoyant to receive information from your spirit guides. When a good idea or a viable solution to a problem you’re facing seems to just pop into your head, thank your spirit guides!

This general advice can really help with anything. When you ask for and acknowledge guidance from spiritual beings, they can achieve incredible things for you.

  1. Set intentions for your ability. Setting intentions activates your receptivity, empowers you to manifest what you want, and tells the Universe what information will help you. To set an intention, simply describe your specific desire, then announce it to the Universe.

Final Thoughts

As your psychic gifts increase, they’ll feel like superpowers. But it will take time, so be patient and don’t be hard on yourself.

Your gifts will come to fruition at their own pace, in their unique way. Don’t force or rush your claircognizance. Stay spiritually grounded and protect yourself with crystals.

Do you have the gift of claircognizance? Do you have any other psychic development exercises that work for you? Please share in the comment section below!

Spiritual Awakening Signs and Symptoms

Spiritual Awakening Signs and Symptoms

A spiritual awakening can be beautiful, but it can also be lonely, confusing, and alienating. Spiritual awakenings are the beginning of an initiation on your spiritual path. If we never experience a spiritual awakening, then we end up pursuing the emptiness in life like power, fame, and money attempting to find happiness. Spiritual awakenings come when we least expect it, so there is no planning ahead. They simply come into your life like a dangerous storm, but are able to unearth the treasures hidden in your life. These spiritual awakenings will come exactly when you need them the most.

If you have experienced a spiritual awakening, then you can see the truth of the world, past all the illusions. You will realize nothing in the external world can bring true fulfillment. This will leave you craving something more to help you feel whole. As you thirst for direction, allow this article to help guide you to a better understanding and provide information you may need to understand what is happening.

Spiritual Awakening Defined

A spiritual awakening, often called a spiritual ascension, means to wake up to life. You will start to question old habits, beliefs, and even social conditioning with the understanding that there is more to life than what we are often taught. Questions like what is my purpose and what occurs after death will occur during this time. This time will stir the deepest questions that are in us, even though we have been too scared to ask before. Once you experience this, you may search for God or a Divine being.

Spiritual awakenings are a natural product of an evolving soul that is maturing and expanding. This is a time of a deepening connection. The more we connect, the more we are transformed. As we embody our soul further, we can find lasting and true freedom, love, and peace. The process may feel disturbing or painful initially, but it leads to a more meaningful life. Life will feel like it does not make sense, but this traumatic experience is necessary for your soul expansion.

Numerous circumstances can trigger a spiritual awakening. Some are spontaneous, but others are triggered by accidents, life-threatening illnesses, trauma, tragedies, and even life crises. Some are even caused by temperament like being an empath or old soul as these people are more attuned to the transcendent side of life. Some are even triggered by twin flame relationships. However, generally speaking, a spiritual awakening happens in conjunction with the Dark Night of the Soul.

Those who are highly sensitive to the suffering of others and are deep thinkers may have gone through or are going through the Dark Night of the Soul. This is a time when we feel cut off from a higher power. The more aware you become of this disconnect, the higher the chances this is what you are experiencing. Going through this time is entwined with spiritual awakening. The Dark Night is used to prepare us, hearts and minds, for a consciousness upgrade. The old must be stripped away to make room for the new. The Dark Night of the Soul is for the destruction of the old and make way for the new. This is the life/death circle and at its core, the experience is raw, difficult, and primal in nature. Still, it is just a stage and it will eventually fade. There are ways to speed up this stage of the Dark Night, like doing inner work which can speed things up, but it is still a process that needs to run its course.

Signs of being in a Dark Night include:

  • Feeling isolated from everything
  • Feeling abandoned by your higher power
  • Low or melancholic mood continuously
  • Lost feeling
  • Feeling horror and despair when observing things in the world
  • A sense of existential dread
  • Deep tiredness
  • Lack of motivation
  • Loss of interest
  • Pondering of the deep questions
  • Feeling of not belonging on the planet

There are many other signs, but these are the most likely.

Stages of a Spiritual Awakening

The process of the spiritual awakening is multi-layered, complex, and somewhat different for everyone. Though it cannot be fit into neat categories that perfectly describe everyone’s experiences. However, the following are the stages in general that will help you understand the flow of this overall process.

Unhappiness, Lost Feelings, and Despondency – In this initial stage, you are feeling the Dark Night of the Soul. This is defined by confusion, alienation, and great unhappiness, often with depression. You are likely searching for something you cannot define, but there is an emptiness that needs filled.

Shifting Perspectives – You will start to perceive reality in a different manner and seeing through the delusions of society. You may be disturbed by suffering and the hopelessness of the world. You will no longer be in your complacent unawareness from before.

Seeking Meaning and Answers – You will start or continue asking the deep questions in search of a life purpose and meaning. You may dabble in the esoteric fields, self-help, and metaphysical for truth. This is the beginning of the spiritual search.

Finding Answers and Having Breakthroughs – After soul searching, you will find practices, teachers, and beliefs that ease the existential suffering as old patterns dissolve and the soul begins to emerge. You may have periods of enlightenment and even mystical experiences that give you a glimpse of the nature of reality. This is usually a joyful, hopeful, and connected time.

Disillusionment and Feeling Lost (Again) – Life is all about movement. Within the spiritual awakening process, there is an abb and flow as well. In this stage, you may become bored with the practices that were recently a focus and disillusioned with all as you crave something even deeper. You may have felt connected to the Divine, yet once again feel totally separated. This can be disturbing and upsetting. At the same time, you may experience many breakthroughs mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. They could feel superficial because you still crave authenticity. The unhappiness will motivate you to continue the search.

Deeper Inner Work – You are no longer interested in dabbling in surface practices of spirituality. The pain you feel inside serves as a motivator for inner work. You may become a dedicated student of mindfulness, shadow work, or meditation.

Integration, Joy, Expansion – In this final stage, integration is taking the spiritual lessons learned from inner work and applying them to your daily life. This is a conscious and naturally occurring habit in spiritual practices. This is a time of long-lasting, deep change and often unity with the Divine. Still, this is never guaranteed because it is a gift from Life. Life will become less about you and more about us as a collective. Above all, you will feel connected, peaceful, and aligned.

These stages may move back and forth, which is why each spiritual awakening is unique.

Spiritual Awakening Symptoms

Even if you are not sure which stage you are in or what has already occurred, there are certain symptoms that come with a spiritual awakening that are often emotional, but also psychological or physical. Some of the most common are shared below.

  • Feeling like life is false
  • Craving purpose and meaning
  • Asking deep questions
  • Realizing lots of what you have been taught is false
  • Feeling lost and alone
  • Seeing through society’s illusions
  • Seeing how unhappy most people are
  • A desire to purge your life
  • Deep empathy and compassion
  • Desire aloneness
  • Conversations appear shallow
  • You want to quit your job
  • Desire authenticity and truth
  • Anxiety and depression
  • Awareness of negative habits
  • See everyone as One
  • Sensitive
  • Desire to make the world better
  • Synchronicity
  • Deep understanding of self
  • More curiosity and wonder
  • Unconditional love

Physical Symptoms

Physical symptoms differ among people, but below are some common to many.

  • Amplified senses that appear intensified
  • New food intolerances or allergies
  • A change in sleeping patterns, more, less, or disturbed
  • Vivid, bizarre, scary, or intense dreams
  • Dizziness and lightheadedness
  • Weight changes, gaining or losing
  • Change in eating habits with the same things not being appealing or a craving for new foods
  • Energy changes, usually less energy
  • Change in sex drive, either increase or decrease
  • Decreased immune functions that will lead to an increased system

These will likely be felt one or two at a time, but if they exist do seek medical attention to make sure there is no physical reasons for the change.

Myths About Spiritual Awakening

Though spiritual awakenings occur for many people, there are still myths surrounding the spiritual journey that are quite common. The first is that as soon as you are spiritually awakened, you are instantly enlightened. The reality is that this happens gradually over time and growth. Another myth is that being spiritually awake means you will always be light, blissful, and feel love. The reality is you may go through these feelings, but they come and go with other emotions. Myth three is that only a few rare people experience awakening symptoms, but many people will go through this in their lifetime.

While not myths, there are also a few common questions around spiritual awakenings. One is why they happen. The answer is that they occur when our soul is ready for a transformation. This leads people to wonder how long it lasts. The answer is a lifetime because once it starts, it does not end. We need to honor it. After a spiritual awakening has occurred, explore different spiritual paths, do inner work, and stay grounded while continuing to evolve. If you wonder why you had a spiritual awakening the answer is simple, life decided you were ready.

Psychic and Spiritual Readings

Psychic and Spiritual Readings

For those that are interested in psychic giftings and readings, some wonder if there is a difference between a psychic and a spiritual reading and the answer is both yes and no. There is a difference in how the reading looks but there are also many similarities.

Psychic Readings

A psychic reading generally happens when someone has the gift of the clairs such as claircognizant, clairsentience, clairaudient or clairvoyance. They help people to understand their present and their future by getting information and giving information and healing. Sometimes the reader can look into the past or the future, and sometimes they cannot.

In some readings, a psychic will try to find personal things or items that they can hold of the person they are doing the reading for so that they can connect with their energy. Sometimes, they will ask for a piece of handwriting.

The energy in a reading helps the psychic to be able to do the reading and to be able to figure out the information you are seeking.

Spiritual Reading

A spiritual reading is similar and might even have part of a psychic reading in them but the difference is that the spiritual reader will find the thing that is hurting that person and will try to figure out why the person is making the decisions that they are.

A spiritual reader will try to find out why the problems are happening and what they can do to help fix them. A spiritual reader is more intune with your higher being and they focus on the growth and the inward energy that you have.

You might even get homework or worksheets to help you stay on path. A reader like this might use tools of divination such as tarot cards or a crystal ball. They will do the reading to try to help you get on track in your life and to show you what you need to do next.

Conclusion

No matter what kind of reading that you choose to get, you need to find someone that is willing to focus on you and the situation that you are in.

Know that if you want to have the best reading possible, you have to come to the reading with an open mind and be ready to get the information that the reader is going to give you.

The messages that you get will be delivered to you in some way and they will come to you in different forms. Sometimes, the message does not even come until later and sometimes the message is right there in front of you.

If the message does not make sense right away, know that the meaning of the message can come later and be ready to see it through.

It is important that you go to each of your readings with an open heart and an open mind so that you can get the best reading you can get. By having an open mind, your psychic or spiritual reader will be able to attune into your energy and help you by giving you the most accurate information that they can.

How to Cleanse without Smudging

How to Cleanse without Smudging

When you want to cleanse the energy in your home or your office, you can do this without smudging. You can purify your home and get rid of the negative energies that come to your home and allow new and positive energy to replace it.

There are many different practices that people can do and have done in ancient times in order to cleanse their homes but the most popular way in America is by smudging.

Smudging means to take herbs and burn them and some of the most popular ones include:

  • Cedar
  • Sage
  • Sweetgrass

There are other herbs that can be used, and these ones have great properties that can help to cleanse your area fast.

The things are though, some people do not like smudging because they think it is too hard or they just don’t like how the herbs smell as they burn. There are different things you can do to cleanse your home and here are some different ways:

Tips to Cleansing Your Home without Smudging

The first thing that you can do is to grow some Rosemary. You can do this almost anywhere in your home and it is very easy.

Rosemary is known to help to get rid of negativity in your home and your body. It allows your energy to be stronger and is good for almost any occasion that you have.

Juniper

The next idea is to use Juniper to cleanse your home. Juniper is a tree that has berries that are small and blue. When you burn Juniper, it can keep away thieves and allow your area to be peaceful.

Lavendar

One popular scent is Lavendar. This is a plant that can be grown right in your home or you can use the scent in many different forms. This is a plant that is good to get rid of spells that have been cast on you or to cleanse your home.

If you burn Lavendar, it will release a smell that can calm you. Lavendar can also help to get rid of trauma and grief and allow you to make it through depressive times. If you need peace in your home or your life, use Lavendar to help you and protect you.

Cedar

Cedar is another powerful thing that you can burn. This is a plant that is thought to give you power and strength.

According to many, Cedar can get rid of negative energy and evil sprites that try to come into your home. Cedar is also known to help people to manifest money and love in their lives.

Bay Leaves

One great herb is bay leaves. This is something that is used in many spell casting ingredient lists. This is considered a very good spell casting tool and can be used in potions.

You can use bay leaves to smoke cleanse your home and it can get rid of evil spirits and negativity out of your life. This is also thought to bring on lucid dreaming and visions. Bay leaves are also known to get rid of stress.

Using Tarot Cards for Wellness in Life

Using Tarot Cards for Wellness in Life

If you have questions in your life or you have a heart issue, you can go to tarot cards and get a reading to answer questions about your job, love, or problems in your life. Sometimes you can get a reading that will help you improve your career choices, or your relationship and you might even get advice to help you out of a slump or to start a new business. Maybe your cards will tell you it is time to move.

A tarot reading is a great thing that you can do if you want to be well and if you want to get answers that are uncertain to you at the time. If you need some guidance to get through things in your life, use your tarot cards or get a tarot reading to help you.

Three Card Magic

When you get a tarot reading or you do one yourself, there are many different spreads that you can use. The Three Card spread is one of the easiest spreads that you can do and still get a good reading that is very in-depth. This is similar to a horoscope reading and it can help you to be clear and to get advice that you need in your life.

Basics of a Tarot Reading

Getting a tarot reading or doing one yourself is easier than you ever imagined it to be. All you have to do is as yourself a question and have a question in your mind. There is nothing that is literal behind the tarot reading and you need to not take it literal.

You need to take time to memorize the cards and know what they mean and to have an open mind when you are shuffling the cards for your reading. Here are some things you can do to make your reading better:

  • Have a question in your mind that is there before you start shuffling the cards in the deck.
  • Let the first card that you lay down deal with the situation that you are facing. If you pull up a card such as the Devil card, it can mean that you are in a situation where you are tempted or where you are being deceived by something or someone.
  • The second card will mean the problem that you have with the situation that you are thinking about. This card will give you information on the problem and what is going on in your life.
  • The last card will be the action that you need to do in order to make the situation better. This can help you to solve the problem.

Beyond the Cards

Doing a Three Card tarot spread can be an easy way to do a reading, but you have to use your other psychic giftings in order to make the reading work best for you.

You will not be able to have more insight on your problem or your situation unless you open up yourself to your intuition and you believe in what you are hearing and saying.

If you find that you are not able to have this insight and to be able to really believe in your own readings, you can find someone that is a professional psychic and have them do a reading for you or with you. This can help you if you need to heal or if you need to move on from something in your past.

Your future can feel better and you can improve your mental and physical health by getting a tarot reading and by getting the advice you need to move forward in your life.

Clearing Your Space

Clearing Your Space

When you are a psychic, you will see that many people will seek you out and ask you to help clear their space from negative entities. These people might complain that they hear noises, and they have things that are unwanted happening in their homes by spirits. This can affect their life and their day to day being.

If you are a psychic and you are good at this work, you might consider it rescuing someone. If someone dies, they will go back to the spirit world or they will remain on earth for some time. If a person dies suddenly such as in an accident or a robbery, they have been wronged and they might choose to stay on earth.

They will want to have justice and will want to make sure that they do not leave this world without getting back what was stolen from them.

When you have spirits that are bothering you and are in your home or work that you don’t want there, you have to understand what death is.

When you die, you leave the physical body, but you do not stop living. This means that you will be left on the earth or you will move on to the spiritual plane and you will be there to connect with those on the earth.

Maybe you met someone that has a spirit that uses things in the business and will rock or move things around. Being a medium means that you have to have a conversation with this spirit and find out why it is there to be a bother.

Talk to the spirit and call out to it and see if it comes to you and talks back to you. This can help to bring the owner of the home or business peace and help to clear the space that they are in.

This is the kind of work that never ends and there are events in the spiritual world that are happening everywhere and all the time.

There are people that die every second and when the spirit is bound on earth and wants to talk to their loved ones, they will be there to do that.

It can be helpful if you talk to the loved ones and ask them to talk to the person that has died so that the spirit can have a peaceful exit and move on.

This can also give the family peace if they have had someone that has died that they miss or they don’t know what happened to them.

This is considered rescue work because not only are you helping the family that is disturbed or scared, but you are also helping the spirit to have peace. The light that the spirit has will give the loved one a glimpse of what is going on in their life.

The spirit will then leave and will see that they have accomplished what they need to do, and they can move on and be happy.

This is a type of work that leaves everyone happy and helps to get people on the right track in life.

Conclusion

If you are a medium, you can consider yourself a rescue worker because you are helping those both in the spirit world and in the earthly plane.

Negative Energy Cleansing in the Home

Negative Energy Cleansing in the Home

The outside world is chaotic, more now than ever before. With all the outside chaos, it is important to have a home that is a haven. One powerful, yet subtle form of self-care is to maintain positive energy at home. When this is done, it is easier to maintain personal positive energy which can positively affect those around you. Knowing this means we should work on banishing negative energy from the home to make room for positivity, but how is this done? The best place to start is to do a thorough house cleanse. This will involve physical work and a bit of metaphysical work as well.

Declutter

As the current trend goes, if an item in the home does not spark joy, it is time to toss it out. Having too many things that you do not interact with or that there is no real attachment to is an energy drain on a space. Cleansing an area that is too cluttered is also a waste. The best time to start cleaning and cleansing is during a waning moon, especially four days before the full moon. If the items are useful, donate them to add up a bit of karma.

Physical Cleaning

Both the physical and energetic dirt can be broken down with a bit of cleaning. Open up the windows to get some fresh air, even just a bit and mix some sea salt and water to sprinkle around the perimeter of each room. Just a little salt goes a long way. To accelerate the process, light some white candles, but this is optional. The open windows give the negative energy a way out. Allow the saltwater to dry. For a bit of extra oomph, add a few drops of essential oil to the seawater, but test surfaces before sprinkling.

Arrangement

Feng Shui explains that the positioning of items can help or hinder the flow of energy. Start with the biggest items in an area and place them in commanding positions. This is the position in the room that is furthest away, but still visible to and from the door. These large items should never be right in front of the door, but the door should be visible. Empty spaces can also affect things. It is not great to have kitchen cabinets that do not extend to the ceiling, but if you do, this is a great place for greenery if it is dusted regularly. If left alone, it can allow stagnant energy to collect. Also consider all entrances and exits for a space. If door hinges squeak, oil them to keep the annoying sound from affecting your well-being. When entering or leaving, use the front door more often than a side or back door to keep the chi flowing well.

Healing Elements

If you have decluttered and moved things around, but the energy flow is still off, add a few cozy, energy lifting touches. Plants are a great way to do this. Plants bring nature indoors and act as energy filters. Some plants have special association like lavender for peace, rosemary for thought clarity, and jasmine for romance. If you are not blessed with a green thumb, look for low need house plants like succulents or spider plants that only need water once a month or so.

Crystals can also add some color and draw in the right type of energy to the home. Rose quartz by the bed keeps the romance going, while tourmaline and obsidian near doors and hallways soak up bad vibes and negative energy. Quartz that has flecks of tourmaline are great for uplifting activities in the home like yoga or meditation.

Always consider the space you want to create. If it is a small space for meditation, make sure it is cozy and you look forward to being there. Keep pillows and blankets nearby if needed and add meaningful items to the space that make you smile and bring peace. Make sure everything has a place and everything holds a positive energy.

Colors

There is no need to repaint, color splashes can accentuate a color’s energy vibration. Pick a color for the room that is the energy you want in that room. Some of the common associations with colors are shared below.

  • Red – concentration and consistency
  • Orange – Increased energy and confidence
  • Yellow – Spiritually uplifting
  • Green – Creativity
  • Blue – Soothing and peacefulness
  • Purple – Intuition and inspiration

Energetic Cleansing

Now that the physical space has been physically cleaned, smudges can clear the negative energy that remains. Sage is a popular choice for this, but make sure it is ethically grown and obtained. Lavender and sweetgrass can be added to sage bundles or used alone to create soothing energies. If sage is not your style, try incense or cones in the scent that sets the right tone. Rosemary and thyme are purifiers after an illness, frankincense is great when a relationship breaks down, sandalwood attracts prosperity, and myrrh promotes peace. If smoke is an issue, try a singing bowl to dispel heavy energy or an oil diffuser.

For the energetic cleansing, take the sage or other tool and start at the front door, walk in a counterclockwise direction room to room, and let the smoke, scent, or sound fill the air. Pay close attention to doors and windows, as well as corners where negative energy collects. Open the windows for negative energy to escape. Go through each room and repeat the words, “I cleanse and banish negative energy from this area.” After the whole house is done, return to the front door. While standing at the front door, say the words, “Negative energies are gone; only love lives here with healing.” As you banish one energy, always replace it with another when chanting.

Maintenance

Space cleansing is not a one-time thing. You need to do this from time to time to avoid negative energy build-up. It does not have to involve all steps, but at least the oils and chanting can help after a big fight or an unwanted visit. Also consider giving yourself an energetic cleanse regularly. Fill a bathtub with water and a small amount of sea salt and white vinegar, a few drops of your favorite oil, and soak as you visualize your aura being cleansed. When finished, rinse off and visualize all the negativity being washed away. Taking better care of yourself through simple self-care and caring for your space is empowering in a chaotic world.

Twin Flames and Unhappy Outcomes

Twin Flames and Unhappy Outcomes

Not all twin flame relationships have a happy ending and twin flame relationships can be hard and stressful.

Reasons of a Bad Income with a Twin Flame

Some reasons that you might have a bad experience with a twin flame is that you desire to be with them, but they are not there for you.

You look at all of your relationships and think just because you bonded that you are with your twin flame. Do not be fooled by a karmic relationship or a soulmate relationship. Your twin flame relationship will be different and will not fade over time.

Addictions and Other Faux Pas

Being in a twin flame relationship means you are going to change, and you are going to reach your higher self. Twin flame relationships are full of empathy and energy. When you are using things to numb your life and to forget about your problems, chances are that you are not with your twin flame.

If you have any of the following habits, you probably have not met your twin flame yet:

  • Smoking
  • Caffeine addiction
  • Excessive exercising
  • Drugs
  • Alcohol
  • Pills
  • Food
  • Overly busy
  • Watching too much television
  • Overworking

Numbing yourself to get rid of stress and overwhelming feelings does not help you. There is no way that you have met your twin flame if you are doing that.

Feeling Not Good Enough

When you are not feeling like you are good enough, chances are you will not meet your twin flame. You have to get to the point where you have unconditional love.

Feeing unworthy can happen because of mistakes that you have made and things from your past. You will not meet your twin flame until you learn to love who you are.

Spiritual

Having no desire to be spiritual is a big sign you have not met your twin flame. One of the purposes of a twin flame relationship is so that you can become your spiritual self and be a better person than you are.

Improve You

You may not want to change who you are, and you may do things that keep your behaviors the same. If you have no desire to change or be better, you are not ready to meet your twin flame.

Taking control of the situation can mean that you are not allowing the universe to step in. You need to be in charge of your life to be happy.

Normal Relationship

When you describe your relationship as normal, this is the furthest thing from a twin flame. A twin flame relationship is anything but normal.

Being with your twin flame will be mind blowing and will be something from a different world. The journey of your twin flame is to change who you are and to change your negatives into positives.

Beliefs

When you refuse to change what you believe and have beliefs programmed into your mind, you will not question what is going on.

It is impossible to be with someone such as your twin flame if you have false beliefs. Ask yourself what you believe and learn to know if you are unforgiving in nature.

Twin Flame Happiness

When you find your twin flame, it will be a relationship that is rewarding, hard and trying. You will be challenged but you will be so focused on your twin flame that it will seem like your world is different.

Learn to listen to the universe and know when your twin flame comes to you.

Learning to Contact Your Spirit Guides

Learning to Contact Your Spirit Guides

Everyone has spirit guides and guardian angels that watch over them and some people have more than one. Your guides are there for different reasons and they will not really interact with you until you are willing to ask them to. Are you aware of your spirit guides around you?

Spirit Guides

Spirit guides come in many forms and they come from different places. Your guide could be someone from your past that has died, and it might be someone that you even recognize by the energy that you feel when they are around.

These guides can show up in your dreams and can talk to you with messages and symbols and lead you on your spiritual and physical path.

You might even have a spirit animal that is there to guide you and be your companion. This animal might make you feel good about yourself and teach you about unconditional love. Maybe you have an Ascended Master such as Buddha as your guide. Some people call other things their guide and they spend their whole life listening to these guides assist them and teach them different lessons.

These guides are there to teach you and to show you what you should do in your life. These can be religious figures such as monks or other spiritual people and can even be Native American or a shaman.

Some people will connect with natural guides such as faeries and gnomes and other planet spirits that are there to make them feel good.

People can feel that they have alien guides and these guides help them to learn more about the world and to help them to be more open minded.

If you need healing in your body, some guides can come to show you what kind of treatment that you should get to help you feel better in your body.

No matter what happens in your life, you can get information and help from your guides and they can help you through your life journey. They will be there to see you grow in your spiritual person and to show you what kind of decisions you should make.

Purpose

The guardian angels that you have are there to teach you more about love and your spirit guides are there to help you know what your purpose in life is. If you are on the right track and you are reaching your goals, you can learn what your responsibility is and what kind of role you play in the universe.

These guides can help you to have meetings and help you to be in the right place at the right time. They can help you to find the right job and to work in places that bring you peace and joy.

Your path in life might give you opportunities to learn things such as being patient and helping others. You will learn to grow and be better.

Other souls are there to help you to be kind to people and help you to remember what your mission on the universe is. You never have to worry about your guides being close to you, they are there, and they will never leave you or desert you. They are excited for you on your journey.

Knowing They Are there

People are aware of their guides being close to them and they can sense them when they come close to them. If you feel bad about something and then all of a sudden, a calm rushes on you then you will feel your guides close to you. They will put their hands on your shoulders to comfort you and they will help you to figure out problems that you are having a hard time working through. They will give you guidance and direct you.

Your guides might come to you in dreams and tell you things that you need to be doing or answer questions that you have. They will be on your side when you are feeling bad and can help to bring you healing and peace in your body. When you want your guide by you, ask them to show up.

Your guide will be there to direct you and protect you and to help you stay healthy. The work that your guide is doing in your life is an energy work and they will be able to help you to cleanse your life and your body and to help you do the best things for you. They can help you to find the perfect job and even to find love.

Contacting Your Guides

When you want to talk to your guides, they are there for you and here are some ways you can contact them:

  • Ask them to come to you in a dream. Pay attention to what happens in your dream and what kinds of messages your guides give you. Respect them and love them and do not miss it when they come.
  • Meditate each day. Take time to relax and to clear your mind. Ask your guides to come to you and show you what you need to know. They will always show up when you ask.
  • Ask your guides to show you a sign. They can show you something such as send you a coin or a feather so that you know they are there. They can also make music play that you love or do something creative to show that they are there.
  • Some guides will use different ways to communicate such as through angel cards or numbers. When you want your guides to contact you, you can ask a psychic to help you call them.
  • Your guide will let you know when they are close, and they will make the hair on your arms stand up or they will give you butterflies in your stomach. The guides will be there to give you help and you will know when they are present.

When your guides come and you feel them, thank them for being there with you. You may see the lights in your house flicker on and off and this can be a sign that they are there for you and they want to connect with you.

How They Guide You

Your guides will show up when you ask them for help. They cannot help you unless you ask them because you have free will and they are not going to break that.

If you give your guides permission to show up, they will, and it is your role to invite them to you. You do not have to use fancy words or rituals; you just have to talk to them and ask them to come to you.

Always say thank you when they show up and help you because they want to feel loved just like you want to feel loved. Any sign that they give you can help your life and when you feel them close to you, thank them for being there. This can make your journey with your guides exciting and make you feel stronger in your spirit.

Sometimes your guides will not show up as big as other times and when they come and their action is strong, here are some things you might notice:

  • Overhearing good advice that works good for you.
  • Hear a song on the radio that stands out to you.
  • Pick a magazine up and find an article that helps you out.
  • Have a friend that shows up to help you.
  • Meeting up with an old co-worker that is there to lend you a hand.
  • Seeing something come on the television that gives you an answer you need.
  • Seeing a book on a shelf that brings you comfort.

Everyone has spirit guides and your guides are there to help you. Look around you and see what kind of signs that your guides are giving you and which ones work the best for you.

Face to Face Readings

Face to Face Readings

Now, more than ever, people are looking to psychics for reading. One major question that is asked is, “how accurate is a phone reading versus a face-to-face reading?” Long before now, people would schedule psychic readings in person and would do this over having phone readings. There are advantages to phone readings that people never consider.

How can a psychic give you an accurate reading at such as long distance? The truth is the distance between you and a psychic is not a problem because the energies that you transmit is what the psychic picks up on. This article can help you to know why telephone readings can be better than face-to-face readings.

Difference Between Readings

If you are going through a hard time in your life and you need to find a psychic to give you clarity, there is hope and you can get a new perspective on your life.

Here are some ways that you can get a reading and what the difference is:

Phone Reading

A phone reading allows your psychic to call you while you are comfortable at home. No one knows that you are getting this reading and it is very anonymous.

If you live in an area where you are not close to a psychic and you have a problem traveling, this reading can be perfect for you.

Face-to-Face Reading

A face-to-face reading is when you go to a psychic or they come to you for a reading. The hardest part of this is that your psychic might respond to how you react on an emotional level or based on your body language. This can cause the psychic to baes their answers on how you are acting.

Some people are embarrassed when face-to-face with a psychic and if it is a stranger, it can cause intimate details to be hard.

Advantages of a Phone reading

Since you are not sitting in front of your psychic for a reading, they cannot tell what you are feeling based on your facial expressions or your body language. They will not be able to tell where you came from or who you are based on your age, if you have a wedding ring on or what you are wearing or what you drive.

These things can make the reading seem fake and since you are on the telephone, the psychic will have to focus on the energy to give you a real reading.

Staying calm and relaxed can help the reading to be more authentic and if you are in a face to face meeting, your psychic can tell if you are nervous or not and it could make the reading not as accurate. The psychic can pick up on nervous energy when you are in the room with them.

A telephone reading can be more relaxing, and you can do it even in your pajamas. You will stay calmer and get a more accurate reading.

Convenience

A telephone reading allows you to have a reading right at your home and there is no reason for you to travel or to spend the day finding a psychic reader. The psychic can call you from anywhere in the world.

If you are busy with work and home duties, you can make the call during break and this is much easier than fitting a reading into your schedule.

Privacy

Some clients do not want their personal information to be out there and they want to have privacy when getting a reading.

When you get a phone reading, you can share whatever information you want, and no one will hear what you are talking about. A psychic reader on the phone will keep your reading anonymous.

Better Quality

Chances are that you will be more open on a phone reading than in person. This happens because you will be more comfortable and in tune with your reader. You will connect with their energies and them with yours.

Since you will be less nervous and upset, you will have a more accurate reading.

Phone Reading Possibilities

A good psychic can give you a reading right from their home or anywhere they are. They tune into your vibrations and listen to your voice. They can pick up on messages from you telepathically and from the spirit guides and then give you the information.

You can think of this as a television picking up a frequency or a radio picking up a frequency when you try to tune into a certain station.

A good psychic can tune into your vibrations from wherever you are and wherever they are. A phone reading can be just as accurate or more so than a face to face reading. Energies are not separated by time or distance.

Understanding a psychic reading can help you to be better prepared to get the reading that you are hoping for.

Signs of a Spiritual Awakening

Signs of a Spiritual Awakening

People often hear the word awakening and they think do not always know what to think about the word. The truth is awakening is a word that people use when you become aware of the universe and you connect to the universe and other forces through your spirit.

The problem with a spiritual awakening though is that there is no real description of this, and people often wonder how you can tell if you are even having an awakening or not.

Awakening happens when you no longer focus on what your ego wants and you learn to live in a life where you let go of the past and the future and you become aware of who you are and the connection with the universal energy.

When you are awakened, you have to learn that you are separate, but you are also connected, and this is a different level of your spiritual life than you had before.

Different faiths believe in different kinds of awakening such as nirvana, awakening, enlightening and more. This is when you stop just watching and you question what is being watched and who is watching?

You have to learn that there are different realities such as the difference between television and the real world. Being awakened is a difference between your life now and a life that you strive to have.

Awakened People

There are different people throughout history that are said to have went through some kind of awakening such as Gandhi, Buddha, Nelson Mandela and even Mother Theresa. All of these individuals were known and inspiring to others and if you think of an example of someone that you might believe lived a good life and focused on good, those people might come to your mind.

Here are some other people that you might think of when you think of awakenings:

  • Oprah Winfrey, sharing her story with millions of television watchers.
  • Jim Carry, a well-known comedian that made people laugh.
  • Russel Brand, a model who sets out to make people laugh.

People that go through an awakening are not perfect people, they are just people that are opening up their spirits to more than they are now. Here are some signs of a spiritual awakening:

Patterns

The first thing that you might notice are different patterns that you go through in your life. These can be things that you had done and are doing, and you are just now realizing, like the lights turned on in your mind.

If you start being aware of the things you are doing, you might ask things like:

  • Why do I want to be like others?
  • Why am I too tired to get up in the morning?
  • Why do I eat so much red meat?
  • What makes me attach to drama?
  • Do I need to drink that much?
  • What sets me off and makes me so angry?

The first step towards awakening is growing and being aware that things in your life need to change.

Connection

When you begin your awakening process, you will begin to connect with people. You will find people that you want to help, and you will begin volunteering your time such as at the food bank or the local animal shelter.

You will meet people that you used to not understand and now you will begin to get them without judging them. You might also be aware that there are many creatures on the planet, and this might make you want to stop killing insects such as flies and spiders and stop eating meat.

Being connected to the planet makes you aware of the needs of the planet and you might become more aware of litter and waste.

Attachment

Even if you do not realize it, people become attached to thing. They attach to where they eat, who they hang out with, how much money they have, what they like to read and more.

If you base your ideas and beliefs on what people or the media has told you, you might miss out on things. If you let the universe guide you, you might find these things out:

  • You are very intelligent.
  • You are popular.
  • You love animals.
  • You are a vegan.
  • You are late sometimes.
  • You do not eat gluten.

We all have different layers and as we begin to remove these layers and change, we become better.

Peace

Having inner peace does not mean that we do not get angry or frustrated sometimes, what it means is that we are able to let things go and accept our emotions for what they are. We learn to have more positive thoughts over negative thoughts.

Intuition

Intuition is going to kick into high gear as you reach your awakening. You might be able to know when someone is calling before they do or that you will meet someone before they show up.

Your intuition will help to guide your thoughts and your energy and will help you in all things in your life.

Synchronicity

The same thing as intuition, synchronicity happens when the universe sends something in your path. You might turn on the radio and hear a song or advertisement of something you wanted to do, or you might run into someone that can help to guide you.

This is your destiny and even when you feel like things happen by chance, synchronicity is not chance, but it is a divine set up from the universe.

Compassion

When you feel the feelings of other people, you are showing empathy. Compassion comes from empathy and when people are going through their spiritual awakening, they become more in tune with what they feel and how loving and kind they are.

Compassion and forgiveness go hand and hand and self-compassion comes with being mindful, being kind to yourself and being kind to others.

If you feel these feelings, you are on the right track.

Death

Once you realize that you are no longer afraid of death, chances are that you are on the journey of your awakening. You will realize you are not worrying nearly as much, and you realize that you allow your fear to take over your peace.

Your physical body will go through things, but things will not seem as tragic or important as they were in the past.

Authentic

Being awakened means that you are more confident in who you are, and you know that you are worthy of good things. You will no longer feel that you have to do what the world tells you, but you will instead listen to the universe and what it shows you.

People that are awakened people will often influence others and they show themselves so that they can help others to find their true self as well.

Well-Being

People that are awakened have a strong well-being and they are consistent in what they think and want. They seem to be happier and stronger than those that are not.

Being positive can help people to be happier and allows them to engage better in relationships and to have a deeper connection in their marriage, friendships and even their jobs.

Assisting the Awakening

When you feel that you are beginning your awakening, here are some things you can do to get it moving along:

  • Volunteer your time.
  • Be thankful
  • Take time to slow down.
  • Laugh
  • Have Fun
  • Meditate
  • Relax
  • Go out in nature.
  • Connect with your area.
  • Change your life circumstances to focus more on yourself.

If you are going through your awakening, take time to focus on yourself and who you are becoming.

Understanding Charka Healing

Understanding Charka Healing

Chakra healing is a way balance the energy movement through living beings.  The goal is maintaining ideal balance between the energy points in the body.  To achieve a balanced chakra system, one must know each point’s unique functions and how chakras interact with each other.  Healthy chakras system can by identified by some of the following traits:

  • Optimum equilibrium
  • Distinct qualities of energies or vibrations associated with each chakra
  • Appropriate strength of energy for each chakra
  • Appropriate direction of energy for each chakra (clockwise or counterclockwise)
  • Appropriate polarity (in/outward flow, or reception and expression of energy)

Importance of healing chakras

Our daily experiences influence the state of our chakras.  Negative interactions are especially powerful as they tend to heighten one’s defensiveness leading to a constriction in energy flow and hindering the chakra system.  This is what is typically referred to as a “blockage,” or reduction in the quality of energy produced by a chakra point and the way flow is greatly reduce throughout the spiritual field.  By healing your chakras, you promote a balanced and optimal flow of energy either throughout your body or in one specific area.

How chakra health benefits our life

Having stimulating experience either via direct physical contact or an emotional method create small electromagnetic charges in our body that is expressed through our chakras.  The direction and quality of the energy governed by each chakra is altered and creates a system wide reaction.  Society’s culture can also impact culture with a community driven by mental acuity and scientific mindset producing a collect reliance on the third chakra.  This is similar to how our physical environment can impact our chakras.  For example, if you get regular exposure to nature and contemplation, then you may have additional energy in your first two chakras that help to ground your entire chakra system.

The philosophical basis for chakra healing

One prominent philosophy of balanced charkas state there is an upward flow of energy produced by the earth’s magnetic field that climbs up the chakra points, and a downward flow of energy produced by the universe that travels down toward the earth via our chakras.  The two currents act to ground each other and the whole energetic body.  A second philosophy pays particular attention to the upward movement of energy stemming from the root chakra and its effects onto the rest of the system.  Having a dualistic lens is akin to the adage “mind over matter” and the connection between psyche and awareness.  So if you want to have a healthier chakra system, consider how your mind feels more refreshed when you work to have a healthier mindset.

8 Crystals That Can Help Your Spiritual Journey

8 Crystals That Can Help Your Spiritual Journey

Crystals have long fascinated people. From their beauty to their hidden meanings, gems have been sought after for millennia. However, the love affair with crystals runs much deeper as they have also been used for healing and spiritual purposes for more than 6,000 years when the Sumerians of Mesopotamia used them.

Many other ancient cultures then incorporated crystals into their spirituality and healing practices including those in Greece, Rome, Egypt, China, and South America.

The Science of Rocks

There hasn’t been research into if and how crystals work to heal. However, scientists have been able to prove that data can be stored in synthetic crystals, which is why each gem has particular qualities.

Everyone has an energy and all matter vibrates at certain levels of energy. Crystals, likewise, vibrate at their unique frequencies. Combining our frequencies to those of crystals creates a wider vibrational field that has an impact on our nervous systems. This is called the Law of Resonance. It is these vibrational shifts that help stimulate healing.

Scientists also concur that crystals have piezoelectricity, which is a unique electrical charge. This is a charge crystals give off once they are cut or pressed. When you press your hand or finger against the crystal, it emits an electrical charge.

Those who use crystals find they open up vibrational doors, help meditation, strengthen prayer, can be used to create a grid, can be programmed with intention, used to support a ritual, or help in mindfulness.

How to Use Crystals

The most important thing you can do when you plan to use crystals is to ground yourself first. After all, the purpose is to connect with your soul. Breath deeply a few minutes, center your mind, and relax your body. There are some grounding crystals such as black tourmaline or smoky quartz that works well for this.

8 Crystals to Heal

Eight easily accessible crystals can help you in a variety of ways ranging from your body to your mind and your spirit.

  1. Amethyst is a popular crystal because it helps to open the third eye and crown chakras, helps deepen intuition, helps calm and protect, and is an awesome mediation aid.
  2. Labradorite is a favorite with a mysterious origin told by the Inuit tribe. They believe this crystal fell from the Aurora Borealis. This iridescent crystal awakens abilities that appear magical, reveals the truth, strengthens trust in yourself, and grounds spiritual energy. It also relieves stress and anxiety.
  3. Lemurian quartz is a little hard to obtain. They are abundant in Brazil but are also found in Russia and other places. Like other crystals, this one has a story to tell. Legend states these crystals originated from Lemuria, a lost civilization that was highly advanced spiritually. This peaceful society supposedly programmed these crystals to teach oneness and love to pass down the traits of the Lemurian people to future generations.

This crystal helps in spiritual awakening, magnifies prayers, intentions, and wishes, helps you reach higher consciousness levels, connects you to hidden knowledge within yourself, awakens your link to wholeness, and removes energy blocks from chakras.

The Lemurian quartz is also called a “master crystal” because it affects all your body’s energy centers.

  1. Moldavite is an incredibly powerful stone found only in the Czech Republic. It is a meteorite stone that is the product of a crash near a Czechoslovakian river 15 million years ago. Some consider this stone to be extraterrestrial in origin.

This crystal can raise your vibration, produce immediate and rapid life changes, connect you to higher consciousness, increase the number of synchronic moments, change your inner being quickly, and open your heart. This stone can produce a warm, pulsating sensation from the first time you hold it.

  1. Nuummite, mined only in Greenland, is called a “magician’s stone” or “sorcerer’s stone.” It is an incredibly old stone as it was formed in a volcanic eruption some 3.8 million years ago.

This stone enhances personal power, strengthens your energy field, grounds you spiritually, help in shamanic journeying and soul retrieval, and allows you to tap into unconscious layers of your mind.

This rare stone is limited quantity and many collectors find it highly valuable.

  1. Rose quartz is pretty to look at and more attainable than some of the other stones because it is found all over the world. Called the “stone of unconditional love,” this stone is known to open the heart, making it ideal for inner work.

This crystal helps clear you of negative feelings like resentment, guilt, anger, fear, and jealousy. It promotes forgiveness and acceptance as well as stimulates self-love. It helps to increase the personal reception of love and emotion and aids in promoting mental harmony and emotional balance.

Like Lemurian quartz, rose quartz is considered a “master crystal” as it benefits all chakras.

  1. Lapis Lazuli has been in use since the Neolithic Age with many making use of it in different ways. The Bible references this stone, but it was also heavily used in Egypt. Tutankhamun used it in his burial mask and Cleopatra used a powered version of the stone for eyeshadow.

This stone opens the third eye, helps you align in truth, aids in eliminating illusion to find the truth, sharpens mental clarity, increases your spiritual growth, and promotes a connection with a higher consciousness.

  1. Moqui marbles, also called Boji Stones, are also known as “shaman stones.” This stone is rather dull in appearance compared to others but is incredibly powerful. The marbles come in three types that are female, male, and androgynous. These stones are related to those who have died as the word “Moqui” is a Hopi word meaning “dear departed ones.” They come from the southwestern United States.

The legend is the spirits of the deceased played with the marbles during the night and left them as messages to the living in the morning.

These marbles promote centering and grounding, helps you connect with earth energies, balances male and female energies, connects you with animal spirit guides, awakens psychic abilities, and clears your energy field.

These crystals are good ones to get you started on your spiritual journey to personal healing and inner peace.

Helping Kids Process Past Lives

Helping Kids Process Past Lives

It’s not just adult that have a fascination with their past lives.  Children due to their newness on Earth can more readily access memories of their previous life.  At times they can even paint vivid pictures of their past incarnation to the adults willing to listen to them!  This is true for children around the world.

Ian Stevenson, a psychologist, performed a scientific study that documented over 2,500 cases of children who were able to recall pertinent and intimate details of deceased person’s life.  He noted that typically these recollections fade away around age five.

One of the key pieces of evidence of children being able to retain memories of a past life is the ability for them to speak a foreign language that they have not yet experienced in this current lifetime.  This phenomenon is referred to as xenoglossy.  An example of xenoglossy in action comes from the life of Ivy Carter Beaumont, a young English girl who lived in the early 1900s.  Although her family only was exposed to the English language, Ivy was able to speak in a mix of ancient and modern Egyptian.  She stated to curious onlookers that this was because she had been a Babylonian princess in a previous lifetime.

Another example of children’s ability to share memories of their past life comes from an ability to identify crucial details of specific locations.  This includes being able to explicitly describe places they have never visited or seen in any form of media.  Evidence of this phenomenon can is shown by the life of Purnima Ekanayake, a nine-year-old Sri Lankan girl.  During a discussion with a professional, she discussed her work as an incense maker at the temple Kelaniya and how she had perished in a tragic bus accident nearby.  Her claims were investigated and the person’s life she recalled was positively identified!

A third way kids share their knowledge of a previous life is through first-hand accounts of historical events.  James Leininger, was a toddler fascinated by toy airplanes during the day, but had devastating nightmares about plane crashes and explosions at night.  After one such night terror, he shared with his parents he had been aboard the USS Natoma during World War II.  His parents investigated this story and learn about the horrific explosion of this warship.

If you know a young child who might be trying to share stories of their past life be embolden to ask them questions.  When you are able to listen to them, rather than dismissing it as fantasy, you help this child help lingering wounds from the past.  You can also become a front-row participant in the wonders of history and the power of reincarnation.

Chakras and Auras Working Together

Chakras and Auras Working Together

Many people confuse chakras and auras or use the terms interchangeably. It is important to know and understand the difference in these things. Understanding these energy centers is a way to enhance spiritual unfoldment, gain insight, and grow in psychic development throughout life.

Overview

Chakras are multi-colored spinning wheels in the energy fields. There are seven main chakra points, though many people believe we have hundreds of mini-chakras. The main ones include:

  • Crown – located at the top of the head
  • Third-eye – located between the eyebrows
  • Throat – located at the throat
  • Heart – located in the center of the chest
  • Solar plexus – located around the navel area
  • Sacral – located in the lower back area
  • Root – located at the base of the spine

Chakras show the flow of energy throughout the endocrine system as based on our thoughts and feelings at any moment. The chakras are where the energy transfers. They are like distribution centers that channel energy where it is needed at the time in your system. When these chakras are blocked, this can create challenges in life. When a chakra has an emotional blockage, it needs cleared and repaired. Some people can see both auras and chakras, so you can develop your intuitive gifts to the point you can as well. The condition of the chakras are what form the aura.

Your aura is the energy field surrounding the body. It has seven layers, but they are not on top of one another, simply blended together. All living things have an aura, but the human aura extends several feet around the body due to the complex nature. The aura is like reading an energy map that shows when you are happy, tired, logical, friendly, and much more. You can learn to read auras to help see how people are feeling without them saying a word. Think of the aura as an energetic space or bubble that can be invaded or respected by others.

Working Together

Chakras and auras appear as they do because of energy. Each day we think and feel different emotions. This affects both chakras and auras. When we feel positive or passionate, the chakras spin freely and energy flows without effort. The aura shimmers. The opposite is true if we are down, depressed, or struggling to make decisions.

Improving Chakras, Auras, and Life

To help keep our auras and chakras healthy, we need to be healthy and positive. This comes from a healthy and active lifestyle in which we can keep the energy channels open and flowing freely. If a chakra does get blocked, try meditation or a cleansing to help get the energy flowing again. Knowing what certain color auras mean can also be helpful in getting to know and interact with others. Check out the guide below as an example.

  • Orange – Emotional body with a flow of energy
  • Red – Etheric body, feeling existence
  • Yellow – Mental body, self- acceptance and clear thinking
  • Green – Astral body, open to channels of love and clear thinking
  • Blue – Etheric body, clearly expressing thoughts
  • Indigo – Celestial body, universal love and clear vision
  • Violet – Ketheric body, feeling one with creation and purposeful living

Knowing these and learning to recognize them can improve your own life and the life of those around you.

Incarnate Angels

Incarnate Angels

Incarnate angels will often times go to a medium that is an advocate for angels.  They will use their intuition to find these mediums and the medium will help them to know what their true identity really is and the purpose that they had on their lives.

The angels will show up to these mediums and they will do this after seeing a picture or having a strong sense that they can help them.

Incarnate Angels

Incarnated angels did not always have the best lives on earth.  Many of them were hurt and were treated badly and had bad self-esteem.  There are ones that were handicapped and others that were not able to have a good life and struggled.

One reason that incarnate angels need an advocate is that they need someone that can really give them insight to their life, even in the spirit world.  Angelic readings can be offered, and this can give incarnate angels a change to have knowledge that they need so that they can care in their lives and take charge of how they are living instead of being tossed back and forth.

Deception

Angels that are incarnated angels are very honest and they talk about things that have happened in their life.  They have a lot of goodness and a bright light and they are loved by many people.  These angels are also very smart and are talented in anything they do and so this causes people to be jealous of them and to want to hurt them.

These people feel that these angels should be targets and they choose to manipulate and hurt them, and they are not trustworthy.  They often will fall into this criticism and they will be dishonest with these angels.

This happens and the angels can let the medium know what is going on.  The medium will help these people with the spirit guides and help them to move on in life and see who they really are.  An incarnated angel will face their life and be confused and will not understand things.

When they get their message and see their purpose in life, they will have an attitude of pain and hurt that came in their life before, but this will start to go away.  They will be able to move their blocks and to find happiness and be changed.

When the reading is done, they will even look different and they will have more self-esteem.  They will have little or no limitations and they will feel that they have psychic abilities that they did not know that they had.

When these angels are learning who they are, they allow themselves to have more power.  They stop people from manipulating them and they recognize when people are being deceitful.  They are able to stay focused and to serve their true purpose.  This is a victory for them.

Conclusion

Anyone that needs to have help and to have better self-esteem and self-worth should consider getting a psychic reading.  A psychic or mediumship reading can help people to connect with their inner self and see what they need to change in order to be happy and free.

Find a good psychic that is honest and truthful, and they can help you to go far in life.

Twin Flame Relationships

Twin Flame Relationships

Some of the strongest relationships in life are the twin flame relationships.  They increase all the time.  Sometimes, people are not even dating for power or for religious purposes, but now, they are out to meet people who they like and find different possibilities online, in person, at the bar or wherever they are out.  They are given the freedom to meet new people and to find ones that attract them each day.

This freedom has caused people to grow both physically and mentally and even spiritually and has allowed people to connect with their twin souls.  What is interesting about the twin flame relationship is that it has the ability to change lives and the ability to transform who we are as people.

Since there is power in the twin flame relationship, it can be worshipped but this is a misguided way of finding a false idol.  The truth is that even though twin flames are sent from the universe, they are intense and can be painful.

Wrong Ideas about Twin Flames

When you pray for a soulmate, you want to have this relationship, but the truth is that things are changing.  We have to understand that soulmates are not always romantic ties and can be friendships or family members that are kindred souls.  These can happen in relationship but only a twin flame relationship is unconditional love and forever binding.

Even though everyone would like a twin flame relationship, this is one relationship that may or may not happen in our lifetime.

The soulmate is the bridge between your two selves and the goal of the twin flame is to connect with the other half of your soul that has been separated.  They bring you wholeness and harmony in yourself and the journey is not like a meeting, but it is where two people mirror each other and create divine harmony.  This does not mean the relationship is easy and most twin flame relationships are hard.

Myth 1:  They Complete You

The truth is that your twin flame does not complete you, but they do help you to be a better you.  They come to you and they teach your life lessons and help you to find what you are lacking such as compassion and love.  They will show you y our wounds and condition you and teach you to be changed.  They will show the truth of who you are.

Myth 2:  They are Opposite Sex of You

Your twin flame might be the same gender as you because your twin flame might cause you to question your sexuality.

Myth 3:  They are Just Like You

The truth is that your twin flame will be opposite of you.  You will have many similarities with them, but you will also have differences.  You might be an extrovert and they might be an introvert.  There will be things about them that will bring your strengths and weaknesses to life and this happens when you are with someone that is different than you are.

Myth 4:  They Come at the Perfect Time

The truth is that your twin flame will come at the worse time in your life.  They will come when you are struggling or when you are married.  They might find that they need to connect you when you are going through a crisis.

Myth 5:  You Will Know Your Twin Flame Immediately

You will not always know your twin flame right away.  Everyone is at a different level in life and depending on how mature your soul is will depend on if you know your twin flame right away or not.  You will see that there are differences between you and them and when you meet your twin flame it might be hard to recognize them.

It is easier to recognize your twin flame when they are your romantic lover, but this can be frustrating and bring forth a lot of pain.

Myth 6:  They Keep You Happy

There are no perfect relationships that are in complete harmony and this includes your twin flame relationship.  Even if you end up happy and finding unconditional love, the relationship will take time to work through and will take time to understand.  They will be riddled with arguments and pain and there will be a strong sense of urgency to leave sometimes.  You will see their flaws and they will bring out your flaws.

This will all be dealt with and eventually healed, but it is a hard road.

The tricky things are that our twin flames will know what buttons to push and what to say in order to provoke us to be angry and to be upset.  Both partners will need to work on who they are so that they can realize their desires for each other.

Myth 7:  You’ll Be Ready for Them

This is another myth and the truth are that your twin flame does not always come when you want them to or when you are in the right place in life.  You can see religious differences and realize that there is a connection but maybe you aren’t ready for it.

You will be active in your life and it will be common for the twin flame relationship to come forth at a hard time and you will see that sometimes they will have to leave and come back at a later time in our life when you are both ready.

Why Do You Have Empathy Fatigue?

Why Do You Have Empathy Fatigue?

Most people are tired and drained most of their lives.  There is always so much going on such as home life, working, being sociable and doing all of these things can put a strain on use.  We don’t get enough sleep and we don’t get enough free time throughout our days.

When you are an intuitive, this can be even worse.  You will experience so many highs and lows throughout the day and this comes with energy coming and going through your life.  You will have your vibrations getting lower and then it can cause you to crash.  When you are in one of the categories of an empath, you will know that this can be psychic exhaustion that you are feeling.

This is a word that is beyond tired.  This is exhaustion, drained, depleted.  This is where your brain will not even be able to think anymore because you just want to sit around and rest.  This is a time when you become emotionally and physically drained.

So Tired

Empath’s are always tired because they use more energy than other people do.  Their energies are always being tapped into and some of the times, negative energies attach to them.

When you are an empath, you have strong and heavy emotions.  These emotions come from people and areas around them.  Even when you don’t mean to, when you are an empath, you pick it all up.

When you feel the emotions of other people, you are opening up your energy reservoir to them.  You will take on other people’s energies to help them heal and when you do this, you will become tired and sick yourself.

Being an empath takes a lot of work and energy and you have to learn to protect yourself.  When you have days that are off or you are very tired, you need to learn to clear off this negative energy form your life.  You need to sit down and figure out why you are always drained.

You need to know that your energies are always connecting with others and this causes the human body to work harder.  The body is not used to working with these energies.  An empath uses energies differently than other people and that is why sometimes, even with a caffeine overload, that you will still feel tired.

When you give readings and are connecting with people for a long period of time, you will start off strong and then you will become very tired.  This happens to people that are empath’s but all the time.  You have to learn to adjust your schedule in order to manage your energies.

Helping Your Energy Levels

In order to help your energy levels, there are some things you can do:

  • Stop using a lot of caffeine.
  • Stay balanced.
  • Ground your energy and refill the energy in your body.
  • Protect your energy from negativity.
  • Put up boundaries with people and in the spirit world.
  • Love yourself.
  • Take breaks.
  • Know you have limits.
  • Fill yourself up through meditation.
  • Balance your chakras.

Conclusion

Empaths are tired more because they have more energies that are being used up on a day to day and minute to minute basis.  Learn to replenish your energies so you do not become drained and overly tired.

Soul Contracts for Finding a Soulmate

Soul Contracts for Finding a Soulmate

Everyone has hoped to find the special person that will bring them happiness and make them complete.  It is hard to understand, but our soulmate is not always there to make us happy but to teach us a life lesson.

Soulmate

A soulmate is a person that has another part of your soul and is waiting to connect with you. They will give you a loving relationship and when you come in contact with them, there will be a strong connection.  They will have energies that match yours and they will spend time with you.  Sometimes, this type of relationship will not be romantic.

The thing is a soulmate does not just happen once.  You will have many soulmates over your lifetime, and it can be your friends or your family.  Before you leave earth, your soulmate will come and will help you to learn a lesson in your life.

A soulmate connection can be a boyfriend or girlfriend and will teach you a lesson about yourself.  They don’t tell you what these relationships are like in the movies and most of the time they do not last, and they will end after you have learned your lesson.  Sometimes one person doesn’t realize that there is a lesson but that is not your responsibility.  You are responsible for learning your lesson and for growing.

Finding a Soulmate

When you look for your perfect match, they probably just won’t show up.  Sometimes a soulmate will come when your soul is ready but most of the time when you don’t expect it.

The best way to call on your soulmate is to work on yourself and learn to grow.  When you grow mentally and spiritually, the universe will be ready to send you the soulmate that you have prepared for.  Be patient and know the right person will come your way.

There are people that will come across many soulmates in their life and there are hard lessons to learn.  Sometimes things will not end well, and you will be heartbroken.  You will spend much time with them and feel that you have a strong connection, but you will only be learning a life lesson from them.  You will know your worth and you will realize that there will be change and that you will have to let this person go at some point.

You cannot change what happens and you have to keep focusing on becoming a better person and working in your life to better who you are.

When you focus on yourself, you will meet your soulmate and you will learn new lessons in your life.  You will grow and have new experiences each time you meet a new soulmate.  You will not ever know what kind of soulmate you will meet next and what kind of connection you will come across.

Sometimes your soulmate will match you perfectly and will connect so strongly that it will seem like you have known them your whole life.  The universe times things perfectly and no relationship will be perfect, even a soulmate one.  Remember that with lessons sometimes comes heartbreak and you will get stronger.

Conclusion

You cannot wait around for your soulmate to come and he or she will not come while you are not working on yourself.  They will not always bring you joy, and pure happiness and many soulmates will come with heartache and pain.  You are the one that controls your own happiness.

You must stay active and continue to work on yourself and growing while you are waiting for your soulmate.  When the time is right, the universe will know that you are ready, and your soulmate will come to you.  Be patient and thankful for each lesson you learn.

3 Key Way to Purify Your Energy

3 Key Way to Purify Your Energy

Everything is energy and each interaction we have affects our levels.  Whether it is playing with our pets, interacting with a relationship, listening to music or even reading a book, energy shapes how we experience each day.  What energy we put out impacts the energy we receive.  Typically, energy follows the laws of attraction, where like begets like.  However, when we experience an energy clash, its impacts can be severe and leave us feeling drained.

Energy can be interconnected.  Recently, a study showed that when one romantic partner is stressed, their lover’s blood pressure increases simultaneously.  Therefore, ensuring optimal energy is not just beneficial for you, but those that you love as well.  It can be tricky to safeguard your energy fields.  We don’t even have to vocalize how we are feeling at any moment, it can merely be sensed.  If you are worried about negative energy can affect you, there are a few tips you can do today to ensure you aren’t overwhelmed by negativity.

  1. Promote Light in Your Life

If you are finding yourself trap in a negativity vortex try to get outside.  Getting some natural light can help you take some deeper breaths and see things from a new angle.  If you can’t get outside, consider lighting a candle and using the flame as a grounding center for meditation.  You might also choose to cleanse your energy with the aid of a sage smudging stick.  When you light and then extinguish the flame, the resulting smoke can be used to purify your energy fields.  For maximum results, consider using a mantra or positive affirmation, to ground your intentions.

  1. Experiment with Emotional Freedom Technique

Negative emotions and energy can take a toll on your physical body.  To help re-balance yourself, try the tapping used in Emotional Freedom Technique.  Tapping on energy meridians will help you ease tension, and rewrite negative patterns into more beneficial ones while allowing your energy field to balance itself out.

  1. Step Away

If you are getting overwhelmed by negative energy the best remedy is to walk away from the situation and take a break.  Go outside and talk a walk in fresh air, enjoy a luxurious shower or bubble bath, journal, draw or release your feelings to the wind.  If its difficult to physically detach yourself, then step away mentally.  Begin by taking a few deep, diaphragmatic breaths and exhale your woes.  Consider a grounding mantra like the following “When I breathe in, I breath in love, when I breathe out, I breathe out peace.”

Always remember to be cognoscente of the energy you are transmitting and receiving.  It is important to your well being that you protect yourself and ensure you are promoting peace, love and light to those you encounter.  As you gain control with your energy regulation, you will feel more in control of your life and experience more sensations of peace and contentment.

Healing with Colors

Healing with Colors

Colors are very powerful and have been used for healing, to change moods and for other things.  Even during Ancient Egyptian times, the Egyptians used colors to heal others.  Colors have been part of many cultures and are always around.  Chromotherapy is a way to use light therapy or colorology as a treatment of healing.

Some health organizations use colors to spread messages and to help people be aware.  They use purple to show attention to Alzheimer’s and pink with Breast Cancer awareness.  People will paint rooms in certain colors to be soothing and bright colors to bring in energies.  Colors are used for advertising and other things.

Therapy

When you understand what each color means, you will understand that colors cause us to respond a certain way.

Red

Red means passion and is full of energy and action.  Use red for romance.

Orange

Orange is for communication and being optimistic.  Use this in a meeting if you want to evoke open communication.

Yellow

Yellow is a color that is cheerful and full of intellect.  Use this color to make your home happy.

Green

Green shows us growth and calmness.  Use this in hospitals or in kids’ rooms to keep them calm.

Blue

Blue is a color that brings peace and trust.  Wear blue to look trustworthy.

Indigo

Indigo is a shade of purple that means perception.  If you want to increase your psychic abilities, use this color.

Purple

Purple is a creative color.  If you want to see your creativity take off, paint your walls purple or wear it.

Silver

Silver is a color that increases your intuition.  This color relaxes your mood.

Pink

Pink is for love and use this in your bedroom to bring more love to your life.

Turquoise

Turquoise is meant to give you open communication.  Wear this color when you need to focus on a project.

Gold

Gold shows us success.  Wear this if you want to achieve success.

Conclusion

Colors affect both your mind and your body.  Your emotions play a big role depending on what colors you surround yourself with.  Each color has a power and you should add these to your life.

Healing Yourself Spiritually

Healing Yourself Spiritually

Healing Yourself SpirituallySome problems can only be fixed with spiritual healing.  Do you have a problem relationship and you feel that you are doing everything you can to fix it?  Have you ever felt that there is more in life for you, but you can’t seem to make it to the next step of your journey?

Do you ever feel tired and resentful, for no reason, and you are angry because you aren’t getting the rest and sleep that you need?

If you feel these things, chances are that you need to do a spiritual healing.

Spiritual Healing

A spiritual healing is based on everything around you, nature, people, the spirit guides, the universe, just everything.

We are made up of all kinds of energy that the universe gives us, and this energy enters into your body and your soul.  Your aura helps you to store this energy and helps to protect you from the negative energies that build up around you.

The energy that is around your aura reflects what you are feeling both physically and emotionally.  This is the energy that can affect your life in some way or another.

The energies that you have will impact you in some way and you have to be careful with the energies that fill your body.  These energies can be negative and can cause you problems in your physical and emotional life.

Conditions

There are some conditions that you might see in your life and that means that it is time for a spiritual healing.

Relationship Problems

If you feel that you are struggling in your relationships or if you have had a lot of breakups lately, chances are your emotions are damaged.

You might always be walking around angry or sad or frustrated with your life.  You might feel guilt and fear about other relationships and be afraid of letting your heart go.  Not only because you are afraid of them failing but because you know that in your state that you can’t handle much more negative energy.

When you have been in broken relationships, you need to allow yourself to heal and work through the negative emotions that you have had.  You can bring healing into your life and take your emotions to a higher level.

When you start to see relationships suffering from negative energies, you will see that there are more and more problems.  You will see that there is a lot of emotions and baggage that is coming inside of the relationships.

When humans are reborn, they carry the baggage from their past and each of their past life relationships can suffer from this.

Each of these relationships can lead you to a different problem and the experiences play a huge role in what you believe and what kind of emotions come to the surface.

Some relationships are karmic relationships, and some are soulmate relationships and these can leave you negative energy when they do not work out. Soulmate relationships can be romantic and can be part of your past life experiences and there needs to be things that are resolved to avoid there being left over negative energies in your future.

Spiritual cleansing can help to get rid of the negative energies that all of these relationships have left you so that you can begin again without being weighed down by pain and anxiety.

Finances

Just like having relational problems, financial problems can come from negative energy that is in your life.

Negative energy can make it hard for you to make good financial decisions and can make you experience poverty and other financial hardships.

Dark Energy

When you have negative energy, it can fill the workplace or where you live.  There are some energies that can follow you around and can connect to your soul.  This can be places where people have experienced suffering.  These dark energies can attach to you.

Feeling Heavy

There are many reasons why you might feel heavy energy around you and some of it is because of the negative energy that is connected to you.

When this happens, there are dangers and there are times when this negative energy can cause you to be attacked physically.

Most of the time, negative energy does not come from people but sometimes people can send this energy towards you and you have to have a psychic to intervene on your behalf.

Healing at Home

There are different healings that you can do at home and most of the time people have some of the things right in their home.

Salt Bath

Salt water is used for spiritual healing and can help to take away negative energies from your body.  When you have an illness that you cannot explain or strong emotions of hate, this cleansing can help you to heal.

  • Get a large bucket of water and a cup of salt.
  • Fill the bucket with water and put your feet inside of it.
  • Let the salt dissolve.
  • Close your eyes and see the negative energy leaving.
  • Stay in the water for at least 10 minutes.
  • Open your eyes and dry your feet.
  • Throw away the water.

Do this at least once a week to get rid of negative energy and to cleanse yourself.

Psychic Healing

A psychic can help you to cleanse your energies if you need them to.  They can perform different rituals with you and on you so that they can clear your energy field.

When you do a reading, ask your psychic to do a cleansing of your energy with you and the cleansing can help to clear up your mind and emotions.

Zodiac Compatibility

Zodiac Compatibility

Zodiac CompatibilityIf you have ever been crazy in love, you obviously have chemistry.  Having infatuation is fun but it usually goes away.  Lasting love happens when you and your partner understand each other, and they are inspired by each other’s strength’s and failures.  When you find someone that works well with you, you will make each other shine.

You will be comfortable with each other and you will love their small quirks and the weird things they do.  Having a partner that makes you happy means it is written in the stars.  According to astrology, this is true.

There are many different ways that astrologers calculate the compatibility between people.  They will look at midpoints, progressions and will find the best matches for people.  This can be time consuming and can be hard but based on the sun sign, it can work.

The sun sign is figure out by when you were born, and it is what your personality is.  The techniques that are used are based on elements and you always match better with fire, earth, water or air signs.  You can also consider a sign that is opposite of each other and these couples are sometimes strange.  These pairs can make good teams, but the stars can also help you not to end up in a bad relationship.

People that don’t work together can have insecure relationships that are toxic.  There is no way that you can really pick one trick to know if your signs match, but you can use the signs to help you make decisions before you go out on a date.

Love is scary but powerful and it can be used with the stars to help you find the right partner.  This partner can bring you love, trust and happiness.

Aries

The Aries is the first sign in the zodiac and is known to have a lot of energy and to be impulsive.  The Aries wants to be the best and will be like a warrior.  When they have a bad day, they will have a bad temper and will be hard to deal with.

Leo and Sagittarius do not mind dealing with the Aries because they have determination and are enthusiastic and this can help grow passions and bring about creative energy.

Cancer and Capricorns will have a hard time being around Aries because of their energy and Aries will be bored of these signs.  If an Aries is coupled with a crab or a goat, they will learn to slow down and appreciate a different side of life.

Taurus

Tauruses are an earth sign that is practical and romantic.  They love life and see the finer things of life such as good smells and small things.  They love sweets and they work well with Virgo and Capricorn because they help to admire life and the luxuries that life gives.

The opposite of a Taurus is a Scorpio and they would be a weird match because they are both inverted, and they would learn big lessons if they got together.

The Taurus is represented by a bull because they are stubborn, and they will lock horns with other signs like Leo and Aquarians.  None of the signs like to give in so this can always be a wrestling match.

Gemini

Dating a Gemini can be a great experience, and this is because they always want to be talking and communicating and having adventures.  These signs love nature and have a desire to wander.  They are fun and loving.

Gemini’s have energy but they are sensitive and when they are with a Pisces or a Virgo, they will have even more compassion and will meet their partner’s needs.

Cancer

Cancer Is a sign by the moon and is a water sign.  It is a sensitive creator and has a hard time with trust and being vulnerable.  Other water signs like the Pisces and Scorpio will make a good partner with the Cancer because they have strong psychic abilities and can communicate without talking.

They are a less emotional sign, but they work hard and appreciate other people’s sensitivity.  Cancers do not like confrontation, and they want to go away when things get hard.  Aries and Libra do not like Cancer’s passive aggressiveness and if they match with each other it will be a hard relationship.  Cancers need to be able to solve conflict if they date a Libra or an Aries.

Leo

Leos never forget that they are in charge and they are strong.  They are passionate and creative.  Leo is ruled by the sun and shines bright.  Leos like signs that are like minded and their opposite is the Aquarius.  When an Aquarius and Leo get together, they have a good check and balance.

Leo’s hate to admit that they are proud and egotistical.  The Scorpio and Taurus find the Leo to be offensive and stubborn and they feel their motives are self-centered.

Virgo

Virgo is an earth sign and is very smart.  They are ruled by the planet Mercury and are always getting information and being logical.  Virgos like to make lists and are stable and they enjoy the Taurus and Capricorn.

Virgo is analytical and powerful, and they love to be helpful and practice.  They sometimes work well with a Pisces that is a healer of emotions.

A Virgo wants to be perfect and they should not date a Gemini or a Sagittarius because of their neurotic ways.

Libra

Libras are part of the zodiac that mean charming and are an air sign.  They love artwork and wine and they love shopping and getting nice things.  Gemini and Aquarius love the Libra and they love their culture and refined taste.  They are a good match.

Libras like to be in pairs and so they make a good partner for an Aries.  They are good at balancing because Libras are worried about their social class and can come across as cold.  When matched with a Cancer or Capricorn, they have to show they are dedicated to them.

Scorpio

The Scorpio is one of the strongest signs in the zodiac.  They are a water sign and they use intuition to make sure they have goals and dedication.  Scorpios are great lovers and are very intense.  Pisces and Cancer love the energy of the Scorpio because they are so smart and have magnetic energy.

Scorpio’s love having sex and are satisfied by the Taurus which is their opposite sign.  When paired with a Taurus, the Scorpio can have amazing sex.

Scorpio’s move in the dark and can be manipulative and sneaky.  Leo’s and Aquarians cannot get along with them because they are invasive, and they cannot hide their motives.

Sagittarius

Sagittarius is an archer and loves adventure.  They are a fire sign and tend to be smart and funny.  They have a like mind with Aries and Leo and they work well together.  They are passionate and love to be with a fun partner.  The Gemini is an opposite sign but can make a good match because they love to live their life to the fullest.

Sagittarius always chases its arrows and can be fickle and not know what they want.  If they hook up with Virgo or Pisces, this will allow them to be treated like a partner.  They would need to apologize when feelings are hurt, even if it wasn’t their fault.

Capricorn

Capricorn’s work hard and want security.  They want to create a life for themselves and they want to be with the Taurus and Virgo.  They are determined to be stable and they have a similar personality as the Capricorn and the Taurus.

The Capricorn might like having an opposite sign like Cancer because they both have the same views and sometimes want to be secluded.

Capricorn’s can make the Aries and Libra frustrated because of their personality and their nature.  When they date, they have to remember that they are lovers and not their co-workers.

Aquarius

Aquarians are humanitarians and they are motivated by working to make the world a better place.  They work best with air signs such as Gemini and Libra.  They appreciate each other’s energy.  They are lighthearted and make a great duo.

Leo and Aquarius can make a surprising couple because they have strong personalities.  Aquarian believes that things should be right and believe in morals.  They are put off by Taurus and Scorpio because they are more tolerant and have different views of the world.

Pisces

The Pisces have a sweet personality and they are a water sign and use a lot of nonverbal cues.  They like Cancer’s and Scorpios because they are like minded and are equal in their emotions.

Pisces can work well with a Virgo, who is the opposite sign because they can work with their kindness and the support they give.

Pisces can get hurt easily and don’t work well with the Gemini and Sagittarius.  They can be frustrated with them easily and can get their feelings hurt and want to swim away.  Pisces needs to remember not to take things personally if they get with a Gemini or Sagittarius.

Controlling Your Psychic Gift

Controlling Your Psychic Gift

Controlling Your Psychic GiftWhen you have psychic abilities, you will see that they will manifest in you.  The rules for connecting with these abilities is to connect with the energy and then use them and practice them.  Control your abilities and follow the right path.

If you connect with your energy on a psychic level, then you can feel pain others feel and you can see objects that others can’t see.  Sometimes, you will connect with energies and see into the future and sometimes you will use the energy to make music.  The energy can be in the spirit and can help you to make the right decisions.  The list of what your abilities can do is endless, and you just need to learn to channel the energy.

Without learning to control your abilities, you will have a hard time developing them.  If can be scary or dangerous to not understand your gifts and can leave you upset and feeling disappointed.

Spiritual Team

Everyone has a spiritual team and it makes the journey different than everyone else’s.  This is where you can understand your mission and you can have your spirit guide to help you and defend you from negative energy.

Your spirit guide is just for you and you can find the path that is right for you and understand the good of your gift.  Not all psychics can engage with their guides and if you can, you should do so.

If you want your spirit guide to be with you, find a place that is quiet and call them to you and talk to them.  Speak to them with a song and create a video for them.  Ask for assistance and thank them for coming to you.

You might feel your spirit team’s presence and you will need to move more into the process.  Trust the spirit guide and communicate with them.

Incorporate your spirit guides into following you in all of your life by inviting them and ask them to help you make good decisions.  You have to engage with them so that you can build a better relationship.

Mind

Calm your mind and use the energy to start learning and figuring out your gifts.  You have to love your spirit guide and communicate with them and not be distracted by thoughts or things going on around you.  Pay attention to your energy.

Calm your mind and connect with your spirit team so they can warn you of things that you don’t want to go wrong and you can clear your mind.  Breath deeply and make sure your mind is clear and you are able to hear what the guides say to you.

At first, you might not understand their messages but as you continue working on it, you will see that you can understand what they are talking about and giving to you.  Sometimes, you have to practice this by trial and error and see if you are hearing what you should be hearing.

Soon, this will come more naturally, and you will be able to connect with them faster.

Environment

Anytime you go into a new room or new people come into your space, close your eyes and connect with your environment.  You need to train your brain and your mind to understand the different energies and not to run from them.

If you have someone that is always having a bad day, and if they have a bad attitude, you have to understand what is going on with them.  Also, if someone in your life always has a good day, understand what they are going through so that you can understand their compassion and gentleness.

Find the energies in the atmosphere and figure out how the energies reveal themselves to you.  Let them into your space and let the meaning follow.

You will receive messages from your spirit guides, and you will have a calm mind.  There might be some energy that seems strange, but this is all part of learning.  Watch for signs and pay attention.

The spirit guides will come and will help to influence your life and will notice things that are important to you.  Look at advertising and billboards and see if you see things that get you excited that your spirit guides are telling you.  You can even ask where you left something important to you.

Vibrations

All energies have vibrations and they are like waves of light.  When air expands, it can be energy that is part of the environment.  Waves of heat energy from a thunderstorm are similar to what you might feel inside of you when you are talking to your spirit guides.

Psychics can tune into this energy and will have vibrations that will tell you about what you are feeling.  When you want to connect with another spirit, you will need to have higher vibrations so that you can reach their vibrational energy.

There are ways to raise your vibrations and you can do this by drinking water and by eating healthy foods.  You can meditate and increase your vibrations and your energy and listen to music that is good.  If you are happy and thankful, you can increase your vibrations and you can improve your behaviors and that will also increase your vibrations.

Conclusion

One of the best ways to increase your skills is to exercise and realize how your skills increase and what they show you.

People that play music will know when something is flat or sharp and when you practice your gifts, you will be able to tell when your energies are right and when you are hearing from your spirit guides.

Find pictures of people and try to get information from their picture that you haven’t read about.  Ask your spirit guide to show you things about them.  Then, look them up and see if you are right.

Try to find ingredients and put them in your hand and see if you can taste them before you put them in your mouth.  Recall what they taste like and see if you can make a yummy mixture out of them.

Close your eyes and put your hand over your phone and see if you can figure out what your phone is saying and who will call.  Test yourself and don’t give up.

No goal is too hard to reach when you practice, and you follow these exercises.  See if you can increase your energies and bring about positive energies in your life.

Getting a Psychic After a Breakup

Getting a Psychic After a Breakup

Getting a Psychic After a BreakupWhen you break up with someone, you need to get a psychic because it can be a very hard thing for you to go through.  There will be questions that are left unanswered and so seeing a love psychic can help you to see how the person really was and to be able to move on from the relationship with as little pain as possible.  There are different ways to approach things and a psychic can help.

Tarot Card

Tarot card readings can be used and they can be specific cards that cover a certain thing and can be more generalized for what you are going through.  You can learn more about these and see that getting over a breakup might take a four-card spread with two cards representing the people and two cards representing the relationship.  It can help to understand why people act a certain way.

Another way is using a three-card spread as these can help to show you parts of the relationship that you don’t know about.  Choose tarot readings if you want to find a specific issue that caused things to not work out that you didn’t know or understand.

Astrology

Astrology can help to analyze your relationship.  You can do a chart for both of you that can help to show what influenced you and what played a role in your life.  You can see if there were energies that were conflicted or where the tension came from.  The relationship can sometimes be repaired once the tension is gone.

This type of reading can give you some great answers and compare your relationship sensibly.  Choose an astrology to do a birth chart for each of you as long as both parties are there.

Psychic Reading

Some of the best ways to understand what went wrong is a psychic reading.  These can tune into your energies and read what is going on in your life and in your partners life.  Seeing a psychic can be good or bad depending on what you are trying to do.

If a person is closed off to a reading, it will cause things to not be good for you and it will not help if they don’t have an open mind and heart.  This can cause the information to be misunderstood.  If you aren’t using a spiritual medium, a psychic will only be able to read you if you are the only one there.  This can help you figure out your personal issues if that is what the problem was.

You have to go into a reading with an open mind so that they can uncover your real issues.

Palm Reading

Palm reading can determine what potential you have and can give you insight.  They can help you to understand issues in your relationship because they determine if the person is at a good place in their life.  This can also help you to know if they are not and how long it will take them to get there.

A palm reading is personal and will not take into account the palm of your partner unless he or she is there.

When choosing a palm reading, make sure that you understand it is personal and that you will figure out what has gotten in your way in your own life.

Conclusion

When you experience a breakup, there are ways you can get information that can help you.  A psychic reader, tarot cards, astrologists and more can help you to get past your sadness and move on.

It can more importantly, help you to understand yourself and to improve your spiritual self which can help you not only move on but in all aspects of your life.

A breakup can be hard and painful and it is important that you take time to learn from it.

Types of Spirits that Loved Ones May Become

Types of Spirits that Loved Ones May Become

Types of Spirits that Loved Ones May BecomeExistence continues in a cyclical manner from birth to life and transitioning into a realm known as death. This final transition into the unseen is unsettling for most, but no one will be able to avoid it. If you visit a psychic to contact a loved one who has passed on you may be wondering what they will be like or what form is being taken.

There are four main types of spirits that deceased loved ones take on:

  • Newly Transitioned
  • Aware Ones
  • Angelics
  • Returning Ones

Newly Transitioned

Those who are newly transitioned often stay close to a specific location or person. Animals often sense these types of spiritual beings. The spirits state of awareness can change how they connect to others.

Aware Ones

These are spirits who are aware they have transitioned and can present with a guide. These are the easiest to connect with, though if they are with a guide, the guide should be spoken to first.

Angelics

Angelics are confident and often accomplished. Due to power, they can intercede in earthly affairs. They also hold the ability to prevent tragedy in many cases.

Returning Ones

Returning ones are the spirits ready to reincarnate. They pose a challenge to connection because of this. When a spirit cannot be contacted, remember death is not permanent, just different. The bond we hold with the departed will not end so we never truly have to say goodbye.

Surrendering to the Universe’s Divine Timing

Surrendering to the Universe’s Divine Timing

Surrendering to the Universe’s Divine TimingDivine timing is the belief that you are just where you should be, and everything in your life happens at just the right time, as the Universe manifests your goals. Simply put, this means that people can’t control time, and we can’t force things to happen when we want them to. This may seem harsh, so it’s very important to understand that the Universe wants nothing but good things for us. We must simply trust and believe that everything happens and falls into place when the Universe deems that the time is right.

Relationships and Divine Timing

One of the most common questions people ask a psychic is, “When?” This is especially true when the topic at hand involves reuniting people, developing relationships, or waiting for your true love to come into your life. It’s always thrilling and exciting, but it sometimes may feel as though it won’t ever happen. It will—all you need to do is keep your faith and have confidence!

The Universe desires nothing but good things for us and wants us to be happy. If an obstacle is keeping you apart from your true love, then it’s simply the wrong time. Coming together if it’s not the right time will not end well. If your true love must learn a lesson in life before connecting with you but they’re kept from learning that lesson, the result will be heartache and other major problems.

Free Will vs. Fate

Free will and fate go hand-in-hand. Historical events have occurred exactly how and when the Universe’s divine timing determined that they must. But within that framework of fated events, people have free will to make choices and decisions. As we exercise our free will, we must understand that we only have control over how we act and react. We must accept the fact that we have no control over how other people act and react.

Divine timing is complex. It can involve feelings of a lack of control over your life. Here are four tips to help you learn to surrender to the wisdom of the Universe’s divine timing. This will help you live for the here and now, and feel excited about things to come.

  1. Be patient.

Patience is important, but it can be difficult to learn. It doesn’t come easily to most people. So, examine your attitude toward patience. Do you lack patience because you fear releasing your control? To let go of the need to control, you must be patient. It takes time to develop trust and faith that the Universe supplies everything you need when you need it. Reflecting on your feelings and your drive to quickly meet your needs can increase your level of patience. This will let you release your need to control, build your trust and faith, and surrender to the wisdom of the Universe’s divine timing.

  1. Release the past.

Let go of your past, so you can enthusiastically embrace your future. Divine timing operates in the realm of possibilities. You can exist there, too, when you learn to accept that things always change. Don’t cling to the way things were. Open up your heart to the possibilities of the way things could be!

  1. Embrace the uncertainties.

While learning to accept the goodness of divine timing, you need to pay close attention to areas of uncertainty in your life that are causing you to experience intense negative emotions or feelings. This process requires profound levels of self-examination, so the Universe may be helping you by pointing these things out to you. Don’t run away from or dismiss these feelings. This is the perfect time to face them.

  1. Be kind to yourself.

Tread gently and carefully through these intense emotions. If they’re so uncomfortable that you feel you can’t deal with them by yourself, seek help. Consciously choosing to ignore these emotions will only serve to delay your ability to accept the Universe’s process of divine timing.

While walking on your life’s path, be prepared to accept new ideas and directions ordained by divine timing. The Universe has plans of its own, so even the best things in life may arrive unexpectedly.

Developing Your Psychic Abilities

Developing Your Psychic Abilities

Developing Your Psychic AbilitiesSometimes, you will meet people that have strong psychic abilities, but some people agree that having psychic abilities are inborn.  Some feel that psychic abilities are hidden, and they just need to come to the surface.

Types of Abilities

There are many abilities of being a psychic, some include being able to see into the future while others are able to talk to the spirit world.  Some psychics might even be able to see in the thoughts of other people or to see the auras of others as they walk around.

Precognition is when people are able to know what the future holds.  Sometimes, this is definite and they will be able to give detailed messages to people such as, “You will get on the cab and will see a dark-haired man walk by you,” for others, the messages are not as detailed such as, “something great will happen in your future.”

Intuition is when you are able to know things without someone telling you.  People that have this gift are great at reading Tarot cards and this is because they have skills to know what the cards stand for.  Sometimes, these people are also called clairsentience.

Clairvoyance is when you can see things that are not seen to the naked eye.  This is a skill used in remote viewing.  Clairvoyance people are sometimes credited with helping to find people that are lost or missing.

Empathy is when you can sense other people’s feelings and emotions before talking to them.  When someone has the gift of empathy, sometimes, they shield themselves, so they do not pick up negative energies.

A medium is a person that can speak to someone in the spirit world.  This gift can allow them to see or talk to others and get messages in the form of visions or dreams.  Sometimes, they can call on the spirit or channel it and the spirit will speak or write through the medium.

Ways to Develop Abilities

If everyone has the abilities to be a psychic, then you can exercise ways to increase these gifts and to understand self-awareness.  One of the best ways to do this is through meditation because it helps us to get into our subconscious self and everything that is there.

Clarity

Even though getting clarity can be hard, it isn’t.  You can train yourself to notice everything that is going on around you.  Senses can change depending on the weather, shadows, the wind or someone that has come into the room.  Make sure to take notes of what you feel, and this can help you later when you want to figure out what a message means.

Listening

Try to listen to what people say and ask yourself what they really mean.  Pay attention to things that are said and not said.

Meditate

A great way to build your skills is to meditate.  Allow your mind to go into your subconscious being and be open to messages coming in.

Trust

Make sure that you learn to trust what you are feeling.  If you have a gut feeling, trust it.  Pay attention to things that give you intuitive messages.

Write it Down

If you had a dream about someone or had a feeling about something, write it down.  Go back and read what you have written.  Sometimes we get messages and don’t realize it until we read it later.

Test It

If you have a feeling about something, confirm it and try to figure out if you are listening.  If you have a feeling a certain person is calling, answer it and see if you are right.  Doing this will help increase you innate abilities.

Practice

Practice your skills and try different methods of divination.  Find the one that you are best at and continue to practice that one.  All these things can help you be the best you can be.

Do psychics have the ability to harm?

Do psychics have the ability to harm?

Do psychics have the ability to harm?Importance of empowerment

Are you well conversant with the stereotype of the swindling sidewalk psychic? Those who inform you that you are cursed and request a large amount of money to remove the curse? Well, even though several psychics are not manipulative, we can’t brush off the fact that not all psychics honor the interests of their clients.

Therefore, how do you know a psychic is working towards what you want? This may look normal but any psychic who tries to instill fear in you is not trying to empower you and you should avoid them at all costs. A person who keeps provoking fear into you so that you keep going back for more doesn’t have the best interests at heart. These kinds of tactics take advantage of people’s vulnerabilities, disempowering an individual making them dependent on others.

Reputable psychics will do the following:

  • Schedule all readings at once
  • Request only the amount you agreed on
  • Gives you accurate information without provoking fear in you
  • Never convince you to get a reading by giving you a free test reading
  • Have honest reviews on their websites
  • Be strict on the number of visits an individual should have in a year to prevent dependency.

Importance of empowerment

I usually ensure my clients get out of their readings ready to undertake life challenges that lie ahead of them. It’s normal for me to convey hard to hear information, however, all that matters are how I address the issue and what I decide to do with the information.

Before becoming a psychic medium, I spent over a decade in social work where I used to learn how I can communicate difficult issues with clients. Therefore, nowadays I use these skills to passionately convey the hard problems. I inform them everything about what they are going through and recommends what they need to do to overcome life’s challenges.

Shift your vitality, transform your future

I’m not that kind of psychic who’ll easily tell your future. Honestly, just being informed about your future isn’t all that important. Your future is based on what you are going through at the moment what I do is study your current life and tell you what the future holds for you.

Most of the clients’ current journey does not relate to their true desires and goals. They have a picture of where they want to be but do not know how to get there. This where my idea comes in and I help them realize those dreams.

Learn to do it yourself

I aim to teach my clients how to do what I do for themselves. You can do it yourself. We all can be intuitive. We just need to step up and study how to identify the messages that are always coming from our intuition.

Progressive support

I only give a maximum of two readings per year, I can’t go past that since co-dependence can grow. However, I do help when clients are inwardly looking to do the work. I won’t do it for them but give them guidance on what they need to do.

Follow your instincts

If you are looking for a psychic, I suggest you be aware of what you want at the moment by tuning into your instincts. If you want a reading and you agree with my recommendations, be free to book a reading. If you are finding it hard tuning into your instincts, you can make use of the logs or websites first. But if you are ready for a reading, why not book an appointment.

Avoiding Energy Vampires

Everyone goes through formative years during which they realize a lot of different things about themselves…and the people around them. At some point during your late teenage years (give or take a few years or bad experiences) you end up realizing that not everyone is looking out for your best interests. There are actually those who only worry about themselves and wind up stealing your positive energy to use it for their own gain: the energy vampires.

All that an energy vampire will do is take from you. They can be people close to you, like your friends, coworkers, customers, family, or your neighbors. And they could also be strangers.

There are a number of different kinds of energy vampire you need to watch out for, from the blamer who only ever blames others for their transgressions, to the jealous types who are never actually happy for your successes.

There’s also the insecure vampires who knock you down in order to build themselves up, fun-suckers who seem to make everything less enjoyable, the bully, the guilt-tripper who never fails to remind you of that one time you messed up, and then there are the negative Nancy’s, Debbie Downers, and the complainers.

The list is sadly endless, and all energy vampires have one thing in common. They can’t create their own positive energy or keep it going. So they have to use yours. As their lifeless souls strain to be energized, they’ll find anything near them to latch onto.

Of course, there are plenty of people like this in your life, and it can be easy to try and just deal with it. Many of these people don’t have bad intentions, they just suck the life out of you, even if you care about them. It can be very difficult to leave one of these relationships.

And you never want to push anyone away because you’re a good person. But if you have your best interests in mind, you’ll come to realize that relationships either energize you or steal your energy.

So are your relationships with these energy vampires uplifting you…or are they not?

Remember: the only person in charge of protecting your energy space is YOU. To live your healthiest and happiest life, it’s essential for you to keep people around who uplift you and give you the positive energy you need.

A Few Thoughts

  • When your relationships change…are they getting better or worse?
  • Do you believe with your whole heart that you can trust the person with your dreams, biggest fears, or sacred secrets?
  • Does the person make you feel valuable and stable? Are they supportive?
  • Describe the exchange of energy between you and the person. Which way does it flow?
  • Do they ever make you feel judged?
  • Decision time: Should you end this relationship?

Now, there are always relationships that you can’t get out of, like coworkers, bosses, or family members in certain cases.

Here’s 7 coping methods for dealing with the energy vampires that you can’t get away from.

  1. Let go of the negative energy they create. Exhale it and send it out with the trash.
  2. Let them know when they are draining your energy. Don’t be a pushover.
  3. Make light of the troubles and shift the subject instead of reacting on impulse to their urges and negative energies.
  4. Keep the purpose of your connection to them in mind above all else.
  5. Step back and try to get some perspective before reacting to their words or actions. Remember that their behavior is their own responsibility, not yours.
  6. Try to envision that there’s an energy shield around you. Like a ball of protective energy and light, you can block out all of the negative energy coming off of this vampire and keep them from getting any of yours.
  7. Remind yourself of your worth. You deserve to be surrounded by the best kinds of people that you can uplift and expect them to do the same for you.

Enjoy your life and avoid those vampires. Let’s have a positive, life-changing rest of 2019!

Tarot cards come alive in the streets of Haiti

Tarot cards come alive in the streets of Haiti

Tarot cards come alive in the streets of HaitiThe fateful visions of ‘Ghetto Tarot are created by Belgian photographer Alice Smeets together with artist group.

Everywhere in the streets of Haiti, fateful visions from traditional tarot cards come alive. these are the work of Alice Smeets who is a photographer. She teamed up with the Haitian artists to reinterpret the early 20th-century rider-waite tarot.

She scatters the artists’ work throughout the scenes as props and backgrounds to honor the diverse talents of her subjects. The photographer took this opportunity to progress with her photographic work in Haiti, where she was awarded by UNICEF to have had the best photo of the year as she continues pursuing her fascination with the spiritual world. She explains for a while she had wanted to interpret the tarot decks with her photos but taking ordinary photos of the scene seemed too simple. She wanted to maintain the different spirits of the cards and create a very personal deck at the same time.

The Atis Rezistans proved that they indeed collaborated with Alice when they offered her their art and homes as poignant symbols in the current world deck. Further, Smeets explains, the term “Ghetto” the artists “free themselves of its depreciating undertone and it turns into something beautiful.” She continues to say “this undertaking of the Haitians made me realize that it lies only within us to assign value or judgment towards a tangible or intangible thing, which creates a positive or negative emotion. If we realize that it’s a choice whether we look at destruction and see despair or regard it as the beginning of something new, we can change the meaning of every word, action, and sentiment”.

Could you be under psychic attack?

Could you be under psychic attack?

Could you be under psychic attack?You can’t sleep, even though you are exhausted. No matter what you do you just can’t relax. You go from one weary day to the next. You can’t seem to shake a cold or hay fever or allergies. You just can’t seem to get a head. You feel like there is something keeping you from both health and happiness.

You could be clinically depressed. That is a possibility and is not a one to be ignored. But it could also be that you are under psychic attack. It sounds crazy, but someone may have formed the intent to harm you. It may not be known to them at all.

It could be a relative with a grudge or someone who you inadvertently harmed years ago. You may have an ex flame who still bears you ill will. It could be someone who is simply jealous of you.

Everyone has some store of negative feelings within them. If they are not addressed as soon as possible, they can just fester and grow until they take over. This flood of negativity can spill over and create problems.   There have been reports of family members inadvertently attacking each other with negative energy.

A psychic attack does not cause a hail of toads or festering boils. It can simply rob someone of the joy they have in their day to day lives, due to the flood of negativity in the world.

An advisor or psychic can help you harness your own energy to break this link.  Remember this has to come from your own energy.  No magic spell or charm will work or should be advised.

Ways of spotting a fraud psychic

Ways of spotting a fraud psychic
  1. You need to make sure the psychic has a reputable background:

Ways of spotting a fraud psychicMake sure you know well the psychic you are going to see. Do your research or let them be recommended to you by people who have good feedbacks about them.

Be very cautious of somebody who is out there and you’ve never heard about them but claim to be a psychic. All those who have good reviews are not necessarily real psychics.

  1. In any case, they inform you that you are cursed or that you have a spell on you do not pay attention to it:

Do not fool that you have a spell or that you are cursed. All of us have bad lucks which needs work for us to get good luck. Be positive about what you are going through and know that all need work for it to transform.

  1. When you are feeling week, refrain from psychics:

When you are in pain and grief, refrain from seeing psychics because they are likely to take advantage of you.

Fake psychics will take advantage of those who are going through pain since they consider them to be more vulnerable.  A good clairvoyant will send you to a counselor.

If you visit a psychic and feel better, that’s really cool but if they keep contacting you and just want to take your money then that’s not a good sign.

  1. Do not trust anything you are told:

There are things people shouldn’t say when they are not sure. Like there is a lady who was told when she was 14 that she is unable to bear children. When I did a reading to her I told her that she will have two children. Months later she was pregnant. I was very happy, although I’m not sure if she ended up having two.

BAD PSYCHIC

BAD PSYCHIC

I am disappointed.

BAD PSYCHICI am disappointed with these fake mediums that give wrong or misleading readings. Below I have provided some insights on how to identify these fake psychics and a poor reading as well.

Most people rely on us real psychics and turn to us when in need. It’s our role to let the divine spirit provide them with guidance and remind them that their life is in their hands. Anyone not adhering to this should be part of this profession.

Not being able to channel properly can lead to bad readings as well. They are probably on the wrong frequencies, and mostly they don’t even notice they are doing it wrong. It comes about due to a psychic’s lack of enough practice and their ego too. Whether a psychic is providing a good or bad reading, customers should be able to spot a bad or a good reading.

Identifying bad psychic

Below questions can help you identify a fake psychic.

What was the effect of the reading on you?

Did is provide inspiration? Clarity or it just made your situation worse? Did you shed tears because you felt empowerment or fear? Did you’re your energy level rise or fall?

A bad reading will take away your energy. Customers won’t always receive what makes them happy. Psychics don’t need to be biased either. The delivery of the information is what really matters and psychics should do their best to deliver messages with lots of love and consideration.

Traits of a bad psychic

  • Black readings- when a psychic informs you that a close relative is going to die or face tragedy, this is referred to as a black reading. First, the spirits don’t reveal to us the exact time and date or method of death, so this is not accurate. Secondly, fate is not fixed and the daily choices we make can change the path of our fate.
  • You have a curse on you-this is mainly used by cons in the industry. The statement is always followed by “ I can remove the curse for this amount”. First, curses only affect you if you believe in them. And if anybody is sending curses your way, there are many ways to guard yourself.
  • Come back for more sessions- you don’t need to. A true psychic will ensure that you are less dependent on him/her. A reader trying to set up more sessions is just sales oriented and not a healer. Good psychics will actually try to limit the number of times you see them, to prevent addiction.
  • Unrelated information- a reader snooping into one’s personal life without them agreeing, is just nosey, and a clear indication of a con artist. One’s privacy and consent must be treated with utmost respect.
  • Spreading bad news on other psychics- please run away. This is a sign of ego taking charge and not the spirits. Psychics aren’t supposed to judge each other since we are all different and have our own ways of channeling. You cannot decide that the way one reads their cards is wrong therefore when they start claiming to be the best among others in the game, just run away.
  • Titles obsession- having a doctorate doesn’t make you better than others. Good medium concentrates on how they can be of help to the customer, and not what titles they have and use to brag of how much they can achieve.
  • Always seeking validation- if you come across such a reader, consider it as a red flag. Its strait with beginners, not pros. Look out for generalities and repetition.

The Ego Monster

I actually borrowed this from John Edwards’s book “Infinite quest”. You should find time and read it. Ego is a real monster capable of hijacking us. It’s an inner feeling that makes you want to feel important. It takes away our humbleness.

It’s bad for both reader and customer and it hinders the reader from their own spiritual development. They block themselves from the messages they should receive for them to grow spiritually.

We are psychics so we can help others. We don’t have to feel special and it definitely shouldn’t be about the money.

Psychics are not special people

I always reiterate this to my clients. Anyone is able to harness this thing and be one. For me, it’s very fulfilling to assist people. It makes me happy. It’s my only reason

You might think I’m crazy, but it’s my objective. I try to show my clients that they don’t need me, and provide them with tools they require to grow their spiritual gift.

Our efforts to empower our customers spread spirituality and the more we do so the more the society keeps in touch with God and the spirits, and this surely makes this world a better place.

Finding the truth in micro expressions

Finding the truth in micro expressions

You may have heard that one’s face is also one’s fortune. It has also been said that a simple look can speak volumes. In light of these adages, it is no surprise that one can read the truth on another’s face. These expressions either macro or micro can communicate the true message that is intended.

Macro expressions last from 1/2 of a second to four seconds. These expressions are usually aligned with what the person is actually saying.  A micro expression is a very quick, between 1/15-1/35 of a second. The micro expression generally has a concealed emotion and can be what the speaker truly intends.

Finding the truth in micro expressions

When we communicate with others, gather as much information as possible. This information is verbal and non verbal.  A good way to develop better communication skills is to understand how to read the speaker’s face.

Micro Expressions

Everyone has micro expressions that are indicative of what they are feeling.

  • Surprise. The raising of the upper eyelids depicts surprise. The jaw is open and lips and mouth are relaxed.
  • Fear.  When the upper eyelids are raised high and brows drawn together, that indicates fear.
  • Disgust. This micro expression is easy to read because it can be seen by wrinkles around the nose. The eyes can be cast down and narrowed, the teeth may also be visible.
  • Anger is seen through tight lower and upper eyelids with lowered brows. Lines will appear between the brows. The jaw may also move forward.
    • Both sides of the lips will go up, symmetrically. The side eye muscles will be engaged.
    • The inner corner of the eyebrows are raised. Both corners of the lips will be turned down. The jaw will come up.
    • One side of the mouth will rise as if in a sneer.

Micro expressions cannot be faked. This is because they are the true emotions that leak out in just a fraction of a second. This is why they are often missed. These expressions reveal what person truly means when they speak. Knowing what they mean will help you understand the true meaning when we are connecting with others.

Psychic Medium Char Margolis’s Injunctions of the Ouija Board

Ouija boardI have been having a conversation with the dead for over 4 decades, therefore, I know very well the many varieties “neighborhoods” in the world of spirits.  Has Ouija board sent you a message before? Have you met a ghost before?  There are also virtuous and awful spirits on the other side just like there are virtuous and awful individuals on earth. There is a new interest brought by the movie Ouija to the Ouija board. This is the most preferred manner to entice youngsters.  It looks like it cannot harm but it’s not. You can have a one on one with the soul on the board. Just like tarot cards or reading, it can be used as a medium. This can make you look stupid. it isn’t something that is played with. Satan was once an angel who knew virtuous things and used them to have control over the pure.

Below are five injunctions not to forget in regards to Ouija board.

  1. The Ouija board is true!
  2. It acknowledges the devilish souls.
  3. It is able to spell out your secrets as well as true statements to entice you.
  4. It is able to make you believe that your dead loved one is trying to communicate with you by spelling out their names. But this is just a way of taking control of you.
  5. It will inform you of fantastic things in relation to you or a loved one or the dead.

If you own an Ouija board put it outside, that’s what I advise. The movie title is perfect.  There are both virtuous and awful souls in the world. Just pray and envision yourself in the white light if you want to stay protected. Refrain from being around negative vitalities. You shouldn’t believe anyone just because they can inform you of something you didn’t know about yourself.  My work is to heal and teach individuals how to develop their own instincts.

Everybody possesses the sixth sense which helps in problem prevention and achievement of goals. Be certain that you are connected with the healing guides and angels who can guide you if you are studying this work. 

How to tell if a psychic is real or a con artist?

psychic is real or a con artist

psychic is real or a con artistThere are tons of Psychic Reading websites these days, all of them are offering the same services for the same fee, $1 per 1 minute reading.  But, how to tell if a Clairvoyant, a Medium or a Psychic is genuine or is in fact a con artist?

Psychic readers almost look the same. Most of them look like your grandmother and most of them really believe in their gifts.  I doubt that any psychic reader may take that profession without having some sort of psychic experience. But, which one to pick? That’s the question that should be asked.

I believe that most of psychics are nothing more able to see what the person like, read the way they react, and moreover, psychic reader makes you hear what you want to hear about yourself. A psychic know that you are here for excitement, so they tell something interesting about yourself.

How to address the fraud   

Fraudsters will try to get as much money out of you as possible. All they want to do is to convince you that they are telling you the truth. They will be fishing for information. So, they will ask you for some information, and then through it back later in the conversation. They will look uncomfortable, they will give you sidelong glances for example.

The real genuine psychic

psychic is real or a con artistReal psychic will not ask you so many questions. They will have a smile of confidence on their faces and this smile is not hard to see.

They will only concentrate on reading the Tarot cards or the palm of your hand. They won’t concentrate on you or your face. They will tell you true things happened in the past such as illness, divorce, death, or even court cases. However, whenever they make a mistake they will admit it and apologize.

If the psychic is doing a future reading, they will tell you what they see and if you totally disagree, they will simply respond with a simple response like (well, that’s all I can see). I t may seem weird to you, but a real psychic will not be afraid of your reaction because they tell you what they see. Once you have got over the initial suspension, you will see that everything you have been told it true or near to the truth.

How to act for a reading

Don’t give the psychic any information about your past, your address, or your age. Just stay blank and don’t do anything, don’t move, don’t smile, or even scratch your nose. The con artists are clever, they can read your body language and they can read you. And, when the psychic says anything right about you just nod your head and say yes.

This way, you will be able to know the genuine from the fraud. And remember that the most important thing when you sit for a psychic reading is to stay blank without any expressions or body languages.

And the most importantly, never take it seriously. No one can read the future, we just do our best to let you see your choices to pick your right path. Happy reading and good luck!

You Shouldn’t Ask Your Tarot Reader the Following 10 Things

Are you aware of the questions that you shouldn’t ask your Tarot reader?

Helping people and guiding them to make it in life makes me feel like my existence has a purpose. Therefore am always curious to hear what my clients have to say. I am eager to get started since we are both going to learn a lot. Then they ask something that makes me cringe.

Do not ask your psychic reader the following questions save yourselves from pressure and avoid them:

  1. Will I win the lottery?

Winning a lottery depends on a lot of things. I can guide you on when to try but I cannot give you the exact values.  If I were able to pick winning numbers then I myself would be a millionaire having a good time on the beach after retiring.

  1. When will I get married?

This might look like an innocent question. But it assumes that you’re going to get married later in life but in any case, you don’t you might put the blame on me which is not healthy.

Secondly, if I tell you the day you’ll get married you’re more likely to pay attention to it and forget other things that you need to do. You should, therefore, pay attention to the state of your current relationship and the stumbling blocks that may come its way.  Marriage is not an accomplishment of all circumstances but even relationships that have no pressure and obstacles are the best.

  1. I’ll accept whatever the cards will say. I don’t have any question

Saying that you don’t have any question to me means that you’re just taking me for a ride and won’t believe anything I say. This is the worst question ever. It might be maybe you don’t know what to ask but the more you generalize those questions the more I’ll be able to give a general answer. If you have any question, it’s better to ask for you to understand. It will be a win-win situation.

  1. Will my mother/brother/ aunt get healed from cancer?

Do not ask questions about any illness in particular. Am not a medical specialist and I did not take any course in medicine. I do want to assume am a goddess so I don’t want to act like I am. Engaging a specialist is essential. Nevertheless, I can only guide on how you can lend a helping hand to that person to quicken their recovery.

  1. When will I die?

This is one of the questions I usually don’t answer at all. You should be positive about life and believe that you need to enjoy it and is not a race to the grave. I want to die knowing that I enjoyed life to the fullest and not that somebody prophesized about it.

  1. Am I Expectant?

Go back to question 4 for this type of question. I am not a medical specialist, therefore, I cannot tell you anything about this. If you have a feeling you might be pregnant you can buy a test kit or visit a doctor.

  1. Should I accept a job offer?

It’s you to make a choice whether you want a particular job or not, therefore, I can’t tell you what the best choice is for you but I can guide you through what you need to do to get that position. It’s you now to see if they fit in your way of life and ethics. You are free to do anything you want therefore controlling you will mean that have taken that free will from you.

  1. Will I win this court case?

Just like I am not a medical specialist I don’t also specialize on matters law. Therefore I am very certain that I am not the person to be advising you on legal matters. But what I can help you with is to know what to do to get out of the situation you are in.

  1. Does XYZ hate me?

Those who ask this question usually put blame on other people rather than dealing with the situation the way it is. Dealing with negative questions has a way of painting the reading with a bad picture. You can, however, ask yourselves questions such “what do I need to make my relationship better?”

  1. Will my lover leave his wife?

This is a very wrong question to ask. Coz first, this is like you’re asking me to invade a person’s privacy and have a reading for them without their consent and it’s also violating my working ethics.

Secondly, do you have to stay with someone who doesn’t value commitment and who does not know how to deal with matters in a very mature way?

“Once a cheater, always a cheater” my mother once told me. This statement is definitely true. If they can cheat on the person they are with at the moment what makes you think they won’t cheat on you? I, however, won’t judge you if you tell me you’re intimately involved with a married man/woman but will request you to contemplate about your personal values if you want to find a healthy relationship.

Tips on how to choose the right psychic medium

There are various websites offers hundreds of psychic names, some of them are very famous psychics. But, some people who are seeking a psychic advice can’t afford the cost of a famous psychic. Therefore, we give you some useful tips on how to choose the right psychic medium.

Let’s get started!

Trust other people experience

When you buy any product online, the first thing you do is to have a look at the reviews to take advantage of other people experiences. That’s what reviews have been made for.

And the more good the reviews are, the much better the psychic is. But, sometimes these reviews can’t be trusted, as probably they are fake reviews. In this case, the client (you) is not able to count a lot on reviews and need to count more on another trusted source!

Another option to consider is relying on a friend’s recommendation. Referrals have always been a good source, but before taking your friend’s opinion into account, you both need to have things in common, almost the same taste, thoughts, and points of views. Because you may trust your friend but not his or her opinions.

Listen to your feelings

Feelings have always been a very important factor. So, it’s very important to listen to your feelings, when it comes to choosing a psychic medium. Do you feel comfortable? It’s normal to feel a bit nervous before a psychic reading, but you should not feel negative or uncomfortable and if you do, my advice to you is to stay away.

Overspending doesn’t necessarily mean a higher quality

Psychic mediums’ prices vary for readings. Some psychics charge you $25 for a reading, others will charge you $400.

For some reason, it has always been believed that pricy services are necessarily better quality. I assure you that this is a completely wrong belief!

I know a lot of people who had great readings from very affordable psychic mediums who charged very small reading fees, so, you still have a good chance to find a good psychic, even if you can’t afford a high-priced reading with a well-known psychic medium. Besides, if you are too stressed about the high fee of your psychic, your stress will prevent you from enjoying the reading and could affect the results too.

Consider Spiritualist churches

Many Spiritualist churches offer a Mediums Day a few times a year where you can go and get free or very affordable readings from psychic mediums associated with the church, just Google “Spiritualist Church near me” to find one in your area.

Do not discount a phone reading

It has always been believed that in person psychics readings are much better than phone psychic readings. However many experts agree that psychic readings by phone are equally as good as in-person readings.

Plus, it is easier for the psychic to focus more on the phone because they are not distracted by the person in front of them. The less distractions there are the more focused the psychic is, and the better the reading will be.

Online research can be very helpful

I respect people who conduct a fast online research before making their final decision.  Internet is a grace when we know how to benefit from it. Imagine, how life was without internet? I believe that Internet is very strong resource to find information. So, before you make your decision about which psychic to choose, do a quick online research. Check the psychic’s website and make sure it looks like a professional website not a free website which looks unprofessional and fake.

Check if the website has a photo and contact details for the psychic to be able to connect to them directly. Their phone number, email, and office for in-person readings.

Also search for links to articles about psychic mediums which were written professionally. You can also, look for inks to their FaceBook page, Twitter or Instagram account to view the customers’ testimonials and comments on social media channels.

You also need to see if the psychic medium has any professional videos, or an interview with one of local TV channels.

The last thing you need to search for is what kind of service they provide, and what are their readings’ fees?

Google the psychic’s name along with the word psychic medium to see if is there any other websites or additional information about them.

A psychic medium and not only a psychic

Focus on finding a psychic medium not only a psychic. A mediumship is a spirit connection. A psychic medium will help you connect with your loved ones and will read their messages for you.

Psychics get information from energy surrounding your personal aura. Psychics are helpful with guidance around personal issues such as relationships, finances, career, physical or emotional issues, and they also offer predictions. Psychics also read Tarot cards, Chrystal ball, and I Ching.

Therefore, psychics tend to read messages from energy and the Universe, unlikepsychic mediums who tend to read messages coming from spirit.

How the Charlatans of New York City Are Ruining Psychic Readings for Everyone

Charlatans ruin everything for legitimate psychics.

In 2014, Celia Mitchell, 38, ran a storefront reading shop on Ninth Avenue in Hell’s Kitchen. After telling a customer he was cursed, she began to ask if he’d buy her things. Eventually, the customer reportedly gave her a cumulative total of almost $160,000—according to the criminal complaint he filed.

Under oath, she proclaimed—on behalf of psychics everywhere—that the ‘psychic business’ is a complete scam.

Mitchell was on trial for grand larceny, and she became one of many charlatans who confessed to their falseness before a parole board, meanwhile tarnishing the gift of psychic vision for everyone. Another psychic from Greenwich Village—Sylvia Mitchell, 41—has been sentenced for a 2013 grand larceny charge for up to 15 years.

Priscilla Kelly Delmaro, 26, was also arrested for convincing a man from Brooklyn to give her a grand total of over $713,000. This was, she said, to reunite the man with his ex-girlfriend, a ruse Delmaro kept up even after it transpired that the man’s ex-girlfriend was dead.

According to the transcripts obtained from the district attorney’s office, many such psychics whet their customer’s whistle on street corner by providing a free reading and then providing disturbing information; then, they ask for as much as $50 for a further reading.

Charlatan reader Sylvia S. Mitchell—no relation to the Sylvia Mitchell mentioned earlier—was convicted of the manslaughter of her 85-year old husband in 1993. On parole in 2006 (when she was 40), she claimed that her culture prohibited her from attending school and instead forced her to take up storefront fortunetelling.

Betty Vlado, 46, was also convicted of grand larceny. She proclaimed during a parole hearing that she concocted every single one of her psychic readings to take advantage of desperate individuals. This involved charging a woman over $14,000 for a rock she obtained from a ‘NASA-certified’ meteorite. She went to prison when she couldn’t repay the $55,000 she stole from victims.

Many of the commissioners who interview these charlatans on their parole hearings express clear glee at hearing that their psychic readings are lies. During her parole hearing, Ms. Vlado was repeatedly teased until she revealed that she would never conduct another reading if she was released.

Celia Mitchell, on her parole hearing, stated that she thinks psychics can never be genuine if they are taking money for their services. In fact, she wants to write a book about how supposed psychics—namely, Gypsies—are all charlatans with the sole aim of cheating people out of their money.

Beware Of Curses And Spells

     Have you heard a psychic saying “Someone has placed a curse on you! You are the victim of a malicious spell!” Does this sound familiar to you? It does to me and over the past six months I’ve had numerous callers contact me worried that they are under some sort of horrific curse or spell. And why do they think they’ve been cursed? A psychic told them! They may have thought they were talking to a legitimate psychic, but who they were really giving their money to was a person who took advantage of them during a vulnerable and very difficult time in their lives. These people aren’t legitimate psychics; they’re scam artists! Curses and spells are not part of a legitimate psychic reading!

Here are some of the warning signs that someone claiming to be a psychic is trying to scam you:

1. They lure you in with accurate information. The scam artist gains your trust by luring your in with detailed and accurate information. When they feel like they’ve convinced you of their abilities, they move on to discuss the curses and spells placed on you. These people often do have genuine psychic abilities, but they use their gifts to manipulate clients and take them to a dark place.

2. They avoid your big question. Whatever your big question is, don’t expect it to be answered. The scam artist will stop just short of answering it and instead, focus on the “dark energies,” curses and spells surrounding you.

3. They blame your unhappiness on “dark energy.” The “dark energy” is spells or curses someone placed on you. It’s keeping you from being happy, wealthy, getting your dream job, finding true love, losing weight, etc. Can the “dark energy” be removed? Of course it can, but for an additional fee! Rituals need to be performed and supplies need to be purchased for those rituals. They’ll ask you to place a deposit on the ritual, but since the spells and curses are very intense, they will need to do additional work that will, of course, cost your more money. Before you can say “abracadabra,” you are out a large sum of money!

Walk Away

The moment you’re told you or someone you love is cursed or under a spell, walk away. These criminals not only prey on those in need who are truly trying to seek spiritual guidance, they also give legitimate psychics a bad reputation! Sure, negative energy exists, and it has an impact on your life, but that’s because you have allowed it to linger through anger, fear and misery. With the help of a legitimate psychic, you can cleanse your energy by shifting it from negative to positive, living in the moment, letting go of the past and relinquishing fear.

Trust Your Instincts

The next time you choose a psychic advisor, consider my warning signs and trust your instincts. Is your psychic on the right path, or are they just using scare tactics like curses and spells to get more money out of you? You know the difference now.

Do Not Be A Victim Of Psychic Scam

      Psychics, mediums, fortune tellers and spell casters have been around for centuries. From the start, their field has been rife with fraud. There is little protection for victims, many of whom are too embarrassed to come forward or simply feel too threatened to tell. A quick Google search will show the hundreds of thousands of cases where victims have been scammed with scammers gaining millions of dollars through their scams.One of the biggest hurdles for the victim is other people’s own bias about the legitimacy of such practices so victims are too embarrassed to come forward. Like any kind of scam, the victim feels great shame that they fell for it but that shouldn’t let that stop them from seeking the help they need.

But the question comes up – are there real psychics and spell casters? It depends on an individual’s belief system. There are legitimate psychics and spell casters, who although may not be accurate or get the client the exact results they want, they at least provide a reading or do the work they were hired to do. But believing or not, it doesn’t matter what someone’s belief system is, no one has the right to scam anyone out of their money, valuables, and sometimes their identity.

How the scam works

Fraudulent spell casters and psychics will either set up physical shop or more likely develop an online presence. They sell their services usually via the web under terms like psychics, spells and spiritual services. Almost all stay within the law stating they must have ‘For entertainment purposes only’ on their websites and posted in their shops.

What they offer is as varied as the individuals offering the service. A person in a desperate situation will call and request a spell or spiritual cleanse, money is exchanged and often if it’s fraudulent the victim can never reach the person again. Or the spell caster comes back to the victim time after time requesting more funds, valuables to be sent or gift cards. If the victim does not comply they are threatened sometimes even with death threats.

A legitimate psychic will simply give the reading to the best of their ability. A scammer will tell the victim they are cursed, have negative energy around them, ask them to come back for a more in-depth look. They will do cold readings, trying to pull information out of the victim and play on that information to psychologically trick the victim that they are real.

Spotting Signs of Fraud

Shady Methods of Payment: Most legitimate psychics and spell casters will accept PayPal or another credit card process service. One of the biggest signs that a spell caster or psychic is a fraud is requesting that a potential victim wire money by Western Union often to a random address or another country with a “waive signature” designated. Some will use Money Gram or other means of sending money that is usually more difficult to trace than a credit card.

Business Information: People should do an internet search about the business, the casters name and other identifying information to see what comes back. Often scam reports from Ripoff Report and similar sites will come up quickly. Many of the psychics and spell casters who were found to be operating a legitimate business didn’t have the best websites and some weren’t even found on the web at all but rather through online forums and word-of-mouth referrals. A number of the fraudulent sites can be traced back to Nigeria and other places in Africa, but many were located right here in the United States.

Tales of Curses/ Money for Supplies: Those committing fraud were usually the spell casters and psychics who claimed a curse had been put on the victim and their services were the only way to remove it, otherwise the victim would never have happiness. Others pressured the victims and told them they only had limited availability and their case was dire and in need of immediate intervention. There were high pressure sales strategies at work and many victims fell for it. They were often in desperate situations and saw no other way out. Psychics and spell casters play on the fears of the victim to get them to purchase the service. Some will go to great lengths to communicate with the victim right up until time the payment is made, then communication either ceases or they come back time after time and tell the victim more money is needed for more spells or valuables sent and made as offerings. Others tell the victims the money is to purchase supplies and the money will be returned. A common trick is for the victim to be asked to spend large sums of money on gift cards to various stores and send these to the caster with the idea they will be returned. They never are.

Asking for More and More: One of the most common tricks in these scams is to go back to the victim for more money because more work is needed. A common line from them is – “Once I looked into this further, I saw more issues, more negative energy that needs to be cleared and I need more money.” It’s always another issue or another problem and more work needs to be done. Or doing a fraudulent psychic reading, they ask for you to spend more time, come back another day, let’s do a more in-depth reading. The scammer makes the victim feel like it’s a dire situation and something will go wrong if they don’t more spell work. Another common statement is – “If we don’t do more all the initial work we did will backfire or be ineffective.” Bottom line, it’s all just a scam.

Asking for Personal Information: No one needs your social security number or bank or credit card number to do spell work no matter what anyone says.

Promise Immediate Results: Almost all scam sites will tell a victim to expect almost overnight results: Return a lover in twenty-four hours and/or their problems will disappear overnight. This is a huge sign of a scam.

Decoding The Real Truth About Psychics

Professional psychics specializes in different methods and each of them brings a unique skill set in the table for counselling others on the path to awakening. The spiritual advisors who partner with us here at PsychicOz have spent years, if not decades, fine tuning their channel to be as clear and receptive as possible. The best psychics continue to hone their skills, and we work with only the best.

The commitment to serve others as a psychic reader is both a career choice and a spiritual path. Well-established, in-demand spiritual advisors like ours have large client bases that repeatedly seek them out for advice because of the integrity and wisdom they possess.

We’ve noticed several misconceptions that sometimes get in a client’s way when working with a psychic reader. Let’s shine some clarifying light on these beliefs to dispel the illusions.

1) All clairvoyants are always 100 percent accurate

Clairvoyant readers are (usually!) 100 percent human beings living this Earth journey. They are susceptible to fatigue and occasional errors. Without adequate recharging, psychics can fall prey to energy depletion like anyone else that practices a profession of serving others.

Psychics are bridges between worlds, and the information that they carry to you can only be as accurate and clear as they are in that moment. Even if the communications they receive for you are sourced from their own reliable and pure spirit guides, the message can only be delivered in a language that your advisor can interpret and articulate.

As psychics continue to grow and develop on their own life path, the manner in which they bring through and “step down” the information they receive often changes, becoming deeper and more consistently accurate. When choosing your own personal spiritual advisor, always go with someone who uses a vocabulary that carries the most authenticity and resonance for you.

2) Tarot readers can predict certain misfortune by the cards drawn

Psychics who work with a tarot deck are masters of symbology. They know that every image and theme on a card carries numerous interpretations. How they interpret a card is totally dependent upon your specific situation, as well as the placement of all the other cards in the throw.

The Death card is not a dark omen of someone’s physical demise, but often points to great rebirth on the near horizon. It may involve great pain, but ultimately this card portends a huge, life-altering shift for the client. Likewise, the Tower card. While some sort of “collapse” may be possible, the reading is bringing the potentiality to your attention. This allows you to take steps that redirect the energies inherent in the situation. The simple act of laying out the cards and seeking guidance begins to shift the possibilities available to you.

Great tarot readers engage their sharp powers of pattern and symbol interpretation to inspire you on your soul’s journey, never to frighten or depress you. They know that a specific throw is just one peek into your life as it is in that moment in time, not the whole picture. The cards that come up carry messages that you need to hear at that particular juncture to empower you to choose your next steps consciously.

3) Astrologers can determine your entire future by looking at your natal chart

Although astrologers are firm believers in “As Above, So Below,” they know that the relationship between the planets and our human lives on Earth are complex, multilayered, and ever-evolving. In your 100 percent unique birth chart, astrologers see undeveloped talents, latent gifts, areas of weakness and vulnerability, and multiple possible futures for you.

Much like tarot, astrology points to tendencies and possibilities. Your free will is sovereign and overrides any areas of negativity or destructive tendencies seen in a chart. Your future is never set in stone. It is alterable with every single conscious choice you make.

When you consult a professional astrologer for a solar return chart on your birthday, or seek out a relationship compatibility reading, you are delving into an immense sea of complex interactions. When a gifted astrologer analyzes and then explains the aspects in play, it allows you to make informed and empowered choices about the outcomes that you desire.

4) Psychic readers are telepaths who read your mind during a session

Although many psychics are also telepathically skilled, the greater gift lies in their ability to read energy. While we are all born with this wide-open access to other spiritual dimensions, psychic readers either never closed down, or have devoted themselves to opening back up to these vast fields of information found in the subtle realms.

Most psychics are HSPs – Highly Sensitive Persons. As natural empaths, they are permeable to the emotions and motivations of others. They are very insightful and have extraordinary use of all of their senses, which they use to gather information when counseling you. Their acute sensitivity to subtle stimulation makes it first nature for psychics to read the energy fields that surround people, animals, places, and objects.

5) Spiritual advisors are better people than you are

No — psychic advisors are people who are passionate about helping you, and all of humanity, evolve into better people. The psychic readers here at PsychicOz share one goal: to support your spiritual growth by providing you with empowering information that allows you to make better, more creative and fulfilling life choices.

Ethical psychics like ours won’t ever tell you what to do, or pressure you into believing anything that they share with you. Invoke your highest powers of discernment when choosing one of our top-rated spiritual advisors to counsel you, and trust that the decision is for your greatest empowerment!

Effective Psychic Tools Which Are Commonly Used

Psychics often uses different tools and methods to obtain information during a psychic reading. Tarot cards, astrology, runes, crystals, spirit guides, angels—the list is long and fascinating. Now, there are some psychics who don’t work with any of these; they simply use whatever psychic ability they have to log into the “energy Internet” and ask for the information they need.

Divination Tools

Intuition is a wonderful thing—we all have it, and most advisors have developed their intuition such that they have powerful psychic abilities they can trust. If a psychic uses a method to help focus or access their intuition, it doesn’t mean they aren’t as psychic as someone who doesn’t. 

The following is is a short list of divination tools and how they work:

  • Tarot cards: Probably the most well known and popular psychic tool, Tarot cards and other oracle decks contain images that the psychic has learned to work with and relate to their client’s questions. Images stimulate the subconscious and intuitive faculty, and they are favored by those who are clairvoyant and claircognizant. Readers may draw one card or many, sometimes using complex spreads to answer client questions. Animal cards and angel cards are popular variations on traditional Tarot cards.
  • Astrology: This ancient science is useful for personal development as well as foreseeing the timing and prediction of events. Practitioners of astrology learn copious amounts about the planets and the zodiac, and they typically specialize in a school or tradition. To interpret the data requires both knowledge and the art of intuitively blending the information that will be the most useful to the client. Many readers develop their own unique methods of working with astro-data and combine it with other types of reading.
  • Runes: This is the art of reading symbols derived from ancient Norse language and mythology. You can lay runes out in spreads or draw for questions just like Tarot cards.
  • Crystals: Crystals help psychics focus their attention so they can tap into their clairvoyant powers to see visions or answers to client questions. While different crystals have their own unique energetic properties, they doesn’t do anything themselves; the psychic is still doing the seeing.
  • Spirit Guides/Angels: Many psychics work with their spirit guide team—or yours—to obtain information from the energetic web. These beings interface with Divine wisdom and knowledge, and they have a perspective that is beyond human knowing. Angels also work with psychics in a similar way, and some psychics channel specific beings who impart wisdom for the collective.

The Energy Internet

Psychics who don’t use any type of tool are still accessing their intuition and higher self. Most have some type of ritual—however brief—to drop them into a receptive state to obtain information. Depending on what type of psychic ability they have, they will hear, feel, see, or know the answers or guidance that their clients need.  I like to use the metaphor of the Internet for my clients. Like the Internet, the energy psychics access exists everywhere and yet is nowhere specific, and anyone with the right tools can use it. And, like the Internet, there is a lot of irrelevant info out there! Psychics use their experience and guidance to determine what information is pertinent to a client or not.

Most psychics use a combination of both plain reading and tools, depending on the situation. Some clients prefer certain methods. I have clients who love Tarot cards but couldn’t care less about astrology. Others are very bonded to their spirit guide team and want me to channel those guides. Still others just like a basic reading, nothing fancy. I like using a variety of tools because then I get to play with all my psychic abilities, but I don’t get a better quality of information from one over the other.

Psychics will ask you for some information to help them better guide you and hone in on the information that is most relevant to you at the time. Don’t expect them to know everything about you just because they are psychic! Most psychics work as professionals in order to be of service and use their abilities for the highest good. To get the most out of a reading, prepare, be open, and trust.

Psychics: What Is True And What Is Not?

‘Ever wondering if psychics are true or not? Is it worth spending money to talk with them? Are they going to really help you or will just to ripped off your pocket? Did you choose the right psychics? There are so many questions in your mind but haven’t really found an answer and it confuses you more than it should help. ‘

In an effort to help you by shedding light to most common questions. We are giving you a fact on what is real or not with a psychic.

False: A psychic always reads your mind.

True: Psychic readers can get an indication of what’s on your mind if we focus our intent on doing so but if we did that with every person all the time, we would become tired and need mental health assistance! Aside from this, a professional reader will ask for one’s permission instead of invading his/her privacy. Thus, some things such as face reading and intuition become automatic, but psychics usually tune into it for a short period of time and only when needed. In addition, if a person does not want to be read, he/she can’t be.

False:  A psychic reader knows everything about the person.

True: Psychic is not the same as omniscient! According to Wikipedia: “Omniscience, mainly in religion, is the capacity to know everything that there is to know. In particular, Hinduism and the Abrahamic religions (Judaism, Christianity, and Islam) believe that there is a divine being who is omniscient.” No psychic is all knowing. A psychic reader often focuses on a certain area of concern that’s often chosen by the individual who wants to get a psychic reading. In some cases, when an individual (also called a seeker or sitter) only wishes to be read, the physic sees general information that they interpret into common or certain insights for the person. The quality of the insight depends on the question as well as openness of the person to the reader.

False: Readers will tell the person something terrible like he/she will die or get into an accident.

True: Professional readers follow a code of ethics and it does not include telling people about things that are psychically detrimental to know about or things they can’t control. Some readers consider if the reading will benefit the person. If yes and it does not violate the code, then they will tell them and give them advice on how they can improve a tough situation.

False: Psychic readers are scammers.

True: There are scammers in all occupations – Scamming lawyers, scamming doctors, scamming accountants, scamming IT professionals etc. Most psychic readers want to provide a valuable service that helps a person and doesn’t deceive them. Desperate and vulnerable individuals and those who don’t want to take responsibility for their life or don’t want to work are very prone to deception. To drive scam artists away, take ownership over your life. Some readers re-direct vulnerable people to crisis centers and other kinds of help.

False: Psychic readers often employ cold reading techniques and are fakes.

True: Often, professional readers can read clothing and hair styles, body language and facial expression as they are genuinely interested in knowing, observing and understanding other people. Cold reading is frequently used separately or together with other reading tools such as palm, tarot and astrology. It can also be employed as an ice-breaker or for illustration purposes like when connecting reading insights to what’s seen visually. Everyday people also use cold reading methods in everyday transactions with other individuals without paying a lot of attention to it. These techniques help individuals establish relationships as well as get along with other people. Fake psychic readers use these techniques to deliberately deceive others.

False: Psychics are not real unless they can provide a reading without questions being asked.

True: Psychics might pick up random facts about an individual, but they normally need a concentrated effort to read a person. Also, that person should open himself up to the psychic reading. Professional readers will want to learn certain questions a seeker wants answered as they could be there throughout the day picking up stray psychic debris or Trues that don’t have any meaning or importance to the seeker. This is just a waste of time. However, one thing that people should keep in mind is that readers and psychics are basically interpreters. They get information and interpret it into something practical and meaningful in order for the seeker to understand and relate to the response. The seeker’s question is the foundation for the reading because if there is no question, the response is possible to be common.

False: Every reader is a psychic.

True: There are some readers who aren’t psychics. On the other hand, every psychic is a reader. Being a psychic means a person has keen senses beyond the average. A reader is someone who possesses knowledge about an ancient scientific tool and is capable of interpreting a result, but doesn’t necessarily create intuitive jumps in interpreting the information collected from a reading tool like palmistry, astrology, tarot, handwriting analysis and numerology. Psychics use tools such as Clairvoyance (sight), Clairaugustance (tasting or smelling), Clairaudience (hearing), Claircognizance (knowing) and Clairsentience (feeling). They connect to the universal mind, pick up information and interpret the result. On the other hand, readers learn a system, pick up information and interpret the result.

False: Psychic readers should not charge money for their services as it is spiritual and is a gift.

True: Professional readers provide an important service that other people can benefit from. While their ability may be a gift, lots of people have gifts such as artists, psychologists, athletes, builders and actors. As everyone lives in a place that requires them to use money in order to survive, they need to earn a living and using their gifts is one of the best ways to do this. Professional readers also need to earn money to meet their needs.

False: All readers or psychics know the past, present as well as future.

True: Not all readers or psychics have the same interest or ability. Pre-cognition (future), retro-cognition (past) and cognition (present) are areas that a reader or psychic may focus on. However, it depends on their interest and ability as to how fine they can do so in these areas.

False: A psychic reading is set in stone.

True: Most professional readers believe in the combination of destiny and freewill. Freewill gives you the freedom to do what you want and change what you wish to change. Destiny, on the other hand, is something that just occurs to you and there is no way of changing it. A reader is similar to any other forecaster. They look at past acts and present situation to divine a result that’s likely to happen in the future. However, intervention or freewill can affect the prediction. This only means that no reader is accurate all the time.

False: Psychic readings are only intended for divination fortune telling.

True: Psychic readings can be used for seeing options,  strategizing, healing, personality analysis, mediation and arbitration, past lives analysis, an objective viewpoint, Mediumship, meditation, dream manifestation, expanding experience, psychic or intuitive development, making choices, planning, brainstorming and idea generation, dream analysis, career and work counseling, story development, love and relationship diagnosis, counseling, consulting services, understanding society, situations, people and self or as an economical short term option to unlicensed coaching.

False: Readers are aged, grey haired, ugly women who do their reading in dim and mysterious house spaces or living rooms that have plenty of old and strange things displayed. They have a crystal ball or odd picture cards that their long fingers as well as painted fingernails hold. Wearing a scarf over their head and with jewelry, they’re quiet but insightful and can see through the soul telling people all kinds of deep and devastating news and premonitions that leave one feeling ill.

True: Although this kind of readers exist, modern readers often have an office or use instant message, snail mail, email or phone when reading for a person during a personal session. They may not or may see sitters in person and if they do, it may be in a café, office or at a special occasion in your home, spa or trade show. Readers also look like the everyday normal people. They can be socially beautiful, vivacious, trendy looking, young, a sports mom or a man. Some readers make sure to add excitement to an occasion.

False: Testing psychics will confirm their accuracy.

True: If a seeker deliberately builds a wall and if they’re an excellent builder, the psychic won’t be able to go through it. Psychics are not invincible paranormal beings and when they give a reading, it is an energy exchange – a give and take act.

Although readings are entertaining, they aren’t meant to be a comical trick. Real psychics don’t like to be tested as they’re not magicians and are rarely capable of giving an accurate reading when being tested. They don’t want to match wits or play mind games. Psychics want to give seekers important insights that leave them feeling great.

Providing false data can confuse them and get them nervous that can leave a negative vibe. It is a poor way of testing a psychic who really wants to help others. Some psychics are focused on giving entertainment, but they still follow etiquette when performing a special event reading.

When seekers entertain themselves by confusing or tricking while obtaining a reading, they’re being unproductive and pessimistic and perhaps should not be receiving a reading from a real psychic.

Testing psychics can negatively affect the vibe of an event, particularly those events that require an uplifting and positive vibe. Thus, if you know that you have lots of guests who are sceptical and want to entertain themselves through testing a psychic, inform the psychic beforehand so that he/she can decide whether that’s the setting he/she wants to entertain or try a mentalist instead.

How To Detect A Lying Psychic

 Alleged psychics who claim to have supernatural powers to communicate with the “spirit realm” have been around for centuries and these psychics may seem very convincing at first but that is a cognitive illusion created by the fact that these supposed psychics use psychological tools and techniques to attempt to create such beliefs in the brain of their unsuspecting victims.

This article goes into detail and examines the nature of some of these tricks. Although no division is going to be perfect, they can be divided into three categories (with some overlap): basic techniques that almost all psychics use, techniques used to increase the probability of getting a hit and techniques used to salvage a miss. When combined, they constitute a powerful method for deception, especially if the victim is in an emotionally vulnerable state or if he or she already has an inclination to believe.

Basic Techniques

There are certain techniques that are used by almost all alleged psychics that the deserved to be called basic techniques. This involves cold reading (making guesses and getting information from the victim), warm reading (making barnum statements that apply to almost everyone), hot reading (gotten information from researching the victim) and time-shifting (asking a question and claiming that the information was gotten from the spirit world when the victim tells the alleged psychic the information).

Cold reading: cold reading is perhaps one of the most common and well-known tactic used by alleged psychics. It is a technique designed to get the victim to give the alleged psychic the information, and then the alleged psychic takes credit for it and makes it appear that he or she got that information from the deceased loved one. The alleged psychic typically employ estimates and guesses that have a high prior probability of being true about the person, often informed by body language, manner of speech, outward appearance and so on. If a guess is confirmed, the alleged psychic pushes forward in that direction, hoping that confirmation bias will make the victim remember the hits and forget the misses.

Warm reading: there is a related technique referred to as warm reading. Some skeptics consider it a type of cold reading, whereas others conceptualize it as an independent technique. Warm reading occurs when the alleged psychic uses statements that apply to almost anyone (barnum statements) instead of using cold reading to get the victim to give them information. Examples include guessing for a common case of death (such as heart condition or cancer). If this technique is combined with inflating probabilistic resources, the supposed psychic has a very high probability of scoring a hit.

Hot reading: hot reading occurs when the alleged psychic has actually gotten information about the victim beforehand, either from a Google search or probing other people close the victim (such as relatives, friends, TV producers and so on). Then, when they present that information to their victims, it seems like a miraculous discovery and evidence that the alleged psychic can really talk to the dead. In reality, they have just gathered that information from living or electronic sources without you knowing it. With the popularity of social networking sites like Twitter and Facebook, this is becoming an increasingly powerful technique.

Time-shifting: time-shifting is a technique that begins with the alleged psychic asking a question. If the victim gives an informative response, the alleged psychic replies that the dead loved one just told him or her that. To credulous victims, it may appear that the deceased loved one provided the information before the question was asked. In reality, it was the victim that gave that information to the supposed psychic and the supposed psychic tried to make it look like he or she was actually communicating with the dead.

Techniques to Ensure a Hit

The techniques in this category attempt to increase the probability of getting hits. This is done by various means, such as making a statement without specifying what dead relative and hoping that it will fit for at least one or making a statement in front of a crowd so that at least someone will relate (inflating probabilistic resources), increasing the number of statements made hoping that some are true (shotgunning), making statements that are contradictory or cover a range of possibilities (covering all the bases), ensure that all responses by the victim can be twisted into a hit by asking questions containing negations (vanishing negative) and making unverifiable/unfalsifiable claims that can never become misses (escape hatch).

Inflating probabilistic resources: this technique can be used both when performing a private reading and when doing a reading on e. g. a TV audience. Both are based on the fact that the more possible connections that can make between what the alleged psychic claims and reality, the greater probability that the claimed psychic will score a hit. During a private reading, the psychic might make vague claims about the victim’s dead relatives (e. g. who had the cat?). Since any given person might have quite a few dead relatives, there is a greater probability to score a hit than if the psychic had asked “did your mother have a cat?”. During psychic readings on a studio audience, an alleged psychic will throw out a bait to the entire audience, such as asking “who had the dad with the clock?” or similar. The alleged psychic is almost guaranteed a hit, because there is bound to be someone who can relate to it. In this case, the inflation does not occur by making claims that could refer to any dead relative. Instead, the inflation occurs because there are so many people in the studio audience. Using these techniques, the probability of getting a hit is increased.

Shotgunning: the defining characteristic of the shotgunning technique involves throwing out a lot of claims, particularly names, and hoping that the victim can relate to at least one of them. The alleged psychic relies on the confirmation bias of the victim to ensure that he or she will remember the hits and forgetting the misses. This is based on the same general ideas as inflating the probabilistic resources, although here it is about increasing the number of allowed guesses instead of increasing the probability that a given guess is interpreted as a hit.

Covering all bases: another way to increase the probability of a hit is to make statements that are very broad. There are generally two types of questions asked when using the covering all bases technique: contradictory questions or questions that span a range. Contradictory claims are questions that first state one thing, then state the almost complete opposite. A classic example is “you enjoy spending time with friends, but you sometimes prefer to spend time alone to relax”. A person who enjoys spending time with friends will count it as a hit and a person who enjoys spending time alone will also count it as a hit. This is due to selective attention for confirmatory statements. These contradictory statements are often pretty vague and would apply to almost anyone (thereby combining the covering all bases technique with warm reading). Statements that span a range attempts to cover as much ground as possible and thereby make it appear as if it was a hit. This technique is more subtle than shotgunning, but can still make the victim believe that the alleged psychic scored a hit. An example of a statement that spans a range could be “the car your parents had when you were growing up was quite expensive, or it looks kind of expensive because it was well-kept, it was an average car that your parents took good care of”. What exactly does the alleged psychic claim about the value of the car? As it turns out, a wide range of things, all the way from “quite expensive” to “average”.

Vanishing negative: the vanishing negative technique starts with the alleged psychic asking interrogative questions containing a negation e. g. “you do not like to play tennis?”. If the victim says “yes, I did”, the psychic responds “I knew it, your [name of diseased relative] just told me that” and the victim counts it as a hit. If the victim had said “no, I hate playing tennis!”, then alleged psychic can respond exactly the same, stating that he or she got the information about the dislike for tennis from the deceased relative. This is a technique that eliminates the possibility of misses. Whatever what the truth actually was regarding the victim’s interest in playing tennis, the alleged psychic ensures that he or she will get a hit.

Escape hatch: whereas the vanishing negative techniques ensures a hit by rerouting all the possible paths towards a hit, the escape hatch technique prevents a miss by putting up roadblocks on any possible path towards a miss. This is done by making sure that the claim made by the alleged psychic are unfalsifiable, such as claims about the beliefs and thoughts of a pets.

Techniques to Salvage a Miss

Despite the fact that alleged psychics often attempt to skew the odds in favor of getting a hit through various means (or manipulating the victim into thinking that it was a hit), it is sometimes possible for psychics to be so wrong that the causal observer (or even the victim) might notice. To rectify this situation, the alleged psychic has several psychological tools and techniques to salvage a miss. This can involve very simple techniques, such as starting to talk about something else (changing the subject) or inflating the possible targets for a given statement (casting the net wider). Other approaches are more complex, such as trying to make a previous miss appear as a hit by vaguely relating it to something else (retrofitting) or biting the bullet and accepting that a miss occurred, but provide elaborate excuses.

Changing the subject: this is perhaps the easiest tactic used by alleged psychics. If a particular line of inquiry does not seem to be going anywhere, the alleged psychic quickly changes the topic and hope that he or she does better on that (betting that confirmation bias will make the victim forget the miss).

Spreading the net wider: spreading the net wider is another technique that is used to attempt to salvage a miss. If the alleged psychic has made a precise claim about something (the following example taken from the skeptic Miklos Jako’s examination of alleged psychic James Van Praagh), like “whose birthday is in July?” and the victim cannot come up with a connection, the alleged psychic broadens the scope and asks “what happened in July?” The alleged psychic throw his or her darts and failed to hit the dartboard, so he or she attempts to inflate the size of the dartboard after the fact.

Retrofitting: retrofitting is a technique that alleged psychics use to explain a failure earlier in the reading. A situation arises that appears to vaguely relate to a previous statement made by the alleged psychic, and he or she attempts to connect the dots. The alleged psychic might have asked if the mother smoked and gotten it wrong. If any situation that vaguely relates to smoking (smoke, fire, burning, firefighter, matches etc.), the supposed psychic can retrofit that information and attempt to convert a miss to a hit (“maybe that was the reason I saw smoke earlier”).

Post hoc rationalizations: sometimes, the alleged psychic does so badly that not even a clever deception can salvage the miss. This forces the supposed psychic to bite the bullet and admit that he or she was wrong. Does this discourage the alleged psychic from the belief that he or she has supernatural powers? Almost never. Instead, the psychic makes up elaborate excuses to rationalize failure. These often involve appeals to pseudoscientific beliefs, such as claiming that the victim’s “energy” was wrong or unclean and that it only works if you believe (presumably the “negative energy” of a skeptic disrupts the abilities of the alleged psychic). Other explanations range from “I do not claim to be 100% accurate” (the problem is that alleged psychics are nowhere near that accurate) and “I need to work face-to-face with clients” (how else is cold reading gonna work?) to “I hoped I was wrong”

Be Skeptical!

Remember that alleged psychics probably do not communicate with the “spirit world”. Instead, they are using well-known psychological techniques and they have been doing that for centuries. Do not let yourself be fooled by alleged psychics who profit on deception and the financial exploitation (often several hundred dollars) of human grief. Anyone, even the highly educated and intelligent, can be taken in my what appears to be the supernatural powers of the alleged psychic.

Love Is The Root Of Deep Anger

      92e88d445dc1eac28b603e224c7706a2   I used to be so mad, so angry, so furious that i don’t know how should i describe it anymore. I was angry at the state of the world and everything. I was angry at you. I was angry at myself. Now anger arises so rarely I miss it. And when it comes I cherish it as a gift. What changed? I went deeper into the anger and felt its roots.

Where does your anger come from? Do you embrace it? How do you act when this emotion arises? Do you become aware of anger early enough to choose clarity over rage? Can you smile while you are angry?

Anger comes from love. You can not get angry unless you care about something. It is impossible to feel anger without love. Understanding this on a deep level and developing the ability to witness this within yourself will change your relationship to anger completely. Your anger is there to serve you. It is there to serve others. It exists because you care.

Embracing anger is healthier than suppressing it. We have all heard the suggestion to breath 10 times when you get angry, to pause and let it pass. Perhaps you have been advised to close your eyes, to meditate, to visualize, to exercise, to do anything to minimize or work past the feeling of anger. I say that if you have a problem with anger it is not because you indulge it. The problem is that you do not feel it deeply enough to understand its roots. Anger is dangerous unless you feel it deeply. Truly bringing your awareness to your anger changes everything. Feeling anger deeply brings you to love.

How we act when anger arises is determined by the degree of awareness we have of our internal landscape. The less aware we are of how anger arises the later in its gestation we feel it. When we witness anger at its roots it feels like love. When we catch it early it does not feel overwhelming and we therefore have a choice in how it is expressed in our actions.  When we choose to honor anger as a manifestation of love it can be channeled into a creative, even nurturing act. When a loved one is threatened anger compels us to protect them. This we know. But do you recognize that you are often protecting yourself when you get angry? Can you connect with the feeling of vulnerability that precedes the anger? Trace the anger and you will find yourself feeling threatened. Beneath that you will find what you love. Before all else you love yourself.

anger-1-letterThe later we become aware the more anger controls us and the more likely we are to act destructively when we get angry. Anger offers clarity, but first you must circulate the energy from your body to your mind. If you go into a blind rage when anger arises it is because you have not learned to connect your awareness with your body. Awareness is a skill that develops with use. In life threatening situations fight or flight responses serves to protect us. These adrenaline fueled reactions are rarely appropriate in the modern world. As you get more in touch with your anger you can choose to engage these impulses or not. In nonphysical confrontations, in conversation, in argument, the more evolved response is to quiet the body and engage higher cognition. You must circulate the immense energy that anger offers to your higher mind. Only then should you choose to bring that energy back into your body to act with purpose.

Embracing your anger allows you to honor it. Anger does serve a purpose. Anger is how we connect with that which we love and keep it safe. Yes, you feel anger if someone attacks you or your loved ones. You likely also feel anger when someone threatens your authority or expertise. Can you admit to yourself that you feel vulnerable whenever you are angry? Can you recognize this in others when they get angry with you? When someone is angry at you it is directly linked to their sense that something they love feels threatened. Can you honor the love in them or do you feel the need to strike back with aggression?

Anger is a tremendously powerful force. Anger connects you with your power. Emotions themselves are not necessarily good or bad. Power can be used to help or to hurt. It is rarely helpful to judge yourself for your emotions. Destructive actions triggered directly by emotions are what we must control. What happens if you simply feel your emotions deeply; including anger? Many fear that anger will lead them to do something terrible, to hurt someone, to lash out, to make a mistake. But what happens if you connect with the love that is behind the anger? How does this effect the tone of the experience? How does it effect the actions the emotions inspire? Might it allow you to wield this power differently?

shutterstock_1045272171Try smiling when you feel anger. Smile, breathe deep and exhale with ease. Your eyes must smile as well. This is not a maniacal grin. This is an easy smile. You should feel it in your heart. You must keep breathing. Holding your breath traps energy. Breathing deeply circulates energy. Smiling will interrupt a pattern of rage, a pattern of holding anger below your neck. Smiling can be a key, a Trim Tab to transforming anger into clarity and compassion.

Anger brings clarity by bringing us completely into focus in the moment. Many are drawn to anger because of the sense of power and clarity, righteousness and control that it brings to a situation. What happens if you choose not to shut the anger off, not to deny or suppress it as many would suggest, but to truly honor this anger? Breathe deep of the feeling and feel the energy coursing through your body. Let that energy move up into your mind. Let anger develop into clarity. Understand why you are upset. Connect with the vulnerability in you and others and honor the love that is at the root of this feeling. Use the clarity and energy that anger offers to take care of yourself and others. Let anger become a catalyst for creativity.

The tattoo on my arm is a reminder. Aggressive patterns run up and down my arm. In the center there is a dove. When I see anger in others it helps remind me that love lies beneath all things, even violence.

Curse spell? Scam!

candle-wishing-spell-326x245It never gets old! I wondered why a lot of people still fell into a trap of getting bad luck/curse spell from psychics.. Those are scams.  It’s when a supposed psychic tells you that you are either cursed or have a dark presence around you and tell you that you need to have a spell and purchase it from them? It’s a big No No.

They may even give you a vague reading to “prove” themselves and then go on to tell you that this curse is the reason why bad things have happened to you, and why you can’t seem to make any progress in your life no matter how hard you try.

At this point, you may start thinking to yourself:  I have had a string of bad luck lately.  Maybe this psychic is right!

This is exactly what they’re counting on.  They want you to feel insecure or frightened.  This is the “hook” they use to reel you in further.

The next thing they do is tell you that they can cure you of this negativity.   Of course, this requires a fee – and typically, it’s quite a hefty one.

They may also insist that you set up an appointment to see them again so they can  “make sure the curse is gone.”  At this point, it is common for them to tell you that things are worse than they originally thought and that they will need more money from you.  This is how they keep these psychic scams going.

I have heard of people losing hundreds to more than a hundred thousand dollars to these psychic scams.

Instead of taking a risk, you’d be better off calling a reputable psychic, such as the ones at PsychicOz, where you can get a $1.99/ minute reading.

Tips to Avoid Being Ripped-Off by Psychic Scams

8687658_f1024Of all the different psychic scams, this one is the easiest to spot.   Just pay attention for these key words or phrases… they’re all red flags:

  • Someone has put a bad luck curse on you
  • There is an ancestral curse on you
  • There is a curse on someone you love and something bad is going to happen to them.
  • There is a dark energy or evil spirit around you.

All of that is rubbish.  If you hear the words curse or spell,  it’s a scam.  And as far as the dark energy goes, this is extremely rare.  If there actually was something yucky around you, the reader could tell you how to get rid of it yourself by doing things like using white light, etc.  It would not cost you thousands of dollars in fees.

Another red flag is if a person approaches you on the street and starts giving you a reading.  You always want to be leery of someone approaching you, especially if they start spouting the nonsense we just talked about, or if they ask for money.

Apparently, I was cursed too…

One chilly fall day in 2001, I was driving home from a mediumship development class.  I passed by a little shop that had a sign in the window:  Psychic Readings $10.  I was feeling adventurous, so I stopped to check it out.

aid5382833-728px-put-a-curse-on-someone-step-10-version-2Oh, it was an adventure all right!  During my 10 minute “reading” I was told that I had a dark energy around me because I had been cursed.

Now this generous woman was going to clear my curse for free (you guys know I’m being sarcastic here, right?).  She made it clear that her time and prayers were absolutely free, but, the candles and other “tools” that she needed to use were going to cost me $160.  All I could think is, are the candles made of gold?

The best part was, I wouldn’t even need to be there while she worked her magic.  Nope, she was going to do all of this hard work in her office while I was at home lounging around in my bunny slippers.  All I needed to do was follow up in a week so that she could be certain the dark energy was gone.

Just so I could get the heck out of there I said, “I’ll think about it.”  And then I hopped in my car and put the pedal to the metal!  About a year later, that woman was out of business.  No more psychic scams for her.  Thank goodness!

True Lightworkers offer guidance from a place of love.  Even when discussing a topic that is serious or sensitive, you should not feel frightened.

If something feels funny, trust your gut!

Five Traits of a Good Psychic Reader

Take in the things that a decent psychic reader does as such you can get an impressive reading that engages you and touches your spirit.

  • If you are interested in having a reading, this article will help you understand the things that honest and ethical intuitive readers and spiritual mediums do.  This will not only help you avoid getting scammed, it will also help you get a session that is beneficial.
  • If you are developing your psychic abilities, this is stuff you’ll absolutely want to know so that you can become an ethical reader.

Without further adieu, here are the five traits of a good psychic reader:

1. They leave judgments at the door

Readings and judgments don’t mix.  A good psychic reader knows this and puts aside all of their biases and personal feelings when they are working.

Here’s an example:  A client named Marie walks in and she’s upset.  She drank heavily while her four children were growing up, and now that they’re adults they want nothing to do with her.

They blame their mother’s alcoholism for all of their problems. Marie schedules a reading to get some clarity into the situation.

Marie should not feel ashamed when she goes for her reading because this is a time for her to be showered with the love of her spiritual team… and spirit doesn’t judge.  They see our souls and love us unconditionally.  So…

Whatever the reader’s personal feelings are about the situation are irrelevant.

The job of the reader is to pass along the information they receive from your spiritual guides and loved ones in heaven.  It’s a chance to practice love and kindness and help empower Marie by showing her the beauty of her soul.

A client of mine was told by an unethical psychic once that she needed to “suck it up” with regard to a situation she was dealing with.  This was the psychic’s own message to the client and is totally unacceptable.

A session with a good psychic reader will be uplifting and make you feel good.  Prior to your session, they will have set the intention that the information you receive is for your highest and best good.

And, they won’t just fill your ears with what you want to hear, they will focus on what your spiritual team believes you need to hear (such as life lessons) – always in a positive and non-judgmental way.

When you are done, you should feel uplifted, not depressed or frightened.

2. A good psychic reader will not scare you – ever!

good psychic 2Contrary, they will always encourage you to be comfortable, relaxed, and at ease.  They will never frighten you with scary news and they will not:

  • Tell you that you have any type of bad luck curse – this is the number one psychic scam of all time!   Never give anyone money because they promise to break a curse for you.  If someone tells you that you have any type of bad luck curse and they need money to remove it, they are a fraud!  No exceptions!
  • Predict death – The only exception may be when someone is terminally ill – a spiritual medium or intuitive can sometimes pick up on thisif it is in your highest and best good – for example, to give you a message to spend more time with your loved one.  Other than that, we cannot predict death.
  • Diagnose serious health issues – Intuitive readers may sometimes tell you to have something checked out,but they are not doctors and do not make medical diagnoses.  If you are interested in seeing someone who gives intuitive health readings, make sure you proceed with caution and use common sense.

3. They believe that honesty is the best policy

If you ask a question to a good psychic reader and they don’t know the answer, they will admit it.   They will not try to make information “fit.”

You may think this is an oxymoron – after all, shouldn’t a good psychic reader be able to tell you everything your heart desires?

The answer is no, and here’s the reason why:  Readers of integrity play by the rules.  If an answer to your question is not coming to light during a session, they know there is a reason.

Also, they will not give you predictions such as:

  • Lottery numbers.  Ethical psychics and mediums are interested in helping you in your soul’s journey – not in the lottery.  Besides, lottery numbers are drawn by chance, therefore, they cannot give you any gambling tips.

4. Remind you that decisions are always yours

This is super important!  A good psychic reader will offer insight, but still encourage you to take charge of creating a life plan for yourself.

They will not tell you what to do, but they can shed light on why certain events are happening in your life. This eliminates psychic dependency and also empowers you.

If you are trying to make a decision, they can ask your spirit guides for further information about the path you are currently on versus the new path you are thinking of taking.

Bottom line: If you hear a psychic say something like you must do such-and-such, run the other way.  You have the right to do whatever it is that you want to do.

Never, ever do something that does not feel right to you.

 

5. A good psychic reader is respectful

They respect the religious and spiritual beliefs of others.  In other words, they will not force their personal beliefs onto their clients.

They are also respectful of their clients feelings, and deliver sensitive messages with compassion.

So there you have it – five traits of a good psychic reader.  Always remember:  You are in charge of your life.

Protect Yourself from Psychic Fraud

scam 3The reality is there are a lot of psychic frauds on the web today, where people or companies appealing to be ‘psychics’ are providing inaccurate information and the goal is to obtain sums of money from their clients. I often receive complaints from individuals who tell me about how they paid a psychic reading online, but in the end it was never delivered, what was meant to be ‘personalized’ was actually a generic reading, or that they were tricked into paying even more money with the ‘psychic’.

It really saddens me to hear of these stories, particularly when honest people are being scammed out of their money and being robbed of their faith, trust and hope. In the following blog post, I provide you with some helpful tips on how you can avoid a psychic scam and protect yourself against getting ripped off by these unethical individuals and companies.

There are a number of actions you can take to protect yourself against unethical or fraudulent psychics. Here are just a few:

  • Recognise the warning signs of a psychic scam.
    • The psychic may try to convince you that they are genuine by telling you something about yourself. Remember to ask yourself whether what they are telling you is something that is vague or general (and could therefore be true about anyone). And don’t forget that they may also tell you something about yourself that you mentioned previously or they got from another source, in an attempt to convince you of their ‘powers’. Run a quick google search on your own name and see what information is readily available about you.
    • You may be offered a ‘free’ personalized readings in exchange for your personal details. These often lead to requests for payments.
    • The psychic may tell you that you have been cursed or jinxed, and the only way to release the curse is to pay them a sum of money to do a spell or another, more detailed reading.scam 1
    • You receive an email or letter out of the blue from somebody claiming to be a psychic or clairvoyant.
    • You may be offered a good luck charm, the secret to enormous wealth, magic potions or winning lottery numbers. You might be asked to pay a small administration fee to collect your charm, potion or lottery numbers.
  • Do your research BEFORE you purchase.
    • Run a google search on the psychic before you make your purchase, using search terms such as [psychic name/company], ‘review’, ‘scam’ or ‘complaint’. If others have had negative experiences or have been scammed by the provider, then you’ll usually find it straight away by running a quick google search.
    • Always read the terms and conditions, and fine print. Find out if your credit card is going to be charged on a regular basis, or if there are other hidden conditions associated with your purchase.
  • Use your common sense.If it looks too good to be true—it probably is.
  • Protect your personal information.Only use secure payment websites and services. Never send money, or give credit card or online account details to anyone you do not know and trust. Never call a telephone number that you see in a spam email and never reply to a spam email (even to unsubscribe).

What Should You Do if You Are Scammed?

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If you are unfortunate enough to have been scammed, what can you do?

  • Ask the provider for a refund.
  • Call your bank or credit union immediately and report the scam.
  • Check to see if you can obtain a refund from the financial company that has taken your payment (e.g. PayPal, a bank, etc. ). PayPal has a robust buyer protection scheme that may be able to assist.
  • Post a complaint on the internet and warn others.
  • Report it to your local authorities.

In Closing…

My heart really goes out to those people who have been scammed in the past by someone posing as a psychic. There are so many ethical and professional psychics and tarot readers out there who do a fantastic job at providing a genuine and authentic service. It is awful to think that people are being lured into unethical services when there are much more positive experiences to be had.

Your Psychic, Real or Not?

fake psychic 1At the point when addressing a psychic medium via telephone or in individual you may think about how it is workable for them to have the capacity to give you a reading. You may likewise think about whether they are really honest to goodness and giving you genuine answers. Perhaps you have as of late been presented to a psychic medium and had a positive ordeal. You may have additionally heard or watched others on a network show that has a positive involvement with a psychic medium. Presently you are prepared to give it a shot for yourself. In spite of the fact that you are still somewhat suspicious. You have some inquiries you need to address before you get a reading for yourself.

What to look for in a Psychic Medium

There are certain things you can look out for when making a decision. A psychic medium will first off not seem like they are reading from a script when you talk to them. The person that will be reading for you should make you feel comfortable. They will be able to give you genuine feedback without prying answers out of you first.

Psychic Medium vs Cold Reading

Some will seem like they are con artist. These types are not real a psychic medium at all. They will make it seem like they are giving you information. In reality you are actually supplying them with the information – this is sometimes referred to as cold reading and it can be done in psychic chat or in person. They will use the information that you are giving them so that they can respond with general answers to your questions. These type of con artists work better in person as they use your body language and generally profile. They use this profile by determining how you look, dress, act, and speak. They turn this type of reading into a psychological evaluation.

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A psychic medium will conduct themselves with certain standards and appropriate behavior. Once your reading is over you should feel it was a positive experience. You should not be left feeling jaded by your experience. A psychic medium should make you feel comfortable. A psychic should be able to answer any questions you may have while supplying you with insight about your future. They should be able to help you along your path and send you in the right direction like any good psychic medium can.

How to Spot a Fake Psychic

They are easy to spot once you know what to look for. They will ask you general questions such as your job status, your residency, recent family hardships, or your plans to travel in the future. Then with the information you have supplied them they will come up with a calculated guess of what your future holds.

It is actually harder for these type of con artist to profile someone over the phone if information is not supplied. If you are suddenly asked a bunch of personal questions without first getting answers it is advised to simply hang up. You could also state that you are only comfortable with yes and no questions until you have established that they are capable of giving you a true reading.

How To Spot A Genuine Tarot Reader?

tarot 1I typically hear men and ladies remark and deliberate amid the immaculate amount of Tarot Reader’s you will discover accessible, extremely well my react to this is “certain you will discover thousands and thousands however far from these numerous you can discover many fakes”. Being a bonafide and talented master Tarot Reader, I needed to let you know what to search for and how to make selecting the Tarot Reader ideal for you and your needs. Our regulations and laws are that you should be more than 18 quite a while and that all Readings that happen to be executed must be seen as “for the sake of entertainment uses just” and this is a result of the legitimate rules in the territory and not for the most part any standard musings and assessments in the Tarot Reader.

An actual Tarot Reader should be somebody who has the capacity to present you with advice in the divine and settling way there are no fixed principles or laws how every person Online psychic does their operate, in particular, perhaps it is they make use of your power, use their soul books, make use of divine procedures just like angel and tarot greeting cards or another valuable items for offering fantastic stable Readings. When people contact a Online Tarot Reader it is usually because they are feeling low and nervous, anxious or excited about a certain situation that is or may happen to them. Such as, maybe you have a adore/romantic relationship dilemma such as “will my partner return to me? ” Or “I am in the romantic relationship with two different people and that i don’t know who to pick? ” Depending on the site you visit for your tarot reading, you might be able to see if the tarot reader actually specializes in certain types of questions – like a love tarot reading.

The Energy from a Tarot Reader

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Clearly normally the one excellent human being so that you can turn to is really a Tarot Reader who is able to pick-up on your own energy and work along with it to provide you the settlement and guidance that you would like. A fantastic Psychic Medium will simply possibly really need to consult you pretty general inquiries around your circumstances and should certainly track into your predicament without trouble. It really is never ever wise to examination a Tarot Reader with asking questions you are aware are usually not genuine or authentic because she or he may get using a distinct energy will absolutely mistake your Reading simply because it continues and Online Tarot Readers are usually not “brain followers”.

Feeling Good with the Tarot Reader You Choose

Generally feel relaxed with whomever you ultimately choose and whenever making your reservation for or talking with your Tarot Reader be sure that it happens to be you who wants to hold the Reading carried under and out no scenarios sense pushed in it. An actual Tarot Reader will not be frightened to speak about their knowledge as well as how they are doing their Readings with you, so never be reluctant to question questions. My advice would be to pleasantly decline having the Reading and look elsewhere if a Psychic Clairvoyant is unwilling to offer any kind of response to anything particular that you ask of them in connection to the Reading.

Getting Guidance from Your Tarot Reader

Ensure you are 100 % open to pick up answers and guidance from your Tarot Reader you might or might not prefer to perceive and a fantastic Psychic Clairvoyant will explain what exactly they perception or see or hear whether or not this is simply not everything you envisioned which is do not ever clever to obtain a Psychic Clairvoyant to inform a person exactly what they really want to learn simply because this is not just phony but additionally is not going to make a a fact Psychic. If you do not as a Psychic works with the energy they pick up, always be prepared to ask your questions in as much depth as possible because you may only get short answers. Generally aim to unwind, tell the truth and let your Psychic Reader get the job done, this is what you happen to be spending them on the qualified level to carry out. Most Psychic Clairvoyants now will not explore medical and legal, little ones or pregnancies or fiscal increases (ie lottery is the winner) because of their clientele for totally obvious motives plus the fact they are not pros in people capabilities.  So start checking out your tarot reader today!

A Good Psychic VS A Fake Psychic

Would you like to guarantee you have a charming and edifying background with your psychic readings? The psychic world is similar to any business in the way that it can draw in scam artists. To guarantee you get a decent reading from a certified individual find these vital contrasts between a decent reader and a fake one.

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Now you can uncover 10 Differences between a Good Psychic and a Fake Psychic. Do you want to know about your future? Do you have questions that need answering about your love life, career, or money? Have you been bothered with sleepless nights looking for the answers to these and many other questions? If you answer yes to any of these questions, then you may benefit from the services of a clairvoyant.

Visiting a clairvoyant to investigate your future is something that appeals to many people. Unfortunately, like in any area of life, there are some people out there looking to pull a scam. There are also genuine people who can help guide you with some insight into your future. There is a difficult choice to be made in finding a clairvoyant as there is a wide choice available.

So what we all need to know is:

How can you tell the difference between a good psychic and a bad one?

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  1. Help you to explore your options. A good reading will help you decide what you can change, if you choose.
  2. Never tell you what to do. They will remind you that you are in control of your own life and your own decisions.
  3. Bring hope. A good psychic highlights the choices we all have.
  4. Help you gain perspective on your life.
  5. Never predict anyone’s death

A Fake Psychic Reader will

  1. Tell you that they can change your future – and try and charge your extra for it! These charlatans give you a reading full of doom and gloom then offer to cast a spell to change it. Don’t fall for it; it’s just a scam to make money.
  2. Make you believe your future is fixed. It’s not true – you can always change your future.
  3. Tell you that you need to keep coming back for a reading every week to ensure you stay on track. This is also a scam and just a waste of your money.
  4. Read from a script. If they start talking in a clichéd fashion with stories of meeting a tall, dark handsome stranger then don’t bother with this person anymore.
  5. Tell you that you have a negative block or curse which then needs hours of work through long meditations – at great cost to you!

How to find a Good Psychic / Clairvoyant

I suggest you do your research thoroughly. Check out a number of different specialist internet sites before making a decision. Read the details of their readers who will have different specialties. Check out the training and experience of the readers and look at the testimonials from previous clients. Also, it’s a good idea to check to see how long they have been in business offering their services.

Remember a good reading should be fun, enlightening, and enjoyable.

Questions To Ask Your Psychic

psychic questions 1To get the right answers, one must ask the right question to a psychic – the answers that help you to shape a right path forward and marked your goals and dreams. When we ask good questions, we get good answers. And the same thing with, when we ask crappy questions, we get crappy answers.

Here’s one example:

Scenario #1: You ask the Tarot, “Will I ever find love?” and you draw the Hermit. Uh, no, you won’t find love and you’ll live a life of solitude. You end the reading feeling completely bummed because you really wanted to find ‘the one’ in the 12 months and now it’s not going to happen.

Scenario #2: You ask the Tarot, “What can I do to create the love life I truly desire?” Again, you draw the Hermit. Well, now. If you want to find ‘the one’ in the next 12 months, first spend some time on your own, reflecting on the type of relationship you really want. By being on your own, you will come to a deep realization about your inner resources that will support you in finding true and authentic love.

This time, you end the reading feeling empowered and optimistic, knowing exactly what it is you need to do to find the kind of love you’ve been dreaming of.

Of those two Tarot readings, which would you prefer? I know which one I would choose.

Now, how do we ask good questions?

Ask Open-Ended Questions

psychic questions 2Questions that can be answered “yes” or “no” are closed-ended questions. They’re fine if you want a fast answer, but the trouble is that they don’t allow for any deep reflection or exploration of a situation – they simply state what is or isn’t going to happen.

By asking the Tarot open-ended questions, on the other hand, you get far more interesting insights.

For example, instead of asking, “Will I find a new job?” you might ask, “What has been blocking me in finding a new job, and how can I release these blockages?” The first question can only be answered “yes” or “no”. The second question invites deeper reflection and opens the space for understanding how you can manifest your goal of finding a new job.

To ask open-ended questions, avoid starting the question with Will…, When… and Should…, and instead ask What…, How… and Why.

Get to the Heart of the Question

A client starts the session with the question, “What’s my soul mate like?” Now, sure, you could launch right into that reading by drawing a few cards and seeing what comes up. You might end up with an idea of a potential soul mate, but will it really be insightful and helpful for the client?

Or, you could ask a few questions to understand what’s really on your client’s mind and how you can help. Perhaps you find out that your client is single right now and has been having trouble finding the right partner for her so she wants to know what her soul mate is like so she can recognise him when he appears.

Well now you have more information to work with and now you can start to create a reading that will be much more helpful. Instead of asking the Tarot, “What’s my soul make like?” you now ask, “What signs might I see when I have met the right partner for me?” or “What can I do to attract the right partner for me?”

Instead of taking a question on face value, explore it, unpack it and get to the heart of what’s really being asked. You’ll find that you can then address the deeper questions that exist and deliver more meaningful insight.

Ask Follow-Up Questions

psychic questions 3Every question can be broken down into ‘follow-up’ questions that serve to explore the different elements of the original question. So, a question like, “How can I live in alignment with my soul’s purpose?” can be broken down into the following questions:

  • What is coming into my conscious awareness about my soul’s purpose?
  • How can I discover my soul’s purpose?
  • What is my soul’s purpose?
  • How am I presently living in alignment with my soul’s purpose?
  • What inner work do I need to do to be in alignment with my soul’s purpose?
  • What resources are available to me that will help me to live in alignment with my soul’s purpose?
  • What will bring me closer to my soul’s purpose?
  • What may stand in the way of me fulfilling my soul’s purpose and how can I overcome this?

…and so on.

 

Now, do you notice what’s happening here? As we start to break the original question down into follow-up questions, we also start to form the beginnings of your very own customize Tarot spread. You could literally draw one card for each of the questions above and you’d have an in-depth and fully customize Tarot reading.

So for your next Tarot reading, check in with yourself first – Am I asking the right question of the Tarot? Is it open-ended and does it allow for deep exploration and insight? Does it get to the heart of the matter? And are there follow-up questions I could ask?

How To Determine If A Psychic Can Be Trusted

 

Psychic Can Be Trusted 1As you may have speculated, a psychic’s preparation is presumably the most critical factor that ought to be considered when you are hunting down an honest to goodness psychic. Certain callings totally require the preparation of a person before administrations are offered; callings like lawyers, doctors, accountants, and engineers. Psychics ought to be one of these callings as individuals settle on such imperative life choices in view of the information they get.

Along with training, a good money-back guarantee is another great indicator that a psychic can be trusted.

In the beginning of a session, before you tell me anything about your life, I use intuitive ability to focus in and get a sense of what’s going on. I usually pick up the “hot issues” you are facing and the questions you currently have in your life. I give you the opportunity to realize my abilities are real when I tell you specific details about the past and present – details that I could only know by using genuine psychic/intuitive ability.

A few minutes into a session, I give you the choice to proceed forward with the session or to end the session and receive a full refund.

Not only does my guarantee help ease any concerns you may have about the session, it make a statement. With my guarantee, I am basically saying I am confident enough in my abilities to where I know you will be satisfied with what I share with you. I am so confident in my abilities that I am going to give you the CHOICE to proceed forward with the session, with absolutely no risks to you.

Most “psychics” don’t offer this guarantee. Why? Because they can’t. They simply don’t have the true ability to offer this type of experience. Right from the start, they are planning on giving you a “cold reading” and manipulating you to pay for the whole session.

Consider these factors when you are trying to decide if you can trust a psychic or not..

 

Can psychics be trusted? To answer, I would say sometimes yes and sometimes no.

A good psychic can be of great help. They will help you “fill in the blanks” so you can make the best decisions in the most important areas of your life. They will help you understand the feelings and motivations of other people in your life. Most of the time, they will see the probable future outcomes of a situation, so you know the best path to take.

But you want to make sure you invest your time, energy and money into someone who truly has the ability to help you. This way, instead of disappointment, you get the clarity, guidance, and confirmation that you deserve.

Obtaining a Powerful Psychic Reading

PamelaBarnesDo you know how amazing it is to experience a powerful psychic reading? A psychic reading experience can be from drab to fab. There are things that you can do to make your experience unforgettable!

Focus

What’s on your mind that caused you to make an appointment for a reading?  A day or so before your session take a little time and think about the questions you’d like to ask, or the areas you’d like to cover during your appointment.

If your session is with a spiritual medium, this step is even more important.  In your mind, imagine making an appointment with your dearly departed loved one to meet you at the time of your reading.

Keep Calm

It’s totally normal to be nervous prior to a reading.  (I always ask new clients if they are nervous before we begin and 99% say yes).  However, it really helps the energy flow in a session when you are relaxed.

If you arrive at your session and find that you are a bundle of nerves, take a few minutes and talk to the reader.  Tell them you are nervous and spend a few minutes making small talk. This will often be enough to help put you at ease.

Ask Specific Questions

When you ask questions that begin with why, how, or what, you are really opening the door to exploring an issue in depth.  For example, someone might say, “will I ever get along with my in-laws?” which could easily be answered yes or no.

Instead, try asking something like, “what am I supposed to be learning from my relationship with my in-laws?” or “how can I repair my relationship with my in-laws?”

See the difference? The second type of questioning leads the way for an in depth exploration of the issue. You will have a much more powerful psychic reading if you use this style of questioning.

Sometimes, there are even past life connections that come into play that you can’t discover with a yes or no type question.

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Be Energized

This is key to a powerful psychic reading!  Keeping the energy flowing during a reading is super important.   If the energy is not flowing, it’s like trying to drive a car with flat tires.

One great way to do this is to be open to all possibilities.  In your reading, discuss the issues you came for, but welcome the unexpected also. (A good psychic reader will have set the intention that your session is for your highest and best good.)

While it’s true that the reader should be doing most of the talking, that doesn’t mean you have to sit solemnly in silence.  In fact, you should participate to keep the energy going.  You can interact without “giving anything away”.  Even an enthusiastic yes that makes sense keeps the energy high.

Free Your Mind and Remove the Negative Energy

Here’s a great example that happens all the time.  Someone goes to see a spiritual medium and thinks to themselves, I’m only going to believe this is Uncle Jimmy if he talks about smoking cigars.

The medium could give you a lot of validating evidence but if you don’t hear about that cigar, you don’t believe its Uncle Jimmy.  If most of the information makes sense, go with it.  Sometimes, things might not make sense during the reading, but you’ll have an “Oh, now I understand what that means!” moment later on.

Remember:  The job of a spiritual medium is to give those in spirit a voice.  You may not always hear exactly what you want to hear, but you will hear what your loved on in heaven feels is most important.  If you go in with this mindset, your experience will be more enjoyable.

Bring a Pen and a Paper

I always start my sessions by recommending to people that they take notes. Even if you have a memory like an elephant, take notes.  People always say they will remember everything –  they don’t. Write down important points.

Also, things sometimes come up that don’t make sense at the time of a reading. Even if these things seem insignificant, write them down too. They may make sense to you later on, or someone in the family might be able to confirm the information.

Use a Working Phone

Telephone readings are a great option for many people, and most mediums and intuitive readers offer them.  In order to get a powerful psychic reading, it is usually better if you use a land line instead of a cell phone. If a cell phone is all you have, make sure you are in an area where you have good reception.images (6)

Eliminate Disturbances

A powerful psychic reading cannot take place if you are distracted. During your reading, you really want to focus on the task at hand.  If you are having a phone reading, make sure you are in a quiet, comfortable place with no distractions – that means no kids running around, ignoring call waiting, etc.

If you are having a reading in person with a psychic, make sure you turn off your cell phone and are not in a rush.  Readings often go over their allotted time.

Don’t Show Up for Your Reading with a Hangover

Alcohol and recreational drugs can lower your vibration and negatively affect your energetic fields.  For this reason, you should never drink alcohol or take recreational drugs in the 24 hour period prior to your reading.

Have Fun and Enjoy

Above all else, enjoy the experience!  A powerful psychic reading should feel like a conversation with a friend that you don’t want to end. Participate, ask questions, get excited!  Have fun!  If, within 10 minutes of your session you are uncomfortable, or nothing makes sense, politely ask the reader to end the session and refund your money.

How Can A True Psychic Reading Make You Happier & More Confident

download (2)More and more people are turning to psychic readings nowadays to fix any issues they might need help with. They just seem to have an easier time placing their trust in this type of services than in other types. It’s important to note that not only can psychic services help you solve any issues that are troubling you at the moment but they can also help you live a happier life in the long run.

Of course, there are still skeptics out there who have a hard time giving these kind of readings a chance. If you are one of them, then maybe this article will help change your mind.

Here are three distinct ways in which a true psychic reading can make a person more confident and happy:

1. Validation:  “I Knew It!”

Many people who consult intuitive readers are looking for validation.  That may sound a bit odd.  After all, why would you pay a psychic to confirm what you already know?

I’ll use myself as an example.  When I go for an intuitive session, I’m not looking for someone to tell me my future.  What I want is to be validated.  I want to know that I’m on a path towards joy and that what I’m thinking and feeling is correct. I want the psychic or tarot card reader, via connecting with my Spirit Guides, reading my energy, or using their own clairvoyance, to tell me “Yes, what your feeling is correct!”

For example, when I started this website, I knew in my gut that it would help a lot of people.  However, the “human” side of me wanted someone unbiased to say, “Why yes!  Your Spirit Guides think that is a wonderful idea!

images (1)If I’m trying to make a decision, I want to be validated that the choice I’m making is the best one for my soul, and the one that will bring me the most joy.

As an intuitive reader myself, I started noticing that about 95% of the people I’ve given intuitive readings to are looking for the same things.

I’ve heard “I knew it!” many times, and people always seem to gain a sense of confidence having their thoughts and feelings validated.

Here’s another example:

  • You’ve taken on a new business partner.  You have a great feeling about her.  You ask the intuitive reader about this, and she tells you the good qualities about the partner, and what she will bring to the table.  She’s just confirmed what you are feeling, and you feel good about your choice.  Feelings of unease melt away and you move forward in your business with confidence.

Tip for Decision Making: 

When you have a decision to make, ask the psychic reader to show you your options and potential outcomes of each choice.  Many people find insight when they are able to look at Path A vs. Path B.

2. Resonate:  ” I Feel It!”

Ready to learn the second way a true psychic reading can make you feel happier and more confident?

The information will resonate with you, right down to your soul.

  • Beauty woman showing her hand palms. Selective focus.The information and/or messages feel right.  You may find yourself saying, “Yes!”
  • You are moved to tears and feel a sense of release.
  • A sense of joy overcomes you (it may sound corny, but it does happen!)
  • You feel a chill run down your back, or the hairs on your arms stand up.
  • You feel uplifted when the reading is over.

All of these emotions will also help you feel validated!

3. Inspire & Insight:  “I See”

A true psychic reading can can also bring joy and confidence by making you feel inspired and offer insight.  When an intuitive consult has inspired you or given you insight, you may:

  • Praise the lordget excited about life and it’s possibilities
  • learn something new about yourself
  • have a moment where something suddenly clicks and makes sense
  • have an “Aha” moment – a moment of awakening

When this happens, you can feel it in your soul.  Somehow, it just feels right and gets you excited.  It may be the moment you let go of fear.

Knowing the Difference Between a Real and Fake Psychic

download (5)There’s a bunch of psychics out there to choose from online. If you are an average person, you may have some difficulties telling the difference between a genuine psychic and a fake. Frauds, phonies and scam artists can be quite convincing nowadays. They are really good at fooling people, especially those who are grieving or going through a tough time in life, as these people are often more vulnerable to suggestion. But there are telltale signs to help you spot a phony or scam artist.

You can usually spot a fake or scam artist pretending to be a psychic medium by looking for the following signs:

1) Fake psychic mediums and scam artists present vague, general messages rather than accurate evidence.

Spirit communication (mediumship) should always begin with messages that identify the spirit who is communicating with the psychic medium. What is their name? What are the circumstances of their passing? How old where they when they died? How long ago did they die? What was their physical appearance and/or characteristics of their personality? If the psychic medium is unable to give you any identifying evidence of this type, that’s a red flag that they might be a fake. Otherwise, it is a sign that the psychic medium is inexperienced or poorly gifted.

2) Fake psychic mediums and scam artists ask a lot of leading questions.

402xNxare-psychics-real-2.jpg.pagespeed.ic.YN5Unl-CmMSome people call this cold reading. For the most part, scam artists giving a cold reading are fishing around for clues so they can improve their guessing ratio when giving you messages. Yet not every psychic medium who asks a lot of questions is a fake. There are many legitimate psychic mediums who have developed poor habits of asking you a question about what they’re seeing, hearing or feeling instead of just presenting it as a statement.

“Who died in a car accident?” the psychic medium might ask, when what he should have said was, “I have someone in spirit here who died in a car accident.”

Or the psychic medium might be given a message by spirit to talk about a nurse, which will lead to information about the client’s sister who is a nurse. But the medium might say, “Do you know someone who is a nurse?” or “Who is the nurse?”

What the psychic medium should have said was, “They are talking to me about a nurse. Does that make any sense to you?” If the client says yes, the psychic medium can then get more information from the spirit that might lead to the next piece of information, “They are showing me that this nurse if a sibling of yours; I believe they’re saying it’s your sister. They just want to acknowledge and say hello to your sister, the nurse.”

So, to sum up, phony psychics and psychic mediums are known to ask a lot of questions. In fact, they have to ask questions in order to get anything right. Unfortunately, some legitimate psychics and psychic mediums ask a lot of questions, too, which is why it’s so difficult for the average person to know if someone is real or not.

3) Fake psychic mediums and scam artists claim that you are cursed.

You should never give money to any psychic or psychic medium who promises to remove a curse or spell for a fee. There is never any curse or spell and this is the most common scam in this field. These criminals are merely using fear to manipulate people. And scam artists who promise to remove a curse for a fee have been known to charge (and get) thousands, even tens of thousands, of dollars from people using this common scam.

4) Fake psychic mediums and scam artists ask you for personal information like your social security card, driver’s license number, bank account numbers and passwords.

Never give out your social security number, driver’s license number, bank account numbers or passwords to a psychic or psychic medium. If one asks you for this information, it’s a strong sign that something suspicious is up. Hang up and report them to your state Attorney General’s office.

How a True Psychic Reading Can Help You

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There are many benefits you receive from a psychic reading. The most important benefit is that of receiving clear & accurate answers to your questions, answers that empower you to make healthy, successful decisions. Are psychics real? If they are,how can these readings help me?

A true psychic reading done by a gifted intuitive can, and here are some of the ways that it can help you.

1. It can validate your thoughts

A true reading can give you that “I knew it” feeling. This may sound odd to most people. After all, why would you seek psychic information on something that you already know? Well, here’s the thing – we human beings tend to second guess ourselves, and we need validation on a regular basis. This is the reason why many of us visit psychic readings in the first place: for validation. Not all of us want our futures predicted, but most of us want to know that we’re right about something that we know, something that we feel or something that we are about to do. We want to know that we are on the right path. If we are on the verge of making a decision, we want to be assured that the decision we’re making is the best one possible.

2. It can inspire you

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Another great help that we can get from psychic readings: insight about the future. While psychics cannot predict the future in great detail, they can tell a list of possibilities in your life, based on things they pick up from today. These may or may not happen, but getting insight from a psychic can make you feel inspired and confident as you learn about things that may happen in the future. At the end of a reading, you may end up feeling excited about the future and the possibilities that life has to give you.

3. It can help you move on

The death of someone you love is a very tragic thing, and can leave many unanswered questions. A reading with a clairvoyant medium can help you move on from this tragedy by helping you connect with your departed loved one. A session with a medium can help you connect and ask questions so that you can find answers, achieve closure and move on to the next stage of your life.

4. It can help you make sense of things

There are times when things in life make no sense at all. You may have problems at work or issues in your relationships, which may confuse you. A psychic can help you look into and make sense of these things, so that you see things in perspective and understand why they happen and why they are happening to you. Understanding, then, helps you make better decisions and choices.

Have you had a psychic reading before? In what way has it helped you as a person?

5 Tips Before Getting a Psychic Reading

psychic-readingA powerful psychic reading can be a pretty amazing experience. And we all know that things like the experience and knowledge of the intuitive reader (or medium) can take your reading from drab to fab.  All of us wanted to peak in the future to gain insights for a better life. Psychics offer this possibility, however there are some things to know before making an appointment…

1. Psychics are not always right. Most good psychics will tell you only about 80% (on a good day!) of future predictions will come to pass. Why? Well, I tell my clients, what I am showing you is possibilities – you still have sway over future events both positively and negatively. I like to use future events to empower your life today.

2. Get referrals. I suggest only making appointments with people you have been referred to, researched online or spoken to yourself. Let’s face it, there are scams everywhere – so be smart. Lots of psychics have web sites where you can read about them, styles of intuitive reading(tarot, runes…), articles they’ve written, etc. Discover what resonates with you. This little extra work will pay off in a good reading.

3. Bring specific topics to look into for your appointment. Chances are – the psychic will touch upon your big issues without need of your input. However, I believe each of us gets the reading we “need” instead of maybe the one we “want.” So the psychic may not immediately focus on the topic you desire without guidance from you.

4. Be open. Chances are the psychic will tell you some things you were not expecting, both good and bad. Some of the words will resonate with you at the session while others words will become clear in your mind days, even weeks later. Most psychics offer to record the appointment so you can go back later and listen. Often, as you listen again, you will hear things you missed the first time.

5. Have fun and remember this is information. I have been going to psychics since my early twenties and have been reading for others since 1996. I love psychic readings – however, over the years, I have seen persons who have been completely wrong as well as persons who are on the money nine times out of ten. Use the information gleaned from your session to empower your life, not a crutch to wait for the inevitable outcomes.

Psychic readings can be a powerful tool to transform your life. They offer a chance gain insights, heal old wounds, to begin to live your best life today. May it be so.

8 Ways to Identify Fraud Psychics

download (24)It is heartbreaking to write this article because there is also a lot of good astrologers who operate in good faith and wholeheartedly want to help their clients. But there is a small number of bad astrologers out there who cast a bad image to all of the good workers.

There are a lot more bad astrologers out there than reasonably competent ones, primarily because people refuse to suspend their disbelief and keep sending them money. Due to the public’s ignorance of what they can expect from competent astrology, combined with easy access via the Internet, there is now far greater opportunity for incompetent or even fraudulent astrologers to inflict themselves on the public. This article seeks to help you protect yourself and your money from these individuals.

Below is a list of ten ways to identify psychics, readers, and astrologers who may be fraudulent or at least incompetent.

1. The Door-to-Door Salesman.

This is an excellent indicator of the competence of a given astrologer. The nice thing about identifying the hard sell is that you can see it in any setting; on the Internet, in person, or over the telephone. Also, this is something that will be apparent very quickly, before you actually have to shell out any of your hard earned money. The reason that bad astrologers do the hard sell is because they have to keep new blood coming in since they don’t get a lot of return business, and also because they are greedy. It may also be some kind of strange psychological compensation, since they know they are not very good. All people in the service professions have to promote their services, but the manner and extent to which this is done will be a big tipoff as to the quality of service you can expect to receive. Go with your gut on this one – if it feels like the New Age version of a vacuum salesman’s pitch, flee.

  • On the Internet, the website will often constitute a protracted advertisement for the astrologer’s services. The general format will be practically indistinguishable from a website selling vitamins, cheap mortgages, and other forms of snake oil. There will often be a profusion of pictures, flashing, twirling graphics and other devices designed to hypnotize you into paying them a lot of money. This is the Internet equivalent of the storefront psychic with a million neon signs in the window.
  • Some astrologers using the hard sell are more subtle, and have rather tasteful websites, but it is rather apparent that their main goal is to sell you things rather than educate you or give you anything for free. Anything given for free will be of poor quality, automated, and/or very limited in scope. The website as a whole will be heavily geared toward telling you how amazing they are, through testimonials and general off-the-charts levels of hyperbole. There will often, though certainly not always, be intrusive/loud advertisements on the site.
  • In person, you will get a lot of hyperbole, but it may be combined with intense one-on-one discussion of how spiritual you are and how you are at just the right time in your life to move to the next level spiritually. If you have the bad judgment to reveal any of your actual difficulties to this person, they will promise you heaven and earth to fix your problems through their amazing consultation.
  • Over the phone, the situation is similar to the information you would get in person, but, assuming you have contacted a phone psychic/astrologer, special rules apply that you can read below. In sum: hang up now.

Other tell-tale signs of the hard sell: time pressure, and other psychological pressure that makes you feel bad about yourself or makes you want to act impulsively for the risk of losing a “good deal.”

Finally, no astrologer can:

  • download (25)help you win the lottery (if they could, they would have won it for themselves and wouldn’t have to do anything, including astrology, for a living),
  • fix your life with no effort on your part. Whether this is supposed to be done through psychic, magical, or medical means, if you do not have to put an extensive amount of time and effort into remedying your situation, it isn’t going to work. This includes helping you get your lover back, make you more attractive to other people, and generally making all the things that you did wrong suddenly better.

Imprint the following in your mind: If the astrologer advertises on Google, just head in the other direction.

2. Dr. Feel Good.

You probably will not be able to identify this one until you had a consultation with the astrologer and spent your money. However, once you see it in practice, you can develop something of a nose for it and avoid other astrologers who do this. These are the astrologers that affirm everything that you do. Of course, they’re particularly seductive and effective because none of us really want to believe we have done anything wrong. Our spouse didn’t walk out on us because we cheated on them, but rather because they were insensitive. We didn’t lose our jobs because we were lazy and practically lived at the corner bar, but rather because our boss hated us. These astrologers are very happy to play into the fantasies of ourselves that we have created. There is an old-fashioned word for this: flattery.

After the consultation is over, you will feel a strange sense of emptiness, or alternatively, nausea, much like eating a tub of ice cream for dinner. Both the consultation and the ice cream share an important characteristic: empty calories. This is because these astrologers are extremely adept at mirroring back to you whatever you are saying, without really giving you any concrete predictions, answers or specific advice.

3. Dr. Freud and Dr. Jung.

This is the astrologer who wants to analyze your psyche, regardless of whether he or she is actually licensed to do so or has had any formal education from a reputable school. These astrologers will typically have a lot of the elements of #2 above, but it will be packaged in sophisticated and specialized therapeutic vocabulary. They attempt to marry therapy and astrology, with the result that they do not do either particularly well. I would suggest going to an astrologer if you want astrology, and to a credentialed therapist if you need therapy. If you insist on mixing the two, I leave you with three words: demand rigorous credentials.

4. The Bigot.

This one is surprising, given that most astrologers are considered somewhat outre in mainstream society. There are a few astrologers out there who will treat you, the client, badly because you’re not of the right color, gender, social class, national origin, and all of the other categories on which people are not supposed to discriminate. Heaven forbid you happen to be gay, living in an unorthodox relationship of any kind, or are anything other than a straight WASP living somewhere northeast of the Tommy Hilfiger/A&F/Ralph Lauren catalogs. Again, you probably will not be able to detect this until you get your reading. Suddenly your astrologer proclaims all of your relationships or endeavors will end unhappily, etc., without being too specific as to the reason, but also without asking for more money to fix it (which would make them a con man/woman; see items 7 and 8 below). They disapprove of you, and are passively-aggressively taking it out on you in your reading. And you are paying them for the honor.

5. The Closet Incompetent.

You will very often encounter these astrologers at entertainment functions, but I have spotted them in many other settings as well. One experience springs to mind where a party host hired an astrologer, who proceeded to go on a well-known website that provides free canned horoscope interpretations and read the stuff right off of the screen to adoring clients/partygoers. All this while being paid several hundred dollars for the night. If you happen to have any passing acquaintance with astrology and the astrologer says something really outrageously wrong (“Aquarius is a water sign”), or if your astrology reading suddenly feels a little lightweight, feel free to hang up or walk out or close your browser right then and there. Anything else is wasted time and money.

6. The Guru.

These people are very easy to spot, because they charge exorbitant amounts of money, and are very difficult to see due to their large followings. This does not mean that popular astrologers are all gurus, it’s the whole combination of identifying factors that makes them such. In consulting with them, you will encounter an ego the size of a small country, and unless you go along with their script, you will be summarily cut off. The gurus have taken the art of theatrics to a whole new level, and you will likely leave their presence wanting to give them all your worldly possessions and proclaim their amazing powers to the world. However, when you actually consider what they have done for you in terms of practical and verifiable predictions or advice, you’ll find that they come up short.

images (31)7. The Psychic or Clairvoyant Astrologer.

Any astrologer who claims to predict using psychic powers, intuition, or clairvoyance is pulling your leg and probably setting you up for a con game. Personally, I am a great believer in the ability to see the future and seemingly unknowable information via psychic means. So take it from me that when you do astrology, you cannot simultaneously be doing clairvoyance. You are either analyzing the symbols in front of you on the page from an astrological perspective or you’re seeing the future clairvoyantly. These are two separate things.

More to the point, most astrologers who advertise themselves as a combination psychic and astrologer are usually con men or closet incompetents (#5 above). These are largely, but not always, the same people who advertise on Google and in the back of your local free newspaper, right next to the sex hotlines. Alternatively, their beatifically smiling faces can be seen in New Age directories. Pseudo Native American shamanism or something similar may be involved with the more sophisticated types.

A subset of this type of astrologer is the phone psychic astrologer. These people are neither psychic nor astrologers, but they do read from scripts, and the very best have lengthy scripts memorized that they recite in just the right way, down to pauses and intonation, to get you to reveal information about yourself which they can later make seem as though it came to them from the ether. If they are really good and really greedy, they will do a confidence game on you of varying types, generally leaving you hundreds and sometimes thousands of dollars poorer.

Personally, I find this species of astrologer (if they can be called that) fascinating, because of the amazing uniformity that their patter follows.

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The main characteristics to observe, that are common to all psychic con men/women are:

  • The assertion that you are cursed or bewitched and this is responsible for your bad luck (this is extremely important as an introduction, as it leads to shelling out more money to remove the curse).
  • Your problems are weighing on you and are making it nearly impossible to proceed (establishing the client’s trust – who does not have problems?).
  • You have been betrayed by someone you loved (who hasn’t?)
  • Your moods range from optimism to pessimism (whose don’t?)
  • You are entering a period of great love, wealth, etc., but are at a critical juncture where you could still lose it all, so…(oh, no, what shall I do?)
  • SEND MONEY NOW! (sense an overarching theme here?)

8. The Semi-literate

If you run into an astrologer whose advertisement or website is consistently misspelled or looks like a text message, I can almost guarantee you it’s a confidence game. This is because these websites are thrown up (pun fully intended) very quickly with the intent of making a quick buck, after which they will shortly vanish. I don’t know why fraudsters often cannot spell, but they can’t. Maybe because if they could spell, they could get a real job. It’s one of the signs by which they identify themselves to the unwary, I suppose, something like Lucifer’s odor of sulfur. They cannot help but reveal their true nature.

So, how do you find good astrologers, and what is considered a good astrologer?

5 Important Tips Before Consulting a Psychic

 If you are interested in having a reading, this will help you understand the things that honest and ethical intuitive readers and spiritual mediums do.  This will not only help you avoid getting scammed, it will also help you get a session that is beneficial.

Here are some important tips about psychics and the psychic reading experience to make sure you have the most positive, beneficial, and empowering experience possible. 

tarot-reader1. The definition of a good psychic reading is an experience that exhibits the following things:

  • It provides the client intuitive, accurate insights combined with practical advice and guidance
  • It cultivates faith and inspiration from you
  • It inspires self-examination and self-awareness
  • It takes into account your own abilities and special gifts
  • It respects your free will

2. The best way to define psychic ability: 

The first part of understanding psychic abilities is understanding intuition. Known commonly as an instinct or gut reaction, intuition is often more accurate than many realize. Everyone has intuition, but not everyone’s intuition is as developed or trained as others’.

Put simply, psychic ability is the refined use of intuition. It is more active and precise. Psychic insight requires you to focus your intuition without the distraction of random thoughts. This requires practice, trust and, very often, training.

3. How to tell a real psychic from a scam artist: 

download (3)When you speak to a psychic for the first time, be aware that a real, professional psychic will not ask you for anything other than your name, your date of birth, and your question. They may ask for names of places or people you refer to and their dates of birth, but that will be it. If you want to tell them more, that is okay, but if you find a psychic trying to pump more and more information out of you than the basics we mention above, be aware that they are not a legitimate psychic and their intentions are not honest.

4. So, should I test a psychic if I speak to one? 

Simply put, no, you shouldn’t. Another misconception that plays a big role in the psychic reading experiencing is going into a reading with negative intentions. If you’re not open to the possibilities of expanding your horizons and spiritual capabilities, then it may not be a good idea to get a psychic reading. Testing a psychic is a bad idea for several reasons, including you’ve already put a negative intent on the experience prior to going into it. If you’re trying to ‘stump’ the psychic, you’re only going to block your own reading. A psychic reading is an intimate and divine interaction between two people. It requires a healthy atmosphere of love, trust, mutual respect, and sharing.

5. Keep an eye out for: 

  • download (4)Any psychic claiming they see a problem or curse around you that can be fixed or cured for a price. There are no such things are curses, by the way.
  • Any psychic who needs you to pay them in order to clear or unblock your aura or chakras
  • Any psychic claiming you need to buy an expensive item like a crystal, stone, or candle
  • Any psychic who claims to be 100% accurate

Never forget that a good, professional, and honest reader will be absolutely honest with you and tell you what they can and can’t do. They will do their best using their unique psychic capabilities to give you an honest reading, sharing with you any truths that they see for you. A professional psychic will always honor and respect you as well as your privacy, and recognize the bond and sacredness in the exchange between you two. Do your own research and find a psychic that’s right for you and your needs!

Are You Dealing with a Fake or Genuine Psychic?

fortune_teller_gypsy_psychic_crystaThere’s a lot of psychics online and offline around the world. Sometimes we are having hard time figuring out who is genuine and who is fake. Some will only give you false hopes on your relationship and give wrong advises. Worst is that sometimes you ended up breaking up with the one you love because of a fake reading. This article will give you a clearer idea of how many fake psychics are actually out there preying on desperate people, people in real need of help.

As a genuine psychic myself, I find it a disgusting thought that there are people out their pretending to be something there not, but why do they pretend and what do they get out of it? Well, the plain facts are that greed is one of the major reasons for their pretence. To these fraud artists, the needs of others mean little, they care little about the psychological or emotional damage that their scam maybe causing, to those who need reassurance that there is light at the end of the tunnel for them.

The above information even for me would be enough to make me want to stay clear of psychic readings and psychics readers, in general. There is hope though for those who would like to find a genuine reader and an honest reading. So, let us see if we can separate the Frauds to the Genuine Psychic Readers.

1) Fake psychic online will ask for the country or city you live in and sometimes your age, this is because where you live can say a lot about the kind of life, education and your social status – work class, middle class, upper class etc.

You see, say you found out someone said they lived in Egypt, an ordinary person could guess the way this person live and the life they are leading. A person age and sex can tell fake psychics things about the general lifestyle interests and sometimes even the status of relationships. By using simple techniques often used in the study of Sociology.

2) Many fake psychics on-line ask for your date of birth or your star sign. This is so that they can check their local newspaper for that days astrology reading, then they just type it up differently and make it sound like their actually picking up information from you.

download (15)3) A fake psychic will make all kinds of promises that they can bring back your lover with spells and candles which, of course, will all add up to extra and expensive charges. Ịf a psychic says you have a curse on you, your family or friend, this is a definite warning sign that you have found a fake psychic. Because curses, hexes etc, do not exist, and fear can be a powerful tool when it involves your nearest and dearest.

4) Many of the tips I have already given you have been used by fraud psychics, both on and off-line. Another sign that you are dealing with a fraudulent psychic is if they tell you they are famous or internationally world known, or have read for Hollywood stars. If you have never heard of them and all they have is an on-line site, then it is more realistic that they are frauds, if they were so world famous then you, your family or friends would have heard something about them.

5) Fraud psychics don’t like to be tested, so they will never be interested in you asking a few questions that only you have the answers too. If they will not let you ask a few questions first or refuse to do a general reading, then it is more than likely they’re con artists. A real genuine psychic can tell you about your past, present and future with some in-depth knowledge that not everyone would know. If all a psychic is willing to do is give you airy-fairy future readings with no personal or relevant information, then you got a fake psychic on your hands.

6) For face-to-face readings offline, it is better for you to go wearing some casual clothes, wear no rings, jewelry or designer wear. Everything from the way you sit, talk, clothes and jewelry you wear can tell a fake psychic a lot about you. If you speak very proper using a lot of big words, then it probably means your well educated, designer clothes can tell the reader you not short on cash. Jewelry, rings in particular, can tell about relationships, jewelry in general can tell the reader your social class, job status whether you are in a well-paid job etc. Do not give anything away if you want a real genuine and honest reading. If you drive but can walk to your reading then do so. Because regardless of what you wear or do not wear, a real psychic will be able to pick up on your life regardless of the above.

7) Do not let a fake psychic reel you in and manipulate you into giving them more information than you should or need to. A real genuine psychic will never ask you questions, a genuine psychic will only ever give you answers to your questions. Fake psychics can manipulate people into answering their questions and elaborating on their own answers, and then the fake reader will give you back your own answer but change it around to make it sound like they are picking something up psychically from you.

scam8) A fake psychic will be more interested in telling you what they think you want to hear, rather than being completely blunt and telling you your situation or problem like it is. For example, say you go to a psychic wanting to know if the guy/girl you are with is the one for you. A fake psychic, through a series of manipulative questioning, will have you tell them what you hope the answer will be without you realizing it. Then answer your question exactly how you want it to be. For the fake psychic, it is not about caring for others, or trying to help others, but more about getting you hooked for more readings. All the fake psychic cares about is money and themselves.

9) A fake psychic will try to reel you in and make a lot of cash out of you by pretending that they are your friend and that they care. Fake psychics are experts in manipulation. A genuine psychic will be blunt, honest and will not try to be your friend, but will honestly provide you with a professional service like any other advisor or consultant.

10) Fake feedback is a big problem in finding a genuine psychic among the fakes. If you go to an online psychic site, where the psychics are reviewed and find hundreds of glowing reviews and no average or bad reviews that there is a good chance that this psychic is a fake. All psychics have good and bad days and no psychic is 100% accurate, so if the reviews do not reflect that, and the psychics profile is filled with 100% worth of completely glowing reviews, then you will know that this fake psychic has been doctoring his/her reviews. Some psychic sites allow the psychics to use only certain reviews, so fake psychics can manipulate desperate individuals into giving them 5 stars reviews.

Then there is the age old tactic of the fake psychic to write their own reviews, or have their family and friends come and rate them and write reviews to make them look genuine.

11) A genuine psychic will give you some personal information about you that is not common knowledge to prove they are truly connected with you.

12) Genuine psychics give you the good news and the bad news; they do not leave out the bits they think might lose them precious reviews or rating points. A genuine psychic will give you an honest reading that does not sound like something straight out of a fairy tale. A genuine psychic will not mind you testing them by asking them a few questions of your own choice.

13) Genuine psychics do not need your date of birth, star sign or the country you live in, because a psychic reading is very different to an astrology reading, if the information given sound like its astrology from a newspaper or magazine then you have found a fake psychic. A genuine psychic will only ever recommend a reading every 6-12 months.

images (19)14) Genuine psychics never talk of evil spirits or energy attached or around a person – a real psychic is not out to scare you or make you afraid.

15) Genuine psychics do not give you false hope; they do not charge high prices or promise you anything more than an honest reading. A genuine reader will never try to manipulate you into returning to them for other readings, a genuine psychic will not ask for any information other than your first name, real psychics don’t ask questions, they give answers.

16) A genuine and professional psychic does not divulge information like deaths, accidents or anything like this during a reading – this is unprofessional behavior for any psychic and is another fear and manipulation tactic of the fake psychic.

Sad to say but there are so many frauds out there who are only interested in swindling others. I hope this article helps you find genuine psychics and mediums in today’s world.