How to Get Ready for a Medium Reading

Medium Reading

People often wonder what happens to their loved one after they die. A psychic can give you answers about a medium reading which is a kind of reading where the psychic will talk to the spirit that has passed on from death.

In order to be ready for this kind of reading, you need to know what to expect and be ready to prepare and communicate with the reading.

A medium can do a reading, but it can be hard for someone, especially someone that is new to this kind of reading. Many people will approach it in a skeptical way and this article can help you to know what to expect.

What Will You Expect?

Before you even get a medium reading, you need to understand how this works and what the psychic will do. The psychic will give you information that they get from the spirit world, and they will give you information from this person you are asking for.

Psychics do not communicate with the spirit world in a hidden way, but they talk to the spirits that are around them.

As they talk to the spirits, they can give you the messages that the spirits say to them. Some mediums will become trance like before they give you information.

Whatever you want to tell your loved one that has died, the psychic can connect with their energy and give you an experiences. This can bring healing to your life and there is no need to be afraid of this kind of reading.


You need to know what you want to find out in this medium reading. Once you know what to expect, know that psychics have different reasons for getting these readings. Some will do healing and some just want answers.

You need to know what kind of needs that you have and what desires you have. Having intentions is one way to make the reading work.

Finding the Right Psychic

All psychics do different things and communicate differently. It is important that you find one that you connect with to make the reading better for you.

Some will do mental readings, trance readings, and use different tools. The kind of reading that you get will be based on the psychics experiences and their ways of doing things.

Some psychics are found online, and many people trust this. Do your research and find out which psychics are recommended.

What Questions to Ask

Do don’t ask yes and no questions but make the reading more beneficial by asking open ended questions. Do not be too vague and make sure you ask what you want to know.

Clearing the Mind

You need to make sure that you are open minded and that you are not already upset or disbelieving when you go to the reading. This can make the reading unsuccessful.

Here are ways to clear your mind to be open minded:

  • Go for a walk-in nature.
  • Exercise.
  • Listen to calming music.
  • Talk about your goals.
  • Stop what you are doing and meditate.


You need to make sure that you are connected with the psychic so that they can connect with your loved one. Share some memories of them and talk to them.


When you see a psychic for the first time, do not have a close mind and be open. Don’t waste your time if you don’t believe.

Questions About Your Loved One to Ask

Here are some questions you can ask:

  • How can I find closure?
  • What does my loved one wish to show me?
  • How are they doing?
  • Why do I keep dreaming about them?
  • How can I get forgiveness from them?

Spiritual Being Questions:

  • Who are my guides?
  • What messages are my guides giving me?
  • How can I talk to my guides?
  • How can I reach my best self?

Types of Mediums

There are different types of mediums:

Mental Mediums

These mediums will raise their vibrational frequency and will get on the same energy as your loved one. They will do this, and they will be able to give you the answers you want from your dead loved one.

Trance Mediums

These mediums will go into a trance and get the answers from your loved ones. They will not let their ego take control and they will communicate with your loved ones.

Physical Mediums

This kind of medium will use energies to get the spirit to show itself. You might hear them knock or ring a bell.

Voice Mediums

Some mediums will just talk to the spirits and will sound like them in their voice when they give answers.


Channeling is when a medium allows the spirit to go into them and talk through them.


People will go to a medium for different reasons but most of the time for some kind of closure. Ask the questions that you need to get answers to so that you can move forward in your life.

No matter the reasons, you need to prepare for this kind of reading and make sure that you have the right intentions and that you find the perfect medium before you even start the reading.